HEY IM HERE TO HELP IN MY 19 YEARS OF AGE AND I HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND STILL GOIN THROUGH THINGS SO ASK ME I BET I CAN HELP...
Gender: Female
Location: N.J
Occupation: PATIENT TRANSPORTER
Age: 19
AIM: JAZZYDAFLYIEST88
Member Since: November 5, 2007
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Last Update: December 20, 2007
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most of the time when i have sex i can never feel it
what should i do ???
am i loose
and i have only had sex w/ 4 guys
but they werent even that big (link)
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i think you just answered your own question they wasnt big enough to reach you and no that dosent mean your loose that means their small..lol
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So yeah I'm like 15 and i'm a teenage girl who is having a really hard time with life and I think I should just kill myself. Nothing ever goes my own way. Guys never like me. People hate me in general I'm just an annoynce to everyone. I hate life. It never gets better it just changes and it still sucks after that. I'm sick of being depressed. Really I just want to lock myself in my room and cry then starve myself then die. I hate being a teenager its not like being a kidd its diff. Everything is confusing and nothing is ever how you imagined or wished it to be. So I dont know what to do ? Any advice? (link)
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hi im 19 so im basically still i my teens and i can honestly say there's a point in everyone life when they feel the way you do.. but killing your self is not the answer yeah life can be hard some time but if it was easy then people wouldnt be strong and believe in there self you have to believe that you can get over that dark cloud remeber you cant have rainbow without the rain..just think if you kill your self you wont be around for the good time your gonna have so just be strong and know it's not just you we all go through tought times..you just have to have faith and beleive.....
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who is nelly married to? and i he is marryed to sumone why are people saying that he used ot go oitu with ashanti and has he gone out with kelly rowland??? im so curios (link)
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he's not married and he's still dating ashanti
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Okay so about a week ago not the Thursday of this past week but the week before, I was having an issue with my (now ex) boyfriend. My dad was getting tired of my bf's b/s so he had the luitenit(sp?) from police department go to his house and tell him that he cannot contact me in any way or he gets arrested. What is this called? I know its not called a restraining order because my dad didn't actually get one. He said it can be reversed also. Like if I were to talk to him, I could get arrested.
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it's not called anything cause if there was no actual report filedfor a restaining order than it s not real...
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I'm sorry if this is long but I've had this is my system for awhile and i need to get it out.
I met this guy "B" this summer when we were both attending summer school. He is 3 years older than me and we are both in high school. I started liking him, and then we started talking to each other through myspace and then on the phone (texting.) Then we started talking more and the first time we hung out , we made out. We kept hooking up and hanging out constantly and we still are, but not as much as we used to. The problem is that he doesn't really talk to me in school, even if we have a class together,yet he always stares at me. He constantly comes to visit me at my house and i don't think hes embarrassed of me because all his friends know about me. He kept me that he was really confused about something and that it was a complicated situation. Then he admitted to my friends that he liked me but didn't want to ask me out because he was confused about something. A few weeks later. I found out that while he was hooking up with me, he was also hooking up with this other girl. That really made me break down. That's why he was confused ! I've been trying to confront him about this, but i can't seem to do it. It's really hard for me to do, so my question is how should i bring it up and do you think he really does like me or is just playing games?
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if you really wanna know whats goin on you cant go through friends you have to go to him if you cant do it face to face try over the phone or textin but to see if he really like you fall back from him make him think your not into him like that and i bet he come runnin...
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alright let me explain my situation:
theres this kid (mike) he likes me, but hes too much of a friend for me to like him. i cleared that up last night.
and i like his friend (cory) its not the reason i dont like mike though.
my friend.. not that close of a friend, (michelle) has been messing with cory's mind lately. cory has liked her for a really long time, but she hasnt given him the time of day. shes been really unclear about it, and everyone tells cory that he shouldnt like her.
well me and cory are good friends. we always talk about each others relationships. ive been helping him with the michelle situation, and hes pretty much over her. meanwhile though, im kinda starting to like him.
last night we were texting and he was like i heard that you said u liked me (which is true) i kinda beat around the bush, but i eventually admitted that i liked him. after i said that, he was like "i like you too, but u just ended things with mike" so im under the impression that we were just gonna give it time..
