Member Since: April 17, 2009
Answers: 26
Last Update: May 25, 2009
Visitors: 2141
|
| |
Ok, rhis is sort of personal, but you know how when girls 'mature' they get vegina hair? Well, when you're going to have sex do you shave it or what? Plz help!
~Angela (link)
| |
nooo! 1st of all theres nothing to do with having it.. it does not affect anything.
|
He's moving!
the boy i like he, he's leaving and i'll see him again in time...
but i like him so much... and he used to like me before i screwed it up i don't know if he does anymore... he used to like me but i got scared and stopped talking to him and he later on, he went for another girl with whom he is still dating... but i like him so much, i might even... i might even love him... but he's moving from Virginia to California... what should i do? should i tell him how i feel? What can i do to make him want to stay? he has a choice here or California.. and he's choosing Cali ... what can i say to make him want to stay? please help me... please i'm so confused... i don't know what to do... just help, please. =[ (link)
|
well, deffinitely tell him how you feel. let him know that your ok with it if he doesnt like you back. but just let him know how you feel and tell him that you just dont want him to leave
-melly.
|
|
ok so i have been dating this guy named matthew for about nine months and we have been through alot together....my family recently just fell apart and i got sent to treatment foster care to work on stress and how to relate to a family positively so his mom is going into training to get as licesence for foster care so she can have me in her home i really love his family and i have become so attached to them his neice and nephew call me auntie and everything......anyway i found out last night that he was cheating on me i really love him and it kills me inside to know i cant be there when he wants me to but i dont know what to do if i leave him i have no where to go and his mom would just be wasting her time i dont want to let her down.....i really need help im so lost female/16 (link)
|
well in my opinion i think you should & shouldnt leave him. have you talked to him about it? if you havent you should. if he deny's it its probably cause he loves you. have you ever heard this saying? "when a man denies it he loves you" if he didnt want to be with you he wouldve just broken up with you. if you talk to him nd he confesses he is then you probably should. but most likely you dont need people telling you. just do what your heart feels better doing
glad i could help
- melanie
|
Ok i have these two girls that like me and i dont know who to choose i was hoping to get some opinions or advice
girl number one: i went out with before but it ended pretty quickly because she still loved her old boyfriend but we have remained really close friends since and there has always been something. now she said she always liked me and broke up with her bf to go out with me and i said ok but im afraid it will happen again. but we get along great, alot in common, lots of communication.but im not sure if i can readjust to becomeing more than friends again. even thought i keep thinking this is my chance to get her back,what iv wanted for so long...but im not sure if i want it.
girl 2: a girl that broke up with me a month ago. because she thought it was for the best and didnt want to hurt me, but she did alot because of the way it happened because she is really bad with communicating. I like her more that girl one but im so afraid ill get hurt again and im pretty sure i will. but she said she would really try and it feels right with her, even though i think it will just be temporarily happy because shes so complicated. she only told me all of thise when she saw me with girl one and it hurt too much and she realised etc.(we live in the same house)
but now im still going out with girl one and i have to choose but im so afraid of hurting girl one because i value her so much as a friend and in general. and im afraid im going to lose one of them so im not sure what to do
thanks (link)
|
well,in my opinion i thikn you should stay with girl number 1. I think you should stay with girl number 1 because,this has happened to me. He told me he loved me. and he wouldnt do it again. he dumped his girlfriend for me and so far our relashionship is going great. we'e been together for 6 months. and everything is going perfect. But,in the other hand im still afraid he might hurt me or do the same thing to me.. just the way you feel.
I dont think you should be with girl number 2 because,she broke up with you saying she didn't wanna hurt you and that it wasnt gonna work out. well what make's you think its gonna work out now? if i didnt work out 1 month ago (not tryna be rude lol). i think girl number 2 has mixed feelings. I also think girl number 2 MIGHT be using you just for some sex. since u guys live in the same house and she knows you would probably do it with her. well thats my opinion in your question :]
glad i could help
-melly
|
14/f
freshman
so i just started dating this guy. we will call him D. i have known D for almost 2 years now. We have been friends for about a year. Some of my friends think its great that we are going out. Butmost of them cant stand it. When I get to school I hang out with D, and our friends. And i was planning to still sit with my other friends at lunch and let D sit with his friends most of them time. Well my others friends are mad at me because I am going out with him ( he didnt always treat me the best when we were friends but he didnt do anything to my friends) i dont want my other friends to be mad at me, but i need to be with D too. I know friendship comes first so thats why i set tiem aside. What should I do? Also whenever I sit there they dont always talk to me but when I dont sit there they get mad at me for "ditching" them. It like I cant win. Can you please help me? (link)
| |
ive been threw this too. its really hard because,you dont know who to choose. :( i ended up choosing my boyfriend because my friends always got mad for no reason so i decided to choose him. or just talk to ur friends or do the same thing to them. or ignore and then they'll realize why you havent been talkin to them
|
16/F
This is prob. going to sound really nasty but,
when me and my boyfriend have sex on the floor
and im laying flat down on the floor when i get up after sex my pussy makes like a farting noise and it was SO embarrassing. And I mean there is like nothing I can do to stop itt.
