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Worried
I'm 17 and I'm going out with this kid who's my first boyfriend. He's so sweet and I'm really glad we're going out. But I'm constantly worried that one day out of nowhere, he's just gonna be like "I don't like you anymore" and dump me. I mean, I know it's gonna happen someday but I'm always obsessing over it, it's even come to the point where I'm so jealous of when he talks to other girls and I'm always asking him if he likes me or not; he assures me that he does. I think it's because I had such low confidence and thought no one liked me before we started going out; it's like I don't know what I'd do without him. Ahhhh is there any way I can stop freaking out about this?
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I know from experience that it is normal to think about these things in a relationship but you have to try not to think about them. If this guy dumps you for no reason or just doesn't like you all of a sudden then you don't need him. If a guy says something like that then he is a huge jerk!!!!! For now show him how much you like him by hugging him and making him feel good. If he talks to other girls there is not much you can do but if he is flirting with other girls you should tell him how you feel. If he says he likes you then he does!!!!! If you keep asking him you might chase him away!!!!! It sounds like you have a normal relationship and if something is bothering you then talk to him about it!!!!! But don't obsess over it though. Show him how much you like him and he won't have any reason to go away!!!!!!!
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You just need to relax and forget about it because if he say he likes you that mean you dont have to worry about him cheating and you should have high confidence. You dont know if they didnt like you but there is one person that always liked you and that is you.
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