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my names amanda im 17 years old & i like to help people out (:
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My best friend has been with this boy for well over 2 years. They have never been official, but they say i love you, he fucks her, they chill, whatever.. they act like a couple. This kid fucks other girls all the time, lies to her, treats herlike shit, and just the other week he was so drunk, he beat her up. He drinks all the time, has no job, doesnt go to school, he encouraged my ex boyfriend tocheat on me throughout our whole relationship, he harasses his friends. Basically this kid is worthless. My friend talks about him all the time, wont go out and do anything cause of him because she chooses to mostly, not cause hetells her not to, she comaplins, cries, but noooooo matter what he does, even after he beat her up, she goes back. Its like from the Hills, with heidi and spencer and lauren. Except this is worse. I cant be her friend... its so annoying and stressful, cause ill stick up for her, tell him off, get into my own shit, then two days later no matter what he does she;ll be hanging out with him. She fuckin buys him stuff so he'll talk to her again AFTER HE DOES SHIT TO HER.
She does not understand why i am like, not talking to her and dont wanna be her friend. Am i doing anything wrong in this situation. Its been going on about 3 times a month for well over two years, and the thing is i try to tell myself not to care cause its nothing new, but i do. And it pisses me off when she goes back to him, he hates me, i hate him. He's done enough shitto me already.
But anyways, am i doing anything wrong?
you're not doing anything wrong. shes in love with this kid, or THINKSS shes in love with him and she feels lk everything is her fault. he is just a piece of shit and she is just being extremlyy stupid. she needs a physciatrist or more help than you can give her. theres really nothing else you can do except try to explain to her that shes being EXTREMLY STUPID. but she wont get it. she needs more help than you can give her..
Hi there,
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... for that question, you gave people a 1 rating because they suggested that if you wear a bikini bottom tight enough to show the outline of your vaginal lips, perhaps a larger size would be a good bet.
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I hope that clears things up.
On another note, your problem is referred to as a camel-toe, and many swimsuits are specifically designed to make that happen so guys will stare at you more.
You might try a different brand/style of bikini.
haha ya its just the whole "get a larger swimsuit" thang made me mad. because im pretty sure size 1 is not fat and thats an obvious thing to try a bigger size but the next size was too big and stilllll kind of does the same thing. its def the style of the bikIni im taking it backk
ok,
well iv started going out with this girl, and we have went out before but she left me for her ex. and i understood at the time because well they had something differnt and yeah.
but now we are going out again and she said at the beggining she definately doesnt like her ex again. but now she wants to give it a break for a while to sort out her head. because she said she wants to make 100 percent sure she wont fuck me over again and she isnt sure whats going on in her head about him. she said she knows they dont work and she doesnt want to have these feelings.
so do you think its over? i mean...i know your probably gonna say its not worth it that she is just messing me around or whatever i just was wondering your opinion of whether or not you think she will go back to her ex. like i was one of her best friends after we broke up the first time and we get along great and she said she has liked me for ages and shouldnt havee broken up with me in the first place. but i she was just angry at her ex?
thanks
she probably loved her ex. he possibly was her first love. and sometimes feelings for somebody you loved, especially your first love will never go away. even if that person is a complete jackass! its like they have a spell over you! shes probably trying to get over him and wants to get over him and is telling herself that she is over him but shes not and her ex possibly could be talking to her again which could be confusing her. its really up to you, because even if she shouldnt be with this guy, it might be what she wants jsut because those feelings r still there for him even if she does like you. so i would say yes, its possible she could go back to her ex. but if you really like this girl you should fight for her and show her that you and her could be a better thing than her and her ex
I have this friend. Well, we USED to be best friends. However, throughout a couple years, I've kind of matured a bit and learned a lot and what not. She hasn't. So we're growing apart. The thing is, she is and always has been copying me. When we first met, she made friends with all of my friends. She got her hair dyed and cut to match mine, she was interested in all the guys I was, she called us "twins" all the time, and she basically did ALL the same stuff as me ALL the time. Yeah, yeah I know it's supposed to be the highest form of flattery, but to me, it's the highest form of annoyance. I don't know why I put up with it for as long as I have. Well, over Christmas I got a brand new phone which I had been waiting FOREVER for. It was so cool because it was SUPER expensive so no one around where I live had it. Then I came in to school today and she has the EXACT same phone as me. Same model, same color! This seriously struck something in me. It's like she's trying to be me and it's majorly creepy and disturbing. I know we're growing apart, but I don't want her to take MY unique qualities that she adapted to with her. They aren't her, they're me :( I just don't know...how do I get her to stop? And possibly completely distance myself from her? I just don't have time to worry about silly friend issues when I've got my school work and family issues to deal with :( thanks
i use to have a friend just like this. it is so annoying, but one day i realized who cares? i stopped talking to her and told her she just wanted to be like me. i laughed about it in my head and now we dont speak anymore. she has a new bestfriend and now shes completly like that girl. some people are just like that though, but just remember, whooo cares?
ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff
how long have you been dating add that in.
you should discuss this with him. everyone loves pleasure and sex, but if u feel like thats ALL you do anymore than talk to him about it. just say lets just hangout today, do you still have fun just hanging out without sex?
does spray tanning make you orange by
any chance? because, i was thinking about
getting a spray tan for my birthday party.
& i do not want to look orange &+ ive already
went in tanning beds and i don't like it because
i always came out with a realllyy red area that
was ichy under my rish area, or behide my legs.
i got a spray tan and got made fun of for looking orange.. what beds are you using when you tan? and do you use lotion? try using lotion and maybe dont go for so long, build up your time. tanning in a bed gives you a way better looking tan than a spray tan, but you should use lotionnnn
whenever i use a certain type of shampoo such as aussie or garder frutus, my roots get super greasy..can someone tell me why?
that started randomly happening to me too! and its not even like.. greasy it feels kinda sticky and dry and just looks greasy and so everytime you wash you make sure you scrub and get it all out but it still looks that way!
i started using Burts Bees "super shiny" shampoo and conditioner. it made that go awayyy its expensive but i LOVEE it
What day does school end for the summer in Texas (USA).
ask your friends or teachers
so theres this guy that ive fallen so badly for. we had a thing for a little and he just swept me off my feet then. now its all crumbling down on me. hes so immature and gets mad at me all the time and ignores me all the time and i dont understand because im so nice to him all the time and i try so hard to be perfect. i know im never going to be good enough for him so im just trying to think of ways to get over him. like theres this guy whose so nice and perfect such a gentlemen but im still stuck on the imature guy that treats me like shit. i need to get over this one guy so i can hav a normal life not one constantly thinking what hes doing where hes at if hes thinking of me who the new girl in his life is. i got it bad for the kid, and it sucks we cant even be friends because for some reason he hates me, couldnt tell you what i did. oh well, should i just ignore him for as long as it takes me to get over him then start talking to him months later and see if he misses me? or should i just let him go forever? :/ .. help?
wow im sort of going through the pretty much EXACT thing as you..
except that i dated a guy for 2 years and he would treat me like shit while i was SOOO nice to him and then we broke up and he like hates me but idk why or what i did but he hates me and we cant be friends and now he has a new gf but he still tried to talk to me sometimes but im just getting over it
you have to remember, why do you like this guy? its because of how he USE to be, now hes immature and treats you like shit. do you really want to be with this guy for the rest of your life? ignore him.. forget about him.. get over him.. go out with friends!
when you find yourself thinking about him, you're probably rememering the good times you had, instead, click over to the times when he treated you like shit and did stupid things
Okay, well for Valentines day my boyfriend bought me this really pretty necklace. It wasn't an expensive expensive type, however it was from a jewellers store, not an accessories store so it's worth a bit of money.
Anyway, he's not one to throw around his money. He comes from a very poor working-class family, and he doesn't make a lot of money himself, so for him this was probably a big thing.
I'm gonna guess the necklace was between 30-50 dollars, and that's what I'm really hoping with what I'm about to ask...
He slept over at my house last night. When we went to bed I took the necklace off and put it on my bedside table. In the morning, I went for my phone to check the time and I flipped everything off it. Including the necklace.
I just came home from work and realised that my necklace was part of the stuff that flipped. I found the chain, but the pink pendant/charm thingy (the thing that makes the necklace a necklace) is gone.
There's abosolutely no way to find it. My room is HELLA messy, plus I'm fair sure it dropped into a box full of absolute crap, and even if I took everything out I wouldn't be able to find it, it's so tiny and would fall out once I move around stuff.