Any advice? (link)
| |
that happens when your having sex or gettin eaten out...its called qiff..it makes a really funny fart sound but its not a fart..it happens when the girls climax gets really high..he should understand that if not then just talk to him about it..if your having sex with him it must mean you really trust him so you should be open to him..hope i could help...
|
|
My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and it was amazing! The only not so good part of it is I got pregnant. I used three different kinds of tests and they all said I was pregnant. I am not sure what to do. I am so afraid to tell my mom because I am only 14 and she wants the best for me. Please! I really don't know what to do and I'm scared. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks. (link)
| |
dam that crazy...dam your only 14 its up to you and the guy what you guys really want to do.. a baby is a really big responsibility..the only advice i would give is either keep the baby or abort it at this point you really cant do much about it im sorry to tell you this...i hope i could help a little..sorry..
|
|
OK so me and my ex girlfriend broke up because she was crushin on another guy.....and i loved my choice on brakin up with her but i just i cant move on i just cant and each time i get a text message from her my heart jumps for joy and i loved er so much and she tells me she loves me everyday what should i do???? (link)
| |
aww your so romantic..anywayz i think shes just messing around with your head im a girl and i would tell my xs i love them even thought they were outta my mind..i think you should really see if she still loves you or w.e..you should realy talk to her about what she feels for you if she does love you shell leave her boyfriend for you..if not shes not worth it...
|
|
what does being eaten out feel like? my boyfriend wants to do it to me so i kinda want to know what to expect and what should i do while he's doing it? (link)
| |
when i get eaten out i get a tingly feelin all over my body and i get fucking wet..its an undescribabal feeling that you dont want it to end..while my boyfriend is eating me out i close my eyes and just want to fuck the shit outta him..it feels so good..glad i can help...:D
|
Okay, so my boyfriend and my 2-year anniversary is coming up. I am getting him a dc sweater. I think I might be writing some poetry about him too. I am not sure what to get him as he says he wants nothing for the 2 yr or he says he just wants me but I really want to get him something.
About him:
- He doesn't like chocolate
- He can't wear cheap gold/silver b/c it bugs his skin
- He has all of the cds of the bands he likes.
- Can’t do a scrapbook because he hates pictures and I don't have enough for a scrapbook.
- I’ve already bought him movies, clothes, etc.,
I will rate every response and thank you soooo much for your help! (link)
| |
umm why dont you get him an ipod you said he has cds of the bands he likes, with that he could put all his music together...if not that then a car every guy likes cars like a infinite or the nissan x..or a real diamond ring that says both of ur anishals...if not then just buy him flowers and a bear guys would like tat...hope i could help...
|
|
how do make my girlfriend feel special (link)
| |
awwww...sorry had a moment...just tell her sweet things and how much she means to you..i think that would work..:D...hope i could help
|
This is dumb, but how are you supposed to wear lipstick?
Do you put something on your lips first, like a chapstick? I was thinking of doing that with some spf chapstick before i put on lipstick
Do you need lipliner? what does lipliner do...ive never understood
do you cover the lipstick with a gloss??
PLEASE dont tell me to experiment, that is so not what i need just TELL ME exactly what to do and what you do or would do (link)
| |
umm you get the lipstick and just put it like chapstick the difference is chapstick doesnt really have color to it and lipstick does and it kinda shows a little gloss..umm lipliner goes around your lip and it makes your look kinda look biger..if you want to put gloss on with lipstick atts fine but lipstick kinda has gloss already it would just make your lips very shinee...:D
|
ok im baleemic and im boy friend is worried and my friends are to...
my boy friend is threatening to dump me...
they keep telling me to go to the hospital but i dont think i need to i dont see what the big prob is... its my life should i do what they say or just say f***k it and go on with what im doing??? (link)
| |
what thats crazy..you should really go to the doctor...they tell u because they care, if they didnt no one would really tell you anything...i think you should go to the doctor your boyfriend and friends care..you should really go to the doctor being baleemic is not the right thing to do!!!!i hope i could help..
|
ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff (link)
| |
hey...its kind of wrong for him to just want to have sex with u all the time..you should ask him why does he only want that..tell him how u feel about it...sex is good for the realtionship but not all the time you guys need to share nice moments and freakin ones too..you should talk to him about what you think and tell him its not right to have sex all the time..i hope i could help..
