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My Boyfriend Wants Me to Give Him Head
ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff
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If he really loves you, then he would respect you and not expect sexual favors from you. A relationship is kind of like a wordrobe... sex is only an accessory, whereas love and friendship are the more important things such as actual clothes. Although, it is nice to do something sexual for him every once in a while.
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First, I have to point out to you that anything we say as far as what we "think" is going on is pure speculation. We don't know you, we don't know your boyfriend, you haven't provided us much detail about your relationship with him, other than the problem of him just wanting sex or a blowjob. Your age matters. Next time, please include your age and gender.
I must point out that what seems to be missing here is COMMUNICATION. People are suggesting to you that you just say "no," but your boyfriend can't read your mind. He won't know why you're saying no. I don't know how old you are, but you need to sit down and tell him how you're feeling. Let him know that when you feel like all he wants you for is sex, it hurts. To have a relationship, you need to also have a friendship. To have a friendship, there needs to be a certain level of trust. Trust implies conversation, so have one.
Let him prove to you that this isn't all he wants you for - have one day where the two of you do nothing more than kiss, and do something fun together that you can both enjoy as a couple. Something that doesn't involve anything sexual.
There's no reason for you to feel this way.
Remember, keep an open mind, heart, AND mouth. =)
-Siren
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First of all sex cannot be the only basis of your relationship. Love is when the two you cannot stand being apart or when you have built a solid friendship and you can share your secrets/desires/have some same common goals. Sex is only 25% percent of your relationship that the intimacy you enjoy between the two of you. Theres so much more to love. I really think you to should have talked about this before you added sex into the equation
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well hun, answer these questions.. when ever your around him is all he talk about sex, and you doing stuff with him?.. and if you wont do it he says but baby i love you.?
if both of those are yes,, i hate to tell you but im 90% hes using you for action. i know its hard to hear but i dont think you want to be his girlfriend just for that. my advice is to leave before you get into deep with him.
hope i helped <3
kaaitlyn
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It doesn't sound to me like he's with you to be with you. He's with you for the sex. He's getting what he wants & is taking advantage of it.
I think you should break up with him & find someone who really wants to be with you despite the physical.
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hey...its kind of wrong for him to just want to have sex with u all the time..you should ask him why does he only want that..tell him how u feel about it...sex is good for the realtionship but not all the time you guys need to share nice moments and freakin ones too..you should talk to him about what you think and tell him its not right to have sex all the time..i hope i could help..
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It certainly sounds like he just wants to have sex with you, but nothing else that couple's do. If I were you, I'd talk to him and let him know that you two need to do more than just sex. If he really wants to be with you, he'll want to try harder and do better.
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Young guys don't know how to be mature about sex. Once you give it up, its all they want until you treat them like a puppy, stick their nose in it, and say "NO!"
Tell him point blank that he's being a dick. Tell him that its not ok with you for his only interest to be sex, and if he wants to have a girlfriend next week he's going to restrain himself and show some interest outside of sex, have a conversation.
If he doesn't comply, dump him.
Its more than likely not anything personal. Most guys who act like your boyfriend just don't really know any better. Teach him better, and if he resists, drop him like a bad habit.
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I'm going through the same thing with my current bf at the moment.
What i'm doing is saying no (i think he understands, but i'm not really sure).
I'm going to break up with mine (i have other reasons for breaking up with him) but for you talk it over with your bf, and the next time he wants sex just say No, or your not in the mood (it gets my bf every time lol).
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how long have you been dating add that in.
you should discuss this with him. everyone loves pleasure and sex, but if u feel like thats ALL you do anymore than talk to him about it. just say lets just hangout today, do you still have fun just hanging out without sex?
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