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It Hurts!
Hi, Im a girl and 18 and I'm a virgin, I've never had anything inside of my vagina, not even a tampon...i do masturbate but never stick my finger inside of me....today i thought i tried cus my boyfrined and i have gotten serious..well when i inserted my finger inside of me it really really hurt and i tried again later and it really really hurt again...im scared is there a reason why its hurting so much besides ive never had nething inside of me....
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its just because you're very tight for never having anything inside of you..
you should try fingering yourself a few more times to try to losen yourself up a bit and to be more comfortable when he does it
goodluck!
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Hi Honey,
Because your not used to it, it will hurt, fingering will hurt for about the first 5 times or so and as your tight now that is another reason after it won't hurt but some girls still don't get pleasure out of it.
Mandy
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mmkay.
well it's called the hymen, and it usually breaks after you have sex for the first time...
but it's supossed to hurt the first couple times. i mean honestly. =]
but it's natural. there's nothing wrong with you. and good job staying a virgin for so long.
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xoxo
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It is normal the first couple of times that you engage in intercourse to feel discomfort. There is a flap of skin inside the vagina called the hymen - this will break and you may have some bleeding. Once this breaks, then you won't have the pain anymore. Tell your partner to go slow, and try some lubrication...this can make it easier since you are probably dry. Once the hymen is broken and you don't feel pain anymore, then you will produce natural secreations that will aid in having intercourse. Just listen to your body and be patient. Go slow, and go at YOUR pace...this will avoid tearing. Good luck.
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