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i hate my dad *he makes no one happy by being angry*
ok to cut the chase and get straight to it, i hate my dad, i allways have and just when i think hees changed he hasnt and that wont ever change with the way he is, Ssooo does any one know a good way to calm myself down after he has peed me off so badly because breathin excersises just aint workin any more.
it all started a few days ago when my dad bought a newish laptop and installed all this stuff on it, we had a couple of arguments then because i KNOW what im doing i installed like 4 different wireless internets before, but today just got to me so badly, he came in said were installing some anti virus thing because my brother (who has downs sindrome a mental disablity) has been downloading stuff that can give me spy ware and viruses, all i said was "yeh but..." and instantly my dad starts his roar on humanity about how hees TELLING me its going on there, he doesnt spend ANy time at all on this computer i know where to and what to do (sorry to toot my own horn but compared to what this fat idiot knows its legendary) i have never ever tried to fight back with him but tonight just blew it i screamed at the asshole, and 2 days before xmas... this isnt what its about this hasnt ever happend to my family, but if you can see my point as well as his (if there are any)... yeh thats abotu it, sorry for the badly written last sentance, ime gonna go blow the hell outa sumin
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parents can be so annoying sometimes... i can see things from your point of view, but i can also see things from his. while you may be right in this situation and know more about computers than him, i think he's just trying to help. and if he isn't.... whatever, then.
i think you need a way to blow off steam after an arguement-- like here, you're doing it by letting out what you feel, while asking for advice. and since you like computers so much, maybe you could start a journal on your computer. challenge yourself to write in it everyday (but let's hope it's pasword protected!)
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thats kinda like my dad only mine is wors he will scream at me if i cross my legs what i do is meditate it feels like your on a roller coster some times it feels so good you shoold try it it really really works good luck and have a merry christmas
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I don't know. I do know some things aren't worth arguing over.
Listen, it's his computer. If he wants anti-virus, then help him put it on without saying things that makes him feel stupid.
I mean, let's be honest here. You say you hate him and he is a "fat idiot" etc., etc., and I'm sure he realizes you feel that way.
The fact of the matter is, HE is the parent, and yah, HE'S telling YOU, not the other way around.
There is no sense fighting with him about it. There is no sense fighting over much of anything with him. All you are doing is getting angry, blowing up, and making your own life miserable with hate and anger.
Try to think positively instead of so negatively. Negativity only makes you miserable, but if you look on the bright side of life, then the rotten stuff doesn't seem so bad.
It could always be worse.
ygs-29/f
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