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I'm not a slut...I just...
Ok so I really am a slut. That sounds bad, but here's my deal. About a month ago I met this guy named Dave. We talked for a week, until he took me to this party and well...I got wasted. We woke up the next day together and we'd had sex. After that we have sex all the time. The only problem I'm seeing this guy named Carson. Carson and I have been together for four months. Bad I know. But Carson and I don't really hit it off in bed. Dave and I hit it off well, but Dave isn't someone I am REALLY attracted too. But Carson I really like his personality he just can't perform in bed well. I don't know what to do. Should I be with Carson or Dave? I really don't like cheating on Carson like this, but I'm so unsatisfied.
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Teach that Carson dude how to fuck! Dont be embarrassed! Tell him how to work dat pussy right girl!
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Sweety,
You should be with Carson not Dave. Just because Dave gives great sex doesn't mean you should be with him, sex isn't everything and you can improve work through it. Work on it well and help Carson improves his sex start on erection then work on towards the right penis and hip action. Sex is great but you also need the right person to actually have the sex with.
Mandy
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Dump Carson.
You've caused him so much hurt behind his back that you honestly should've broke up with him when you started fooling around. Drunk at a party, great sex or not, it's not right to do this. Break up with Carson & be friends with benefits with Dave.
Let Carson be with someone who really gives a fuck about him...because you obviously don't.
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yeah cheating is not good but being with someone for only sex isnt either ..but being unsatisfied isnt cool either so maybe you just talk to carson..if that dosent work than leave both alone
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See the below?
"Its very good that you can accept..."
No, it is not.
Getting wasted and making choices (especially sexual ones) is not a good idea. Its not something you should brush off, because you should not throw away responsibility for yourself by getting drunk.
Now, as to the advice.
It is YOUR responsibility to choose. Is it more important to you to have decent sex right now, or to be around a guy you like but who isnt great in bed? This is a turning point to you, where you get to determine what your priorities are, and pursue them.
Determine fast. Its not fair to either to be having sex with them both and cheating. Dont sleep with either of them again until you have made your decision. Keep in mind there are two other people involved, and its your responsibility to be faithful to the person you're dating. If you want someone else, break up, and pursue after.
And at the risk of repetition, dont let yourself get so wasted that you pass out and black out and wake up to having done something you wouldnt have done sober.
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At least you can accept what you are even though it doesn't really sound like you're a sl**. It just seems like your having troubles figuring out what to do. But I also am one to accept what I am and I am basically a jerk. So believe me, when I say good guys are not easy to come by. Carson seems like he's a good guy. So I think you should let him know what you think he should do better. Go faster, slower, new things, etc? Tell him so he will know and stop have sex with Dave. I'm a guy so I know how most guys think and Dave probably thinks that you are easy to get with because he doesn't even have to be in a relationship with you. Let me know how it goes and I hope I helped.
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