So now I'm really nervous about telling him. As I said, that's a big deal to him, and I'm scared he'll react about the sentimental value as well.
I could always not tell him...but I always wore it, and he'd eventually ask why I don't wear it anymore...
obviously if you think it would break his heart if he found out even if it accidently got lost, then if you really cared about him, you would try to find it. "i think it fell in a box of absolute crap" so dont be lazy and LOOK for it. clean your room. or tell him you accidnetly knocked it off your desk and you want him to help look for it in your room with you
im in this school where everybody is STUCK UP and they think their BETTER than eveybody else WHAT should i do?
be yourself/be relaxed chill. dont act like your better than everybody else. act like you dont really give a shit. you'll be differnt and that will be cool to people (i think it would be anyway) especially towards guys act really layed back and outgoing they'll like that you're differnt (but do it with confidence, not in a stuck up way, but in a way that you know you're hott, and you know you're better than them hoes haha but dont.. show it? i guess if that makes sense) :)
Hi, I am 17 almost eighteen and I am a girl.
I tryed to give myself a hicky but I couldn't seem to do it. I can't suck any harder than I am already.Any suggestions? I want to make a girl jealous.And how long do I hold it for?
give yourself a hicky where? i dont think you can suck on your own neck (:
also to give a hicky you should suck and bite, try biting if you werent already, or bite harder if you were.
hope i helped!
how do you pick up a really good guy who wont hurt you?
ohhhhhh dont we all have that question?
go out and hangout with friends. have fun dont worry about boys.. if you dont look for it, it will find you. if you constantly are worrying about who your next love will be, you'll pick point at every guy you meet. do what you love and you will find someone who loves the same thing. dont look or beg for love, just live (:
sorry if i didnt answer your question but i hope i helped somewhat ;]
does anyone know a kind of mineral powder foundation that is good?
i've already tried the maybelline kind, and its way to thick and sticky. i'm looking for one thats not too expensive and light weight.
i use bare minerals and i loveee it. it gives a really nice finish and a glow to your skin. it is expensive.. but worth it.. also ive heard sheer cover is like bare minerals. never used it but ive heard its good and maybe cheaper than bare minerals?
So me and this guy have only been dating for a little while and well me and him started to make-out last night and I told him I wanted to take things slow. I don't like to just jump into things you know? Thats not who I am. But he kept pushing and pushing to have sex and I kept telling him no. Well he just started kissing me again and I thought he understood that I wasn't going to have sex but then before I knew it he was pulling my pants off and started having sex with me even though I told him no. I didn't know what to do. I pretty much just shut down.... I feel completely horrible now. After that happened last night I can't stop thinking about what happened and I don't know what to think or what to do. I feel completely used and ashamed..... I don't know what to do now. I feel like it's my fault.
girl its not your fault at all. obviously hes an immature boy if he couldnt just accept the fact that you didnt want to do it. you were pretty much pressured by him and you should NEVER have to feel like this. if he was a good/respectable boyfriend he wouldnt of kept pushing it.. you should talk to him about how you feel, or maybe break up with this guy because he doesnt sound like the type of guy you would want to be with anyway
hi... thanks for answering my other question. i guess if you have been loosing around a pound a day then maybe i can do the same too coz i workout for around two and half hours daily with 6 kms jogging. but can u please give some more details. as "hydroxycut max and acai berry genisis in the juice form (got both from the GNC store)"?
can you please tell me what exactly are these and what is a GNC store?and in what form are these easily available?and how to use them?
please help me? thanks for giving ur precious time. bye.
ya i mostly been losing .5 a day but sometimes i lose more! but sometimes i remain the same.. but ive lost 7 pounds so far!
but where do you live? its called "Hydroxycut Max." hydroxycut sells like 5 different kinds but this one is suppose to work the best. get the kind for men. "Hydroxycut Max:extreme weight loss for MEN" its a weightloss pill that helps you lose weight along with diet and excersize of course
most cities have a local GNC store. look it up online you probably have one somewhat close to you. its a health/fitness store it sells weightloss supplements and stuff.
also the acai berry, the brand is "Genesis Today" and its called "Genesis Acai" its a big hit right now people are losing nice amounts of weight with it alone. and along with the hydroxycut its really been helping me!
