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what should i do im baleemic
ok im baleemic and im boy friend is worried and my friends are to...
my boy friend is threatening to dump me...
they keep telling me to go to the hospital but i dont think i need to i dont see what the big prob is... its my life should i do what they say or just say f***k it and go on with what im doing???
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I'm so sorry. You are really hurting and in need. I do care or I wouldn't bother to take the time to answer. Your boyfriend cares or he wouldn't make threats about leaving you. He's also afraid. Afraid for your health and afraid of giving you to much of his heart just to end up losing you anyway. How can he expect you to be able to love him if you can't even love yourself?
You are (or at least you think you are) concerned about how you look. Bulemia goes far deeper than what you see in the mirror, but I'll start with that. The first thing you see in the mirror most likely is your face. Your eyes and your mouth. Bulemia might (I'll explain why I say might later) help you get skinny, but while it does, if it does, your going to lose your other good looks. Your eyes will develope dark circles and become sunken in thier sockets. Your skin will lose it's healthy blush and become sallow (a sickly gray color). You'll lose your smile as your teeth rot from the stomach acid you keep puking up. Your breath will smell bad not just from the gases your empty stomach will belch up but from disintigration of your desolving teeth. Your hair will lose it's luster and bounce and become dry and brittle. Your fingernails will become brittle chip and break. Your skin will become dry and flaky. These are just things you can see on the surface. Now lets go below the surface to what's happening inside that you can't see. Bulemia is starvation. Our bodies do things for us that we have no control over to survive. The first thing your body will do for you when it thinks it is starving will be to STORE FAT! YES! STORE FAT! Instead of burning fat your body will begin to cannabilize itself by burning muscle because you need body fat to regulate your temperature. Your HEART is a muscle, but long before your heart muscle begins to be consumed you will have already lost so much potassium and calcium you most likely will already have had a heart attack from that. Have you started having muscle cramps yet? That is one of the first signs your body is in trouble due to dehydration and low levels of potassium. Ok, now lets get on to that skinny thing I mentioned earlier. Have you ever taken a really good look at one of those naked children in africa. They are starving too! See how wasted they look all skinny arms and legs, thier heads look to big for thier bodies. Now take a closer look at thier bellies. Not so skinny are they. Big and round and bloated due to trapped gas from the effects of thier bodies feeding upon themselves. This is the same gas that is causing your foul breath. Is this really what you want to end up looking like? Is this why you are forcing yourself to suffer starvation? Do you hate yourself so much that you feel the need to suffer and die a slow and agonizing death? I don't even know you and I cry for the torture you are putting yourself through. There is No Way you are doing this for fashion. You are hurting inside from something else and it's killing you. PLEASE! I BEG OF YOU! For your sake and the sake of everyone who cares about you. Take that one single step and ask for help. I'll say a prayer for you, but there is a saying that God helps those who help them selves. Please get help!
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You have a good boyfriend if he is worried about you. He should be. He will probably also dump you if you continue, hes to young to be stuck with a person who will have lots of avoidable health complications.
If you want a life, you should listen to what you are being told. Tell your parents you have a problem and get help. I have more info on eating disorders in my forum. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Hope you find something to help you. Good luck.
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i used to have bulimia to i know what your going through please don't do it i had to be rushed during on of my cheerleading compitions becasue i fell from not eating and no strength i broke my arm and it hurt like hell! but i had to get help and they made sure i ate it was horrible and it's good that you have friends that tell you to stop, they care! look up the causes of bulimia and maybe that will help you if you wanna lose weight fast just eat fruit for three days your probably 15-18 you'll lose weigh fast like probably 15 pounds thats if you stay hydrated and to 10 min of cardio just run up and down the stairs for 5 min then do crunches or leg lifts or squats those are great excercises!
just don't do that to yourself!!! youll see results quickly just do what i told you its easier and healthier!
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what thats crazy..you should really go to the doctor...they tell u because they care, if they didnt no one would really tell you anything...i think you should go to the doctor your boyfriend and friends care..you should really go to the doctor being baleemic is not the right thing to do!!!!i hope i could help..
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Bulimia is a really concerning problem that you need to get sorted! i agree wit your friends! go and see a dcotor.. you can do damage to yourself!
which obviously you wouldnt see becuase you actualyl do it.
do what they say, for you health and your friendships!
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Bulimia is a serious condition that needs to be dealt with. It can cause tons of health issues down the line.
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You need to listen to what your friends are saying and get yourself some help. People can die from being bulimic because of malnourishment. Its not something to mess around with.
First step is to tell your parents whats going on and get yourself some help.
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