well apparently michelle and cory got in an argument last night and now she says she likes him.. i really hope he doesnt go back to her now, because i just admitted to him that i like him and he said he liked me... so what do i do??? what is your opinion of this situation and how can i get this guy with me???? thanks! (link)
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you know what all you can do is sit back and play your part because it sounds like to me michelle is only doin this because she know you guys like each other he's not goin to with michelle because she's been playin him for so long dont rush remeber good things come to those who wait..he's comin to you..good luck pebb
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Okay this might sound dumb but hey it happens. This boy is gonna ask me out, everyone is talking about it and hes just been waiting for the right moment. Well idk how to act, sounds stupid right? im 17 and ive had boyfriends before but its been about 3 years or so since ive had one, ive had boys since then but nothin official and ive always been kinda shy and this boy definitely isnt shy. Hes veryy outgoing, so i mean how do i act and stuff? i dont know if that mkaes sense but im shore yall know what im saying (link)
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hey i know what your sayin u dont sound dumb we all been there befor but the only way to act is like yourself remeber thats why he likes you in the first place so your doin somthin right...good luck pebb
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I have been in a relationship for two years next week and I haven't told him I love him yet. I'm just not sure if I love him and if I'm not sure I'm not going to tell him that I do. He told me he loved me six months ago and I believe that he really does. I'm okay with him saying I love you, but should I love him by now? I mean we have known each other for five years and dating for two. I would think I would be able to say those three words to him. If I'm not in love with him should I break it off before he gets too attached to me? I care for him a lot, but I don't want to hurt him any more than I possibly could. Please help. (link)
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umm..im not sayin you have to fall in love fast but after two years there should be aliitle bit of love somewhere..but i think you should break it off before it get deeper.. than he might get his feelings hurt and i know you dont want that
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Ok so I really am a slut. That sounds bad, but here's my deal. About a month ago I met this guy named Dave. We talked for a week, until he took me to this party and well...I got wasted. We woke up the next day together and we'd had sex. After that we have sex all the time. The only problem I'm seeing this guy named Carson. Carson and I have been together for four months. Bad I know. But Carson and I don't really hit it off in bed. Dave and I hit it off well, but Dave isn't someone I am REALLY attracted too. But Carson I really like his personality he just can't perform in bed well. I don't know what to do. Should I be with Carson or Dave? I really don't like cheating on Carson like this, but I'm so unsatisfied. (link)
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yeah cheating is not good but being with someone for only sex isnt either \..but being unsatisfied isnt cool either so maybe you just talk to carson..if that dosent work than leave both alone
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okay there is this boy i KNOW i love. well we were going out then he broke up with me, but like i said i KNOW for a FACT that i love him. but he likes another girl. And all my friends are telling me i dont need him, but i do need him. he doesnt love me back and just every second of the day i think of him, and jsut want to be with him. but i know i cant. so what should i do, and my friends are also saying that i could get any guy. and a few boys have asked me out but i dont want them i want the one i love. so what do i do. i jsut cant get over him. he knows that i love him and he just doesnt care i guess.
so please help me .!! (link)
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i know that you probably dont wanna hear this but your friends are right i understand that you love him but you cant sit around and get your feelings hurt because he dont love you back...maybe you should just be alone with no guy until your able to get over him..hope i helped
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my friend cant go on the intertnet so she wanted me to ask how she could get a boy friend....a hot one(lol). (link)
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tell your bestfriend to go out..if she still in school it's the best place
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I know theres a site where you can actually have ringtones sent to your phone for free, does anyone know it?
I rate. (link)
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i use this site call mymxer tones....
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this isnt really advice im just curious. one day this question popped into my head and ive been thinking about and asking other people as well. i already have an opinion of it but id like other perspectives. the question is, do you think one can be deep IN LOVE with another person, if the feeling isnt mutual? not just love them but be truly IN love. also could you please explain why or why not for your answer =] thanks. (link)
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yes you can deeply love some one nd they not love you it's just like you may love someone a little more than they love you because with us girls we love hard so it's very much possible
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so i have the worst time with having like friends , well i mean not " friends " but their more like just people i talk to ya know ? im in high school now & i want a bestfriend so bad , i mean ofcourse my boyfriend of 8 months is deffinatly my bestfriend but i miss the girley conversations ya know just the girl stuff , shopping , talkin about this and that . its so hard to go like to girl places and talk about " certain " stuff . every single time i get like close to a friend and think i can trust them , they always screw me over or tell my secrets are just stop being best friends , its stupid . how do i know or find one because nothing works ''/
thnaks - (link)
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freiend for me in high school was my hardest subject to but you find a person that your cool with now an d you enjoy her company start to do girly things but always keep in my mind that she can screw you over at anytime so you balance being close to her but distant at the same time
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How many hours does a high school football game last? (link)
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too damn long (lol) but like 3 hours with the cheerleaders (half time show ) band
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when im texting this one guy i like...our conversations get really boring and i never know what to say/ask..any suggestions? (link)
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textin is the easy way of communcatin just talk about what yall day was like im sure it would lead to something....
