Hi, ok well my names mandy and i'm 19 i'm currently a student at uni studying medicine. I logged onto this website because i saw how much help lots of you need i am here to support you and give some great advice so i'm there to answer yours or even you can ask me a personal question too!!!
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Location: England
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Age: 19
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When i have sex with my gf i have trouble keeping an erection i cant last that long and i cant get another erection its quite embarrassing what can i do? (link)
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Hi Hun,
This is a common problem what you need to do is work on sexual tensions first such as doing hand jobs to get stimulated this increases erection times.
Mandy
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My gf has this big dildo a friend of her gave it ot her a couple of months a go for her birthday
not sure if i have anything to worry about i feel a little intimidated ive got a small penis and im a lttle worried that i dont please her or she could leave me for a guy whos bigger i sort of want her to get rid of it am worrying too much? (link)
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Hey Honey,
You are worrying to much darling, don't worry a dildo is just a form of masturebation it hasn't got anything to do with a boyfriend not satisfying, it doesn't matter how big your penis is it isn't meant to comaper to a dildo, a lot of girls have them don't worry you should talk to her about this issue but everything is fine.
Mandy
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hey i searched for you and i thought maybe you would be able to help or relate.. i was really really really stupid i dont need to hear it i knew the second it even happened i even cried but my boyfriend stuck "it" in me without protection i think he was hard but i know for a fact he didnt cum a little bit before that we did other stuff and we even had protected sex i think this was more like an in the moment thing and then when he did it we were both like oh **** that was stupid;.. so anyway i was really upset and mad at myself didnt think i would ever do such a stupid thing becuase im very responsible so he felt bad and he went and baught me the morning after pill plan b and gave it to me 24 hours after i already took both pills but what are the chances?? i cant even stop worrying or thinking or crying im just so nervous ive always been a good kid and he was my first and now i regret being stupid i would hate to have to tell my mom that i did such a stupid thing =/ (link)
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Hi Honey,
It's a good thing you know that you made a mistake, and now it's time to put it right, it's difficult to go through an unwanted teenage pregnancy. Talking to your mum can give you the extra strength or support that you may need. If you feel uncomfortable with this situation and bringing your mum in make sure you stick with your boyfriend.
As you have got the morning after pill these will and may limit your chances of pregnancy. Continue taking these pills and do what the packet says, after your done with them wait 4 to 5 days and take a pregnancy test, take two to be accurate if possible. If you have any symptoms of pregnancy later on, or even if you don't you should still go to a clinic darling and get extra help.
The clinic will take samples and work out if your pregnant or not, it seems an unlikely chance as your on the morning after pill, but the clinic could reassure you and give you extra information.
Let me know how you get on darl, and make sure you always use protection for next time.
Good luck!
Mandy
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is masturbution bad for health in women ? (link)
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Hi darling,
No masturbation is not bad for health in women. It is a natural desire for women to go through and it is known to stimulate and satisfy womens needs without affecting them.
Mandy
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my boyfriend (17) and I(15) have been together for a little over 4 months, and we are sexually active.. we were both of our firsts. well, whenever we have sex, he never well, cums. and I asked him about it, and he said for him to cum, he has to tense up his body and I guess he doesn't do that while we're having sex? but whenever I give him oral, he cums, like, right on the spot, so I don't know.. does it really take alot of tensing up to cum, or am I just bad or something? from the first day we had sex, he never came? is that normal? (link)
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Hi Darling,
That is perfectly normal ejaculating or'cumming' can take some time, it is common and he is just a boy that needs a lot of time to cum. Oral just affects him more as it gives him a lot more pleasure, different sexual positions can encourage him to ejaculate more and quicker, try a little massage round the penis before sex.
Mandy
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I'm only 14 and I have this burning desire to have sex with my bf. We almost did have sex once, but then we heard my bf's mom walking up the stairs so we flipped on the TV as soon as she walked in. Now that's all my bf and I are talking about-sex! Will I get pregnant if I do one over-nighter? (link)
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Hi Honey,
Yes there is a big chance u will get pregnant, so I would be extremely careful if I were you. Teenage pregnany is hard and will put you in a difficult position.
So you may want to wait, until your at your legal age at least, but if you do honey, decide to have sex now use contraception such as condoms.
Make sure you are ready for sex as you are really young, the desire for sex can be healed though masturabtion as well.
Mandy
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okayy so im 15 and a female.. well i know for a fact, 100 percent that i want to wait until marriage before i have sex and i know that in the future guys will respect you more if yoou werent out and about being a little whore..but right now i feel like i cant get a boyfriend.. at all bc im just not like that idk im not ugly and im not shy but it feels likee every guyy just wants to have sex like all the time or something. idk what to do..is this just how they r at this age?? (link)
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Hi Hun,
No, they aren't like that at this age, well some are but there stupid and they are the ones who are wasting their lives acting like idiots. Not all boys are like, you will find decent boys as well and it's not just all about sex in their minds.
Mandy
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Im 13 year old boy and moved house recently.ever since i've moved to this area everyone keeps talking bout masturebating and stuff. When i told my friends i don't do it they all said i should start so i tried it. they can all cum and they say it squirts out and a lot comes out. When i try not much comes out. In fact it litrrely a couple of drops and it doesn't squirt. How come?
