Member Since: December 22, 2007
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Last Update: December 23, 2007
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im a 16 year old guy who is 6 foot 5 and was 180 pounds i am now 130 am i an idiot for losing thT MUCH WEIGHT but before i lose weight i was unhappy can anyone tell me whats wrong with me (link)
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a lot of people think that eating disorders only affect girls, but they're wrong. you didn't exactly say how you lost the weight, but it still sounds as though you do have an eating disorder (even if you ate normally but exercised obsessively, it's still considered part of one)
it sounds like you have a skewed body image. there are many places you can go for counseling that deal with this problem.
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16, F
(Don't know if this is the right category!)
So last night my friend and I were acting crazy at the mall. I have no I idea why! Could it be becuase we were on our periods? Here's what we did:
-joked with our employee friends at a shoe store. I like 1 0f them and he gave this other girl a 'lap dance' in there. I wasn't really mad I was just playing and she caught my eye.
-everything was hilarious.
-had a conversation with this guy who came in there. Cracked him up, got his #
-met these guys and talked n laughed crazy with them (they thought i was drunk? So I played a long)
-the girl from the shoe store mimicked (Sp.) Me, gave us a hand gesture, so we turned around, took off our heels, and yelled at the girl. She gave the biggest attitude. Asking us why we were talking about her and we weren't!!
-got escorted out the store by shoe store our amigos. (Who thought I had taken 'a pill' because of my behavior.)
-went to the movies with one of our shoe store amigos. He brought a friend.
-lied to my mom saying we had a ride cause she was tired. My friend's mom couldn't pick us up because it was 12:30am and was pissed.
-later asked for rides from random people!
-oh and not to mention made another guy laugh and got his number.
-complimented random people.
So the conclusion is, we ended up in the freezing cold at 1:00 in the morning outside the mall waiting for my dad. I AM not that kind of person. I'm embarassed I walked in a store and yelled at a girl. Embarassed of a lot, but I don't know why i/we were acting like that. Oh and if you have any suggestions on how I can apologize to our shoe store amigos about our behavior? One reason also, I think I yelled at her is because I got in a fight before (I HAD to) and I felt like I didn't stand up for myself as much as I could have, and lately people have been being rude and I haven't spoken up. But anyways, thanks for the help in advance!! (link)
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i think maybe you were just high off of life... it happens to the best of us! just apoligize to your shoe store amigos and assure them you weren't on any kind of pill. i don't think you're crazy, just having fun in the moment.
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I always have this one dream when something very important is going to happen to me. Whenever it happens it means something will happen, A death, A relationship, Anything life changing.It scares me because I know something is gonna happen and theres nothing I can do about it. Im in my moms old truck and its completely empty, its rolling toward the ocean, I look out the window and i see myself with the girl I love, usually it is flashbacks of my life, Im laying there with the girl i love and i wave to myself, the truck hits the ocean water and i drowned, then i wake up. Every time i have this dream i understand it more, it hasnt seemed like it was gonna end till now. I dont know what that means, am i gonna die or will i help myself from the sinking truck? (link)
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i think this reaccuring dream is trying to tell you something. are you viewing this from inside he truck or outside?
i think maybe it has soemthing to do with you leaving the old you behind (the "death of you" in your mom's old truck) to be with this girl that you love. does the you that's waving look happy or not?
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I'm a 15/f and I hate talking on the phone. I get really stressed out when I have to arrange a tutoring date with my tutor (who's an old man) I just CANNOT talk on the phone with ANYONE. I like it better on the computer where I can't see their face nor hear their voice. I get stressed out in social situations such as sleepovers, parties (especially PARTIES...I start to FREAK out) I just dislike them. I get extremely scared. I don't know WHY though. And whenever I have to talk to a teacher about my grade, I'd just rather not and I'd rather just fail a test or something. I CANNOT get over this. I always have a feeling that I'm being watched and that people are making fun of me.
What can I do?? D: GAH!! (link)
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i'm the same, 15/f, think i have some of the same issues as you. i hate calling anyone, especially if it's the first time. it's like, i'm afraid of getting a wrong number and tlaking to someone i don't know. and if a wring number calls me, i hang up because i freeze up and can't talk.
this problem has actually lost me money, since i refused to call my former employer about a paycheck i didn't get for the last day of my summer job. that was a few months ago and i never did call.
for me, i try to convince myself that it's not as bad as i'm making it seem. i'm not a shy person, really, but sometimes i freak out like you do. man... i wish i could gove better advice on this, but i guess i'm kinda stuck too. well, if you wanna talk, i'm here, though! no face-to-face required :)
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I am 16 years old and I really want to see a therapist. I just need someone to talk to. I cannot ask my mom because she is simply a bitch and does not believe I have any issues. All she thinks of me is that I am a drama queen. Please, I all I need is someone to trust and talk to.
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talk to someone online. it's nice an anonymous, and you can find people who have gone through the same things as you. and i'm here if you need me!
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So yeah I'm like 15 and i'm a teenage girl who is having a really hard time with life and I think I should just kill myself. Nothing ever goes my own way. Guys never like me. People hate me in general I'm just an annoynce to everyone. I hate life. It never gets better it just changes and it still sucks after that. I'm sick of being depressed. Really I just want to lock myself in my room and cry then starve myself then die. I hate being a teenager its not like being a kidd its diff. Everything is confusing and nothing is ever how you imagined or wished it to be. So I dont know what to do ? Any advice? (link)
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i am the exact same age as you, and i'm going through the same confusing time in my life. don't kill yourself. it will get easier from here.
try to keep looking up, and looking for the good things in everyday life. it's fine if you cry once in a while, it's good to let it all out. but if you kill yourself, think of what that would do to the people around you. and all the things that might have been....
just know that you aren't alone. i know, somethimes it feels like you're being buried alive, and no matter how much you try to dig yourslef out, more and more just gets piled on you.
if you ever need a friend or just someone to talk to, then just contact me, or whatever. i'll be here if you need me.