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ok well im 14 and 4 months i havent started my period but my boobs are quite big not huge but are a reasonable size and i have a lot of pubic hair on my vagina and armpits. My sister started when she was 13 she doesnt masturebate i do with carrots and randoms stuff and pens does this affect my period im so scared i think something is wrong with me please help thanks a lot in advance.
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masterbation is not your problem some girls develope much faster than others so all you can really do is wait.trust when it comes your gonna wish it dindt with the cramps ...your lucky..pebb just be patient
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i met this guy and known him since school started. i like him alot and i cannot figure out if he likes me. one time he asked me to go driving around with him and i did. i text him afterwards and said thanks and he said it was fun and that we should hang out more often. and if i mention another guy he kind of gets protective? and he compliments me sometimes, and other people think it is obvious that he likes me. but the thing is the other night i asked him if he wanted to go somewhere and he made it sound like we were going to do it, but then he said it was too late... i didn't know if he really wanted to do it or not and also if i want to talk i have to be the one who sends him a text or i.m. first. am i just analizing the whole situation too much? do you think he likes me?
-plus, when i texted him the other night when he said it was too late to hang out he kept talking about how bored he was and then randomely, out of the blue he said, "man, i really need a girlfriend or something." (link)
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i think he likes you wait i know but boys there so complicated he problem wating on you to give him hints that yoy like him cause he dont wanna make that move and get rejected..he made that random comment because he wanted you to know he wanted a girl and he wants it to be you so if you like him than u might hve to make that first move...good luck ..pebb
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everytime i tell my friends who i'm into, they always make it akward for me. they let on hints to the person so hard, and pretty much confess my love to them. its happened before, and will probably happen again. they dont know who im into right now, but they're getting pretty close to figuring it out. they keep bothering me about it. and to make it even better, its the kid my friend kinda likes (but could never have a chance with.) but i'm pretty sure i have a better chance than her. should i just keep this to myself? or do you think they could somehow help? (link)
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for right now i would keep it to my self but if you and this boy get serious than you should tell your friend especially the friend who wanted him before because that can become a huge problem within itself...good luck..pebb
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So there's this boy...
well, to be truthful, he's so much more than that to me now. We've been dating for a little under eleven months now, and I love the hell out of this boy. He's been everything to me, and we've helped each other out of a lot of potentially bad situations. Of course we've had problems, all relationships do, but overall everythings been perfect.
So this time it came upon me like a ton of bricks. He just seems like he doesnt care anymore. We havent even been fighting lately but he told me today that "I cant stay with you if we're gonna fight every day." Which stumps me because we havent fought at all for the past week or so. And then he got mad at me for talking to an old friend who I've known since I was four. this old friend happens to be very feminine, although he is, indeed, a boy. Well, we fussed about it for a bit and he just walks away like he could care less. Then the next class period he walks up to me with another girls name on his hand. Now, in high school, thats kind of like labeling this boy yours, so naturally I was PISSED. and there is no way this girl couldnt have known we were dating, our high school has less than 60 kids altogether 9-12th grades. And eleven months is a long time. So I asked him "do you care about me" yes. "Do you love me?" yes. "do you wanna stay together?" idunno.
WOAH back the truck up, I'm confused!!! He's NEVER said that before, its always "I love you baby, I'd die if I lost you...yada yada yada" I dont know what to do, whats your opinion? Sorry if this is too long, but I really neeeeed HELP!!!!!
Oh, btw, I'm 16 hes 17 (link)
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hey i been here before it seems to me that he loves but by what your sayin he might be thinkg that its time for you guys to go seperate ways if he starting argument ands doin things that he know wil piss you off(the girl name on him) he just dont know how to tell you because e dont wanna hurt you....i know what your feelin...pebb
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