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ok im baleemic and im boy friend is worried and my friends are to...
my boy friend is threatening to dump me...
they keep telling me to go to the hospital but i dont think i need to i dont see what the big prob is... its my life should i do what they say or just say f***k it and go on with what im doing??? (link)
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I'm so sorry. You are really hurting and in need. I do care or I wouldn't bother to take the time to answer. Your boyfriend cares or he wouldn't make threats about leaving you. He's also afraid. Afraid for your health and afraid of giving you to much of his heart just to end up losing you anyway. How can he expect you to be able to love him if you can't even love yourself?
You are (or at least you think you are) concerned about how you look. Bulemia goes far deeper than what you see in the mirror, but I'll start with that. The first thing you see in the mirror most likely is your face. Your eyes and your mouth. Bulemia might (I'll explain why I say might later) help you get skinny, but while it does, if it does, your going to lose your other good looks. Your eyes will develope dark circles and become sunken in thier sockets. Your skin will lose it's healthy blush and become sallow (a sickly gray color). You'll lose your smile as your teeth rot from the stomach acid you keep puking up. Your breath will smell bad not just from the gases your empty stomach will belch up but from disintigration of your desolving teeth. Your hair will lose it's luster and bounce and become dry and brittle. Your fingernails will become brittle chip and break. Your skin will become dry and flaky. These are just things you can see on the surface. Now lets go below the surface to what's happening inside that you can't see. Bulemia is starvation. Our bodies do things for us that we have no control over to survive. The first thing your body will do for you when it thinks it is starving will be to STORE FAT! YES! STORE FAT! Instead of burning fat your body will begin to cannabilize itself by burning muscle because you need body fat to regulate your temperature. Your HEART is a muscle, but long before your heart muscle begins to be consumed you will have already lost so much potassium and calcium you most likely will already have had a heart attack from that. Have you started having muscle cramps yet? That is one of the first signs your body is in trouble due to dehydration and low levels of potassium. Ok, now lets get on to that skinny thing I mentioned earlier. Have you ever taken a really good look at one of those naked children in africa. They are starving too! See how wasted they look all skinny arms and legs, thier heads look to big for thier bodies. Now take a closer look at thier bellies. Not so skinny are they. Big and round and bloated due to trapped gas from the effects of thier bodies feeding upon themselves. This is the same gas that is causing your foul breath. Is this really what you want to end up looking like? Is this why you are forcing yourself to suffer starvation? Do you hate yourself so much that you feel the need to suffer and die a slow and agonizing death? I don't even know you and I cry for the torture you are putting yourself through. There is No Way you are doing this for fashion. You are hurting inside from something else and it's killing you. PLEASE! I BEG OF YOU! For your sake and the sake of everyone who cares about you. Take that one single step and ask for help. I'll say a prayer for you, but there is a saying that God helps those who help them selves. Please get help!
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I was really in need of someone's advice an you seem to answer back the quickest :)
Tommorow I will be exactly 2 weeks late on my period . I have takin 3 tests already an each one was negative. I don't know if it's two early to detect anything or what. The last test I took was on Monday as well negative. I am expierencing no signs of period ? I usually get bitchy , which haven't been lately and I get this clear discharge which has me rushingg to the bathroom in hope of my period being here an NOPE just the same ol' discharge. I also get realllyy tired after I get home from work so usually I just wanna lay around an take naps the moment I get home, yet I push myself to keep going an not be lazzyy. SO I was wondering did you expierence any of these symptoms? (link)
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I really hope this is good news for you, but yes you are experiencing the classic signs of pregnancy. What you need to remember is we are all individuals, different from each other and special in our own unique ways. You may very well be one of those people who will continue to have a false negative throughout your pregnancy. Wait at least another 2 weeks and if you are still having symptoms, see your doctor and ask to have an ultrasound done. This way you will be able to see the answer for yourself. I don't know how old you are or your situation, but if you can't afford to go to the doctor of your choice, look into Planned Parenthood or other public health facility. If you can't find something in the phonebook, call your local hospital, explain you can't afford to pay and ask for a refferal.
I want to make something esspecially clear however. I don't want to scare you and this is not even probable only a possibility. Sometimes false negatives are due to what is called an ectopic pregnancy, which means the egg has attached in the falopian tube. This can be VERY dangerous. You know the difference between monthly discomfort and pain that makes you think something might be wrong. If you feel any unusual pain in your abdominal area go to the emergency room right away. God Bless! and Good Luck!
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“Where are ya gonna sleep tonight?”
These were the song lyrics onlast nights epsiode of THE HILLS, yet I cannot find it. I keep searching an it says some amy mcdonald girl but if you listen to the song an then the way it sounds on mtv it sounds like two totally different songs?
Does anyone know this song? (link)
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Not sure which version of the song you are looking for but check out "Drive" by "The Cars"
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I have:
-High body temperature
-Constipation
-Breast Tenderness
-Fatigue
-Frequent Urination
-Darkened Breasts
What could this be? (link)
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These were the same symptoms I had when I first discovered I was pregnant. Congradulations?
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i've been wanting to get a nose piercing or a lip piercing for awhile, but i'm wondering a few things,
1. I have a smallish face, with bigish cheeks =P. my nose is a normal size. So, taking this into consideration- how do nose piercings make features look? Meaning, do nose piercings enhance cirtain features of your face?(ex-they make your face look thinner/fatter,make your eyes look bigger-things like that-other features than just the nose)And, also, does it make your nose look bigger or smaller? Or does it do nothing,just a simple piercing upon a face?(this is just simply something i was wondering =P)
2. ^ Same question, just for the lip. (ex-does it make lips look bigger,smaller, or enhance things other than the lip on the face?)
i've looked everywhere for the answers to these^ sorry if i'm unclear XD. thank you all wonderful people of planet earth! (link)
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I am not saying it's a bad idea to get a piercing, but there are other questions you should be asking besides how one or the other will look. As for the nose. Have you considered what it might be like if you happened to catch a cold? The lip is part of your mouth and when you eat food particles can get into the wound and cause an infection. Talk to your friends who have these specific piercings first. Ask them what they love, what they hate, what they would do differently. Are they still happy they had it done or would they still do it knowing what they know now? If you know any boys who have girlfriends with liprings, ask them what it's like to kiss a girl with one. Ask the girl what it's like as well. Does it get in the way or hurt if it gets pulled? After getting some basic information from people who have lived with it, then you might want to look in the mirror with a stick on or a non permanent devise. Your local arts and crafts store will have inexpensive (fixings) like the little rings that hold jewelry in place. Spread one apart and attach it to your lip to see how it looks. Leave it on for 24 hours and live your normal daily ruetine. Experience for yourself the ups and downs of what it's like to have it there. For the nose. There are usually stick on earrings in the childrens jewelry area that are tiny and can be put in place to see how it looks. What ever you decide, it will be YOUR informed decision. Your body, your life. This is a decision you should make for yourself. Good Luck
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