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I need help... Today I went to my religion classes so I could get prepared for my confirmation. Today was my first day but I noticed something about myself. My knowledge of religion is weak. I don't know why. I went to a catholic school for 6 years straight and that helped me become a Catholic. After that I got into a good public school and that's when I learned a lot of things. So really science interfered with my religion but I didn't get offended I was actually amazed maybe there couldn't be like a God who started life but science did. But I decided to become Agnostic so I could search for proof of a God or proof of no God. But then my weekly church going seemed to stop not because I didn't want to go it just that things are changing and going there seems timely impossible. So my belief in God began to diminish. So right now I am like half Agnostic and half Atheist. So really my first class just made me realize that my knowledge of religion is weak and I don't know what's this feeling I am feeling. It feels like disbeleif or disappointment in myself and there's a little fear because what if there is truly a God and there's a saying that the lord see's everything so what if my thoughts are offending Him? I just don't know anymore because I also get the feeling that religion doesn't really seem to interest me anymore or matter. I just like want to be a normal person and I heard that people can do that, just live out their lives and not believe in anything. But the thing is my family is like all catholic and they all believe in God but I seem to not to or not know if there is one. I don't wanna tell them my situation because they might not accept my changed path or I might feak them out. I think I know they won't accept my changed path because they already won't accept me for who I am (Goth/Emo. Ugh... this is just too much and maybe too much for you advice givers to read. Sorry. I just need some advice... (link)
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you may not be a huge church going catholic and I think that is ok. I don't think you should become atheist because what if there is a God and you go to hell. If you find out later there was no God and you still lived your life as a good person what is wrong with that? I say that you should tell your parents that you are confused and tell them how you are feeling. Tell them why you are confused. I think that you should find a youth group that you like that has fun activities that could help you understand and answer your Questions about God. Try going to a church that offers activities like Wed. night Bible study or Church Camp. These places answered a lot of my questions and I met alot of people that changed my life!!!!!
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hi, i'm 16 and about 5'8 and 170 lbs. my legs are really toned, but my arms and stomach are nothing but flab, gross! i've been out of cheerleading for a year now, and i've gotten so out of shape. i'd love to get into shape by thanksgiving and now since the weather's changing (i live in texas) working out seems easier to do now. does anyone have any eating tips or working out tips so i can lose some fat??? (link)
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this is really hard to do but from experience I know. What made me lose weight on my stomach was not eating any junk food or pop. I had to eat really healthy and also I did at least 100 crunches every night. You really have to push yourself and it won't be easy but you can do it. You won't only be losing weight but you will be making a great lifestyle choice that will change your life for the better. i also know a friend who did this ans she lost 30 pounds in just a few months and now she is also really healthy. Also if you jog or walk around your neighborhood that will help keep the weight off too!!!!!
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I'm 17 and I'm going out with this kid who's my first boyfriend. He's so sweet and I'm really glad we're going out. But I'm constantly worried that one day out of nowhere, he's just gonna be like "I don't like you anymore" and dump me. I mean, I know it's gonna happen someday but I'm always obsessing over it, it's even come to the point where I'm so jealous of when he talks to other girls and I'm always asking him if he likes me or not; he assures me that he does. I think it's because I had such low confidence and thought no one liked me before we started going out; it's like I don't know what I'd do without him. Ahhhh is there any way I can stop freaking out about this? (link)
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I know from experience that it is normal to think about these things in a relationship but you have to try not to think about them. If this guy dumps you for no reason or just doesn't like you all of a sudden then you don't need him. If a guy says something like that then he is a huge jerk!!!!! For now show him how much you like him by hugging him and making him feel good. If he talks to other girls there is not much you can do but if he is flirting with other girls you should tell him how you feel. If he says he likes you then he does!!!!! If you keep asking him you might chase him away!!!!! It sounds like you have a normal relationship and if something is bothering you then talk to him about it!!!!! But don't obsess over it though. Show him how much you like him and he won't have any reason to go away!!!!!!!
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