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i'm new to this and i dunno how to send a private message so im just going to thank you through question thingy. i jst want to say thanks for your advice, and i want to say, no i dont want her for her body at all, she's like really nice and i wouldnt really be chosing a 13 year old as my #1 age to date but she acts just like a 15-16 year old.. she even looks 15 :P shes same height as me aswell.. and i'm tallish :P so yeah thanks 4 the advice i really appreciate it. =] (link)
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your welcome! i believe you, that you actually really like her.
i hope the best goes for you two!
if you have more trouble just come to me!
-Andrea
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Okay so im fifteen and there is this girl thats 13 and she really likes me and i like her, but is 15 too old 2 b dating a 13 year old? well, were secretly going out with each other, nobody else knows cuz we dont want our parents knowing :] but we've been caught by both our parents hugging all the time but they dont seem to mind.. much :p her parents dont, mine does :S anyway were ALWAYS holding hands and hugging when were alone but when were in public we hold hands secretly, noone see's ;]i dont think she wants to kiss yet though. i always kiss her on the cheek, head and neck though and she loves it but im just wondering about this.. she went out with 2 of my other friends but they broke up for stupid reasons.. they wernt really that nice to her either.. like, the 12 year old (as tall as me) broke up with her for not seeing him in 2 days cuz she was inside sick, they were going out for 3 months at d time(he only gave her 1 hug within them 3 months).. then the 13 year old talked too dirty all the time so she broke up with him in d first week.. but neither of them gave her much hugs or held her hand or anything like that.. she told me that im the best bf she ever seen or had and she's always hugging me and when we have to leave each other she always lets me kiss her cheek if were alone, or if were in public she hugs me and whispers 'i love you' and 'i miss you already' after i say it first. she said that im so much better than the other 2 guys aswell... but there is a few things thats weiirrdd... we live right next to each other, so if either of us are out the backgarden we can see each other from our windows. but when ever she's at her window or im at mine she waves at first and smiles at me, but then she completely ignores me when i try to call her again.. i catch her sneaking a look at me every now and then though.. like if i call her loads she'll answer but if i call her like less than 5-10 times she'll ignore me.. but whenever i have to close my window i blow her a kiss and she would blow one back (most of d time), sometimes she just looks on the ground and ignores that i did it.. oh and my brother asked her would she kiss me (i didnt ask him to) and she said no.. but she kissed the other two guys when they asked her (i dont mind tho, im just wondering why), and she says she likes me more :P we've liked each other for 1-2 months now but were only going out for 5 days today, haha :P but she kissed the 13 year old on their 5th day ;O =P its not even that i want a kiss that bad its just.. you know what i meen :P
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Q1. Is 15 too old to date a 13?
Q2. Do you know why she ignores me like that?
Q3. The kiss thing :P
Oh and one last thing.. when ever i have to leave her, even though we had a really good time, i still feel worried that i annoyed her or i didnt say goodbye properly or something... even though i probably did... i know these things are only SMALL problems but im just wondering :] thanks. (link)
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Q1. if you like her for her not her body, then NO it's fine to be dating her but if your only dating her to get in her pants then YES it would be too old!
Q2. i think she ignores you because maybe she's not used to all the attention you seem to be giving her, as you said from all the other guys your different. So, maybe it's something you should ask her about, it's the only way to know for sure. But when you ask her don't come on as like mad about it, just be like " honey, i feel like your ignoring me..." and see what she says.
Q3. The kiss thing well it's kinda like Question2, i think since your different your way more special to her than those other guys so maybe its a lot more nerve-racking to her. just be patient! it will happen soon enough when the time is right. just accept her wishes if she isn't ready to kiss a special guy like you.
I hope i helped! And please, I'm 15 to i know what most guys want from girls and i know that it's a lot easier to manipulate a younger girl to do what you want... i just hope your not one of those guys. I wish the best for you two! and if you have anymore questions just ask.
- Andrea =D
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this guy that i like asked me to tell him how would he say that a girl is attractive in spanish since im puerto rican and i can speak both languages i dont know if he was being flirty or just being nice buti like him alot BUT I have my doubts if he feels the same way hes my dentist but now he just wants to have conversations in spanish. after were done he toches my shoulder we seem to have alot of eye contact but it did really keep me thinking why did he ask me what was the proper way to say that a woman is attractive but he ask me that in spanish i was thinking maybe he was trying to tell me that im attractive but not directly and his helper was there and she asked me are you guys talking about me but she was kinda laughing and i said no but he didnt even tell her what he had asked me in spanish i have a strong feeling he likes me but i still have some doubts i dont know if its becuase he my dentist or what im really confused! By the way im 26 and he is 40
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oh, he thinks your attractive... he makes eye contact and everything he likes you next time make a move! he's waiting for you to say something flirty back.. do it! take a chance! and he was being indirect about it.. it's just his flirting style... hope i helped!
