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my boyfriend (17) and I(15) have been together for a little over 4 months, and we are sexually active.. we were both of our firsts. well, whenever we have sex, he never well, cums. and I asked him about it, and he said for him to cum, he has to tense up his body and I guess he doesn't do that while we're having sex? but whenever I give him oral, he cums, like, right on the spot, so I don't know.. does it really take alot of tensing up to cum, or am I just bad or something? from the first day we had sex, he never came? is that normal?
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he is probably trying to last as long as he can for you. if he did it really quick, it wouldn't be much for you. he must know he has to tense up for it to happen and he's not. his first time he was probably really nervous. this is perfectly normal. hope i helped<3
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it may just be he needs more motivation
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Someone lying.
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Hi Darling,
That is perfectly normal ejaculating or'cumming' can take some time, it is common and he is just a boy that needs a lot of time to cum. Oral just affects him more as it gives him a lot more pleasure, different sexual positions can encourage him to ejaculate more and quicker, try a little massage round the penis before sex.
Mandy
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