Question Posted Thursday February 7 2008, 10:32 am
How much masturbating i too uch? A usual day for me is wake up with a boner and either do a quick one in bed or in the shower. Then I usually do it once in school during lunch, and then again when i get home and then usually once or sometimes twice more before i go to sleep. I try to do less but then i'm hard all the time and can't concentrate on anything. Is something wrong with me?
ND143 answered Thursday February 7 2008, 9:01 pm: okay to warn you, i'm in a blunt mood.
it's way too much and if I went to your school and found out you did that, ESPECIALLY during lunch, i would absolutely never ever date you and alkdjfl;jadf.. just be so disgusted.
MamaJen answered Thursday February 7 2008, 2:31 pm: Hmmm. I'm a lady, but I'll give my two cents as I have 3 brothers and know about guys. IT's normal to do it every day, but you may want to work on self discipline. Old Madonna song said "I'm going to delay my pleasure..." Well? It has good points. Delaying your pleasure will teach you discipline. Discipline will give you self control. You don't want to end up with the real thing one day (some girl) and offend her by insisting on a sexual act or going off all over her unexpectedly!!! If you have no self control, when your real experience comes, it could be damaged by what you're doing now. I'd say go to ONCE a day and stick to it. Find something else to do when you get the urge like molding clay, drawing, listening to music, cleaning up the garage, whatever. And start disciplining yourself. Then, go to like 3 times a week and leave it at that. Then you won't feel so out of control! [ MamaJen's advice column | Ask MamaJen A Question ]
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