=D Andy
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ok! i like two guys but of them dont really show much of attention i need from them and it kind of hurt sometimes cuz im a person who love attention from people. one of the guy have claimed me or whatever is not but just happen to tell me he need space ... complicated but the other guy who say he dont want a relationship right now but i jus found out he has a gurl but at the same time he styll wants me to be all smooch up on him he had once mention he liked me but im not pretty convince .. long story short i want to get away from this guy but it seems like he jus sticking there and getting closer and more closer he gets the more i seem to get hurt ... WAT DO I DO? (link)
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tell him you don't like him tell him your going out with some other guy in a different school something like that. i know how you feel its highly annoying!!!! just tell him what you feel!
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Do lighter parts of your skin tan more than darker parts? Like..will my skin even out eventually? Because I'm going to use this tanning spray (don't tell me that spray tans are gross or w/e because i am shielding myself from the sun!!!!!! and i want to be tan.) and i want to know if my skin will be one shade (or at least close) eventually because right now my arms are tan but my tummy is WHITEEEEEE (link)
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well areas around your knees and elbows ( areas of thicker skin) will look darker then the rest what you want to do is exfoliate your legs and arms to get dead skin cells off and face to if your doing face. this will help to even out the color, but don't sweat it i mean even tans from the sun are the same they are always darker around the knees and elbows! and yea if you get close enough colors youll be even everywhere.
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This is going to be a really stupid question. I'm in love with the movie How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. I've seen it many times. I'm completely in love with yellow dress that she wears towards the end of this movie, along with the isadora necklace, the really expensive one. With the yellow diamond. I was going to put a picture on here to show all of you, but I'm not sure how. I'm wanting to know if anyone knows where I can find a necklace that's just like that one? It's beautiful! If anyone knows where I can find a necklace like that, please write back! Thank you so much. (link)
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there are websites where you can buy the exact same things from the movies but i don't know what they are you could research if your in love with it that shouldn't be a problem.
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okay so im doing strength training about twice a week, and cardio about 4 times a week. i want to gain a bit of muscle and lose weight. on the days i do strength training do i need to eat more calories? how many calories should i be consuming to lose 5 pounds? i am also taking hydroxycut. i am 120 pounds 5'3 and 17 years old. i want to be at 115 and i would like to lose this 5 pounds within 2 or 3 weeks? (link)
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yes if you want to gain more muscle consume more calories but good calories like mostly carbs from whole grain and protein from lean meat. if you wanna lose five pound and your 120 and 5'3 my estimation is somewhere around 1500-2000 to gain musle but lose fat and remember to do at least 10 min of cardio before and after workouts that the only way to lose body mass.
HOWEVER... on the news today a woman i think they said died or had a stroke because of hydroxycut. i suggest looking at recent news about that weight loss pill i threw mine out TODAY!
i really hope i helped you! it's great that you are physically fit!
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This is dumb, but how are you supposed to wear lipstick?
Do you put something on your lips first, like a chapstick? I was thinking of doing that with some spf chapstick before i put on lipstick
Do you need lipliner? what does lipliner do...ive never understood
do you cover the lipstick with a gloss??
PLEASE dont tell me to experiment, that is so not what i need just TELL ME exactly what to do and what you do or would do (link)
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to have to most natural look you want put it on your finger first then smear it on to your lips if then take towel paper and put your lips on it and blot then you should add a minimal amount of gloss on your lips to add shine and make lips look bigger this would be a day look.
a night look you would want to get the same shade of lip liner and lipstick and do the same steps but don't blot then after you add lip liner and if it's to obvious you could smear it with a lip brush
again add minimal gloss.
to make it last longer with out buying expenses brands you can put conceler or foundation on your lips to make the color stick
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im in love with this guy we use to go to high school together then he gradute. that how we meet and we start messing around for almost a year now, i do everything he want me to do but i love him he doesnt want a girl friend i dont know hat to do cause i dont want to let him go.we had a lot up and down he like my boyfriend but he"s not he mean the world to me (link)
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i dont wanna tell you this but it sounds like hes just wants you and not in a romantic way im sorry but it's hard just let him go he's not worth it there are sweet guys out there that would most likely love you don't waste your time!