|
ok so im not exactly tall. I'm 16 and some 8th graders are taller then me :/ but then again they are really tall for their age.
erm so like what can i do to appear taller?
i know that i should have a good posture, but i mean how can i DRESS to appear tall? i already wear skinny jeans. my weight is normal, i dont have any fat dangling or anything like that :P
(link)
| |
hey...umm why dont u wear sum highheels to try and look taller..but anywyaz you really shouldnt care if ur short or tall i heard guys like short girls...im 15 and my height is 5 feet or so..i dont complain:D
|
|
so ive binged.. and "purged" three times before. the third time tonight. i ate a lot of bad food and ive been workig out so much i felt like i have failed myself i dont want to get fat so i after i ate i panicked and threw it up. the first two times i did it i said id neverrrr again do that to myself. but i did, again tonight. im saying again to myself i wont do that again! i know its horrible. but now that ive done it a third time could this be a serious problem? what can happen if i keep this up? is doing it 3 times harmful or only if i continue? how do i stop? (link)
|
i think it is very wrong for you to be eatin and then throwin it up..if your gonna throw it up why eat?!?! that is very wrong! you dont have to starve urself only because you dont want to be fat.. thats horrible and ridicious...people should take you for who you are and if they dont they dont really care about you...you could lose weight by excersing daily and eat but a small portion..you should go to the doctor if you see that you keep eatin and throwin it up..thats really wrong and its harm to your body!!!hope i could help...
~>*melly*
|
|
so my mom does pretty much everything in my house.. between taking care of me & my brother, laundry, dishes, errands, taking us places, working.. you name it. my dads always working so hes never home so pretty much she does everything on her own. and a lot of times she just breaks down crying because shes so stressed out. i really try helping by doing the dishes and trying to make her feel better .. and (attempting) to clean my room..put away my laundry.. and try to make it easier on her. but she still feels like i dont do enough and says i dont appreciate her. i really do appreciate everything she does, i love her, shes my mom. i dont know what else to do. i feel like i help out but i guess i dont do it enough.. i dont know whether its that im lazy or i do something that makes me seem like a mediocre daughter.. i know i should really help more and i try but i never have the drive to do it. and i dont know what to do. its actually really hard to explain and even when she yells i dont feel that bad. i do feel bad for it..but i just feel..like i have no feelings. and i dont know how to change it. i feel like i should be in tears every night trying to change myself and at least act more appreciative because i obviously dont show it. i dont know. the things i feel inside are sincere feelings and feelings of love and wanting to help my mom but i cant get myself to do it. its like i live on another planet and i cant control myself. i just end up thinking way too much and i waste my time and my moms..i know i should be helping my mom more . but whatever i do never seems like its enough. can someone advise me what to do? (link)
|
i think you should do more.. your mom is only one person she cant be doing all the work at home by herself ..you guys should do it together.. you should help your mom out and get it done faster and spend time together at the same time.. you should talk to her about what you feel and not keep it in..you shouldnt be lazy because your mom probably doesnt even noe wat lazy is cuz she works so hard... you should show her that you really do apreciate her for all the hard work she does..i think you should help her out more in the house if she says you dont appreciate her its because u really arent showin her.. show her you care and maybe she wont get soo stressed out doin it alone...glad i could help..
~>*melly*
|
|
Almost a week ago my girlfriend and I broke up my reasoning because we never see each other and I didn't think she really cared but I am still madly in love with her. However a couple days ago I found out she had cheated on me and she also convinced me that she did care and that's why we started talking about braking up before but I didn't know why. I think she was just too scared of the consequences that's why she broke up with me. I'm willing to forgive her and try to get back with her, but I'm not sure how to do it or if shell agree. Can you please tell me how I can handle this (link)
|
i think if you want a real relationship you have to at least see her a couple of days a week, not once in a while thats not a real relationship and another thing she cheated on you maybe because she barely saw you and you guys dont really have lots of communication and time together to share...i would just try and move on and find someone that i would see more often..glad i could try and help..
~>*m3lly*
|
|
I have bright red blood in my poop....What does this mean?. (link)
| |
eat more vegetables!
|
14/f
Well I'm going to get my hair cut soon but I don't know if I should do anything different. My hair is almost down to my elbow kinda length. My hair is dark brown and I have tannish skin. I'm indian so I have thick hair. I have an ovalish face too. My hair is long layered too, plain straight. Oh and I have side bangs. So is there any ideas on what I should do?
Second, I was thinking of maybe getting highlights. But I don't know if any would be a good color for me. Since my hair is dark like almost black. So I wouldn't want anything to stand out too much. Like no blond. And another question, what are low lights? I've heard people talk about it but I don't know what it is. Thanks! (link)
| |
you should get layers with like redish highlights :]
|
|