(sorry if this makes you uncomfortable lol)
P.s im from London in england lol (link)
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Hi Honey,
Your only 13 so you still may not have gone through puberty full yet, so your penis isn't matured yet. Also if you have gone through puberty some guys won't squirt as much it is different for everyone, don't worry it is completely normal. 9sorry it took me a while to reply i have been on holiday).
Mandy
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umm well..my boyfriend ate me out..sorry this is kind of a weird ? but like is this weird cuz im only 14(female) and he fingered me like 2 weeks ago and a week after he did that i got my period and now this happened..i feel like something could be wrong with my vagina..any advice??
sorry kind of a stupid question haha.
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Hi Sweety,
It's not weird this is normal and you'll be surprised but that is a common reaction.
Mandy
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so this guy who im practically in love with
fingered me for the first time a few weeks ago
and like it hurt but i thought it was cause he was using 2 fingers
but that night i realized that i could fit my whole finger inside me
did he pop my cherry?
i don't recall blood though (link)
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Hi Sweety,
As there wasn't any blood i don't think you've popped your cherry as there should have been at least a little bit of blood.
Mandy
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Hi, Im a girl and 18 and I'm a virgin, I've never had anything inside of my vagina, not even a tampon...i do masturbate but never stick my finger inside of me....today i thought i tried cus my boyfrined and i have gotten serious..well when i inserted my finger inside of me it really really hurt and i tried again later and it really really hurt again...im scared is there a reason why its hurting so much besides ive never had nething inside of me.... (link)
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Hi Honey,
Because your not used to it, it will hurt, fingering will hurt for about the first 5 times or so and as your tight now that is another reason after it won't hurt but some girls still don't get pleasure out of it.
Mandy
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If your swimming with a tampon in wont the string hang out or come out of your bathing suit? (link)
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Hi Sweety,
Not really because bathing suits are quite tight so it shouldn't really show.
Mandy
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Okay, right after I shave down there. Its always really itchy and I get alot of little red dots on the side of my thigh, what wear people get bikin waxed. A few monthes ago, the same thing was happening, so I stopped shaving. And, the itchiness dissapeared, along with the dots. I dont want to stop shaving, cause, you know....But, any advice on whats happening and what I should do?
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Hi Darl,
Those red dots and itchiness is common in shaving as it's not really a good way to get rid of your pubic hair you should get it waxed so try brazilian wax also it makes it nice and smooth without stubbles.
Mandy
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whenever i'm with my boyfriend in a secluded area, i feel like i *need* him to touch me. how do i give him the hint without making a fool out of myself or freaking him out? (link)
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Hey Sweety,
I think you should give the normal small hints like you know get close to him and maybe kiss him or put his hands on your bum or whatever until he gets the idea and what you what him to do.
Mandy
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how old do you people think is an ok age to lose yor virginity? (link)
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Hiya,
Well different people think different ages as some think a really young age is fine the law says 16 some say 20 and some say wait for marriage which i think isn't a bad idea.
Mandy
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I keep hearing people talk about this alot. I know I should know this, but im not sure. Okay, where is your clitoris?
Thanks
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Hi Hun,
The clitoris is the thing which is sticking up a bit like a little circle things you know where you have the two flaps on the opening of the vagina (lavia) its the bit in the middle.
Mandy
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How much masturbating i too uch? A usual day for me is wake up with a boner and either do a quick one in bed or in the shower. Then I usually do it once in school during lunch, and then again when i get home and then usually once or sometimes twice more before i go to sleep. I try to do less but then i'm hard all the time and can't concentrate on anything. Is something wrong with me? (link)
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Hi Darl,
there isn't a limit to masturebation saying it's too much sometimes different boys don't need to masturebate much but some have a real horniness in them and need to get sexual attention which is fine and thats who you are and it doesn't matter at all.
Mandy
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when i get turned on i feel like im about to pee
then randomly this white stuff will come out
idk but its wierd to me??
and only my vaginia will randomly itch
not all the time or everyday or anything
but when it does it like itches ill have to it it or cross my legs or ometime stick my finger in a itch it (link)
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Hi Honey,
Feel like needing to pee is common in excitement and getting horny, the white stuff is discharge when you feel excited your vagina is the sexual part which releases discharge as a sign of a great feeling and pleasure. The itchiness is the excitement and so when you try to turn it off you need to itch it and when you finger yourself or cross your legs it will relieve this this common in many girls so it isn't a problem.
Mandy
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14/F
I get really horny really fast. I've fingered myself, but thats not warking anymore. I dont want 2 go out and just have sex witha guy. Any advice? (link)
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Hi Sweety,
You should experiment with masturebating you know runyour vagina under a tap or just rubbing works lie naked and rub or use a cold ice lolly and insert it up and out in your vagima but you should put a condom on it incase it breaks.
Mandy
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can u get pregnent from fingering yourself??????
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Hi,
I know there is someone who said yes but that is totally wrong there is absolutely no way you can get pregnant you need sperm to get pregnant not a finger.
Mandy
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