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What is the Gifted and Talented??
My Moms getting paperwork in the mail about me joining like a club for smart people. And I get good grades but Im not smart... I donno know.
And like someone said if u stay in it its a good way to get scholarhips for colledge.
I dont even know what it is? And I know people who are in it and there weird people... I dont wanna be a weird person! (link)
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wow, i remember the Gifted and Talented Program... i was in it from 2nd or 3rd Grade to 6th Grade. And hey! i'm not weird!
...okay i am, but that's a recent thing. i was (mostly) normal while in Talent.
it was actually kind of fun in the program. i'm not super smart or anything, but it has to do with the scores you get on standardized tests, along with your grades. i don't remeber ever really doing anything in Talent, excapt for solving logic and other types of puzzles.
i think you should give it a try. You might like it, and perhaps even become friends with these so-called "weird" people.
i don't know about college scholarships, though, because they closed the program due to budget cuts when i was in 6th grade.
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ok to cut the chase and get straight to it, i hate my dad, i allways have and just when i think hees changed he hasnt and that wont ever change with the way he is, Ssooo does any one know a good way to calm myself down after he has peed me off so badly because breathin excersises just aint workin any more.
it all started a few days ago when my dad bought a newish laptop and installed all this stuff on it, we had a couple of arguments then because i KNOW what im doing i installed like 4 different wireless internets before, but today just got to me so badly, he came in said were installing some anti virus thing because my brother (who has downs sindrome a mental disablity) has been downloading stuff that can give me spy ware and viruses, all i said was "yeh but..." and instantly my dad starts his roar on humanity about how hees TELLING me its going on there, he doesnt spend ANy time at all on this computer i know where to and what to do (sorry to toot my own horn but compared to what this fat idiot knows its legendary) i have never ever tried to fight back with him but tonight just blew it i screamed at the asshole, and 2 days before xmas... this isnt what its about this hasnt ever happend to my family, but if you can see my point as well as his (if there are any)... yeh thats abotu it, sorry for the badly written last sentance, ime gonna go blow the hell outa sumin (link)
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parents can be so annoying sometimes... i can see things from your point of view, but i can also see things from his. while you may be right in this situation and know more about computers than him, i think he's just trying to help. and if he isn't.... whatever, then.
i think you need a way to blow off steam after an arguement-- like here, you're doing it by letting out what you feel, while asking for advice. and since you like computers so much, maybe you could start a journal on your computer. challenge yourself to write in it everyday (but let's hope it's pasword protected!)
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ive been going out with kid for only a week and a day. when he asked me out, it was really random and stuff(i didnt really like him) but as the week went on, we talked on the phone and in the halls and my best friend and her boyfriend said us 4 should hang out at her byfriends house. so i was really excited the whole day. so we got there and said hi and kissed and then the 4 of us made it to the couch. he kinda had his hand over my boob and suff but not like a prev grab kinda way, like i didnt mind it. so i felt weird making out in front of my best friend and her bf( they have been going out for a year and obvii are experienced a lot and stuff) so i kinda just laied in his arms and i knew he wanted to make out. well my friend and her bf left around the corner to do something and we made out really quick and he was soooo bad (it felt like in the movie blades of glory) but you know i still went along with ituntil they came back. well 2 other times the same thing happened and by the end of the night i just wanted to leave like i was totally turned off or whatever, and it was really akward when im with him or on the phone. this kid is really nice and sweet though and my friend really thinks were a goood match and the awkwardness will ware off but i dont know, like i even asked her not to have him hang out with us again tonight! just cause i dont want to make out with him again ( i mean i was expecting to be in the moment and butterflies in my stomach) so now i dont know what to do ( i dont wanna break up with him beore christmas cause i would feel bad and stuff) (link)
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something similar has happened to me. as bad as i felt, i just had to break it off with the i was going out with at the time... when i kissed him, i felt absolutely nothing, and i knew we weren't right for each other at all. i think you should give it a little longer, but if you really don't feel anything for him then you shoulnd't lead him on any more.
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my hamster had 7 babys she couldnt even fit through the tubes. i thought they were only suposed to have 3 or 4? the dad hamster shredded up the first baby. ther is a ball on the top of the cage and she had them all in there but its gross theres nothing in therre excep blood poop and the hamsters it stinks so bad and it happend today. what else do i do for the babys? all the babys and mom are laying in the ball and it stinks so bad do i clean it or not if so how?!? they are teddybear hamsters. my mom says their fine but i dont think so. any advice on anything for the lil babys. i have the dad ina tote no top but he can reach most of the way up i dont want him to get out and it was the largest tote. help on anything PLEASEE (link)
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whatever you do, don't touch the babies at all. if you do, there will be more incidents like the shredding of the first baby hamster. i suggest you move the dad hamster into another cage so it won't hurt anymore of them.
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I think I'm gonna pierce my own ear.
I have it pierced twice and my cartilage...but yea...how do I make the needle or w.e clean? (link)
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well, this depends on where you're going to pierce it. the farther up your ear you go, the higher the risk of getting an infection. and you should never pierce your own cartilage. in my opinion, it would be easier and for you to go somewhere to get your ears pierced.
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