just go to the GNC store and ask about these 2 products they can help you more with it!
and if you have anymore questions or need more details you can ask me!
hi all...
i am a male of 20.
i am under a weight loss progra of myself in which i do some tough enough exercise for around two and a half hour per day andtry to have light food in my everyday diet but i don't always succeed. sometimes i get a bit carried away but still i know with my schedule i owe to have lost aroun 2 kgs weight in last 2 weeks but its not happening. so somebody recommended me to try fat burner capsules as they initiate the process but when i went to chemist to buy them he had a whole lot of range of them. what i want to ask is should i look for some particular formula or component in them which may suit me the best.please tell me some name of formula or component.
p.s. i am 90 kgs, 5 foot 11 , and want to loose atleast 10 kgs.
please help.
ive been using hydroxycut max and acai berry genisis in the juice form (got both from the GNC store) and it cuts my appetite a lot and it gives you a lot of energy and makes you want to workout. and i think it makes you burn more fat when you workout. ive been losing between .5-1 pound a day! and i barely have cravings anymore and i workout probably 30-45 minutes a day
15/F
Me and this guy definitely like each other.
He just got out of a year+ relationship so he doesn't want to go out with me. He doesn't want others, or me, to think that I'm just a rebound.
Still, he holds my hand in public and he kissed me on the cheek and the forehead when we last hung out.
He's acting like we're going out, so why won't he ask me? It's like the same thing...right?
He DOES want to get to know me better. I guess that's a really good reason, too.
Do you think it could be anything else?
he just doesnt want to rush things! he probably still has feelings for his ex girlfriend, a year is a long time, he may even still be hoping to get back with his ex girlfriend. you both need to be careful. just keep seeing him and let the feelings between you 2 grow. dont push it, nobody likes when things are pushed! it will just break things apart.. let it happen (:
Okay so, I'm a virgin and I'm 15. I'm not planning on having sex for a really long time, my period is the 6th of every month and today is the 28th! My boyfriend came over and we were "dry humping" ? He wanted an orgasm so i was like Okay? I was in my underwear, he got one and like sperm? got all over my underwear and soaked through, I ran into the shower and scrubbed my "area" could I be pregnant?! PLEASE ANSWER! I'm so scared ): If my hymen hasn't broken, could there be a chance I'm not?!
no hun theres no way you could be pregnant. it got on your underwear, not IN you. dont sweat it!! =]
14/f
freshman in highschool.
so my high school dance team tryouts are coming up and i want to try out sooooo bad!
because i wanna be in it so bad! like i want it more than anything else. im not even kidding i want it so bad.
well there having three dance classes for about hour and a half before the day of tryouts and their free and im going, theres to teach you the dance u need to know for tryouts and thats it. but i heard its for eperienced dancers and i've only taken dance 1 at school. but i figured as long as i have the potential, confidence, and i i know the dance really good ten i have just as good of chance than anybody else.
am i right?
and im barelt even nervous about tryouts (which is weird) im more worried about if i DO get accpeted that my parents are gonna make me drop out becuase it SOOOOOOOO expensive, im talkin thosands and thousands of dollars. cause theres practice almost every day and even in the summer! we would go to california and various camps. it would be so much fun and im fully devoted!
but what can i do about money????
my parents are divorced so basically everything is 50% off cause they split it but its still a lot and you can pay it in payments... i cant get a job cause
im only 14 and im not allowed to babysit so what do i do?!?!?!?!
and also transportation is a big thing to cause my parents work a lot....
i cant catch a ride with any other girls either so i have a HUGE dilemma.
HELPPPPP!
what do you think of the situation?!?!
well ive been on a dance team before so maybe i can give you a little advice (:
you definatly should tryout even though you dont have a lot of "experience" if you're good, you're good!
also with the payment thing, most of the time the team will do fundraisers and carwashes to help with the expense. it wont pay all of it of course but it will help! also like the other advicenator said, talk to your parents. you really need to do that so they know, and can also think of ways to pay this cost. think of other fundraisers you can do outside of the squad.
and with the transportation thing, if your parents absolutely cant take you, most of the time the senior girls are responsible for rides for the underclassmen. just talk to your coach and squad about that when you make the team.
hope i helped..