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Question Posted Wednesday December 19 2007, 6:16 pm

So yeah I'm like 15 and i'm a teenage girl who is having a really hard time with life and I think I should just kill myself. Nothing ever goes my own way. Guys never like me. People hate me in general I'm just an annoynce to everyone. I hate life. It never gets better it just changes and it still sucks after that. I'm sick of being depressed. Really I just want to lock myself in my room and cry then starve myself then die. I hate being a teenager its not like being a kidd its diff. Everything is confusing and nothing is ever how you imagined or wished it to be. So I dont know what to do ? Any advice?

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yaaaaaaayme answered Sunday December 23 2007, 3:30 am:
i am the exact same age as you, and i'm going through the same confusing time in my life. don't kill yourself. it will get easier from here.

try to keep looking up, and looking for the good things in everyday life. it's fine if you cry once in a while, it's good to let it all out. but if you kill yourself, think of what that would do to the people around you. and all the things that might have been....

just know that you aren't alone. i know, somethimes it feels like you're being buried alive, and no matter how much you try to dig yourslef out, more and more just gets piled on you.

if you ever need a friend or just someone to talk to, then just contact me, or whatever. i'll be here if you need me.

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guitar_girl answered Saturday December 22 2007, 2:49 pm:
Dont kill yourself.
Think about it there must be at LEAST one person out there who loves you even if you dont know it.If not for yourself dont do it for that at least 1 person.Imagine the pain you would feel if one of your loved ones decided to take thier life-how upset would u be.So dont put that burdan on anyones shoulders and dont take the cowards way out.Anyways once your over the teen years you will look back at this and say something like "what was i thinking". So just dont.
Also i may be only 13 but im not an idiot and i know what im talking about.
Please lets the words ov myself and others make a difference and remember someone out there loves you, you just dont know it.

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amarand answered Saturday December 22 2007, 1:18 am:
"Anyway, he uh... he gets down to the end of his life, and he looks back and decides that all those years he suffered, Those were the best years of his life, 'cause they made him who he was. All those years he was happy? You know, total waste. Didn't learn a thing. So, if you sleep until you're 18... Ah, think of the suffering you're gonna miss. I mean high school? High school-those are your prime suffering years. You don't get better suffering than that. " - Little Miss Sunshine

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday December 20 2007, 7:47 pm:
Well, first off, if you are alive in 10 years you arent going to look back and say "God I wish I had killed myself when I was 15"

Rather, you will look back and shake your head at how stupid you were and how glad you are that you DIDNT do something like that.

Lower your expectations. Kids these days go into teenagehood thinking that entering high school is going to be leading the good life, that you are magically going to become popular, that all these random things will change for the better.

Harsh reality, if you want things to get better, change them yourself.

Life is not handed to most people on a silver platter. Take it one day at a time. Figure yourself out. If something bothers you, look at yourself and figure out what is causing it. Then change it.

But yeah, if you sit back and wait for good things to happen you will be sorely dissapointed. You have to go out and make them happen yourself.

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Pebbles88 answered Thursday December 20 2007, 5:46 pm:
hi im 19 so im basically still i my teens and i can honestly say there's a point in everyone life when they feel the way you do.. but killing your self is not the answer yeah life can be hard some time but if it was easy then people wouldnt be strong and believe in there self you have to believe that you can get over that dark cloud remeber you cant have rainbow without the rain..just think if you kill your self you wont be around for the good time your gonna have so just be strong and know it's not just you we all go through tought times..you just have to have faith and beleive.....

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Steve83 answered Thursday December 20 2007, 5:32 pm:
Nothing is ever what you imagined or wished, at any age. No, the 83 in my name isn't my age, it's the year I was born, so I was a teenager not too long ago. Believe me, killing yourself is not the answer. I suggest that you sit down in figure out a game plan. Decide what you want, and try and set things in motion to complete them. If you want a boy friend, maybe you should look at how you dress and present yourself to boys. If you feel you are an annyance, try to find out how and do your best to work with it. I have a friend who is an annoyance, but I am still friends with him. I wish I could help you out more, everyone is different, you just have to hang in there, and eventually things will get better for you. Remember, every dark cloud has a silver lining, just don't get struck by lightning trying to find it.

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orphans answered Thursday December 20 2007, 5:30 pm:
hey dont kill yourself you havent found out what you are going to d when you grow up you could be the worlds best doctor or the most famous celbraty come on dont die ok the world needs you

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