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ok im baleemic and im boy friend is worried and my friends are to...
my boy friend is threatening to dump me...
they keep telling me to go to the hospital but i dont think i need to i dont see what the big prob is... its my life should i do what they say or just say f***k it and go on with what im doing??? (link)
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i used to have bulimia to i know what your going through please don't do it i had to be rushed during on of my cheerleading compitions becasue i fell from not eating and no strength i broke my arm and it hurt like hell! but i had to get help and they made sure i ate it was horrible and it's good that you have friends that tell you to stop, they care! look up the causes of bulimia and maybe that will help you if you wanna lose weight fast just eat fruit for three days your probably 15-18 you'll lose weigh fast like probably 15 pounds thats if you stay hydrated and to 10 min of cardio just run up and down the stairs for 5 min then do crunches or leg lifts or squats those are great excercises!
just don't do that to yourself!!! youll see results quickly just do what i told you its easier and healthier!
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what can i do to my hair without scrunching or straighting it or curling it? everytime im come out of the shower its kinda poofy waved and dry looking. never could i go out with that lol (link)
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hummmmm lets seeee you don't wanna straighten your hair you don't wanna curl it or scrunch it well i guess there's no hope then is there?
you could braid your hair your could low like farm girl pig- tails its really cute and you wont look like a farm girl!!!
um if this wasn't what you were looking for sorrryy i tried but i don't really see what you want as an answer
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Is there a good free website that teaches online language lessons? I would like to finish french and pick up arabic... any ideas? thanks (link)
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try
about.com
you can learn any language there for free and the way they set things up is pretty nice the give you pronunciations and audio recordings on the words and the rules of the language and things like that!
hope i helped!
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For a school project my friends and i are filming the scene from the book a tree grows in brooklyn where francie spends the night with lee. what chapter is this in and what clothing would be worn at this time? (time is around 1915 i believe) any help would be greatly appreciated (link)
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well there is a movies called " A Tree Grows in Brooklyn"
in case you didn't know... but in the movie as you know she's poor so i guess rags and panty hose for Francie and a raggedy dress ugly plain brown shoes i guess moccosins would work and that sort of thing if you've ever seen Annie the musical that's what i'm talking about!!!!
i hope i helped!
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My dad just recently told me he is gay. He hasnt told anyone his whole life accept for me. This is really difficult for me and I was wondering where I could find people to help support me through this hard and confusing time. (link)
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wow that is tough well you could talk to your mom or a someone close to you... or a guidance counselor.
i'm sorry that this has happend to you your father shouldn't have told you this. unless you are the last person he could go to
if you ever need someone to talk about this you could tell me if you want... this deffinatly is a hard postion.
hope i helped
-andy
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my friend told me about this site and it was like "omega" or something, I can't quite remember the name.
he said you go to the site, click connect and you are just talking to a stranger. it is labeled "stranger" and "you."
if anyone has the link to this chat room thing, please let me know thanks. (link)
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i don't know why you would want to go to a site like that is sounds kinda creepy i don't know that site but if what your looking for is a chat room for free and is totally fun go to
tagged.com
it's an awesome website!
hope i helped a little
-andy
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Okay so,
I was really curious about this...
How close can you get to your root when you shave?
Can you actually kill the root with the razor?
Or will your skin not let you go that far?
This question is haunting me!
PLEASEEEE HELPPP! :) (link)
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Here is a link to a picture so you can see a better pic as to what i mean.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:HairFollicle.png
okay so where it say on the pic. skin surface you only shave that hair but the follicle is still under the skin so thats why hair always grows back and your skin will not let you go that far to reach it no matter how you shave you can't get to it.
however you can you products such as Nair a cream that goes into the hair follicle and melts the hair i use this is works like a charm but it really irritates my skin makes it very vunerable. the onle way to never have to shave again is to get laser hair removal the laser damages and kills the hair follicle so that it can't grow anymore.
anymore questions just ask! hope i helped you out.
-Andy
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I told my guy friend from school, who i like, that i liked him today in one of our classes, which was really hard for me to do. He sits behind me but I decided to just text him during class. I told him I had to tell him something but i didn't want him to be weirded out and he sortof seemed confused. So I told him, and said that it was hard for me to say and that i understand if he doesnt feel the same way and that I hope we could still be friends in that case and that I'm sorry if I freak him out. He didn't answer. The bell rang, and since it was double period science we had the break and usually he stays but this time he totally dashed out the door to go talk to our other friend, but i don't think he told her about it. When he came back I was on the phone with my cousin and he was obviously trying to avoid me by being all buddy buddy with his other friend that sits behind him. When we went to get lab books, he passed by me as fast as he could. We're in different lab groups, but he came near my lab table at one point for supplies and whatever and didn't acknowledge me. I did happen to notice him looking my way through this glass cabinet a couple times when he was at his lab table on the other side of the room, and clearly I was upset and pissed that he didn't say anything and he still hasn't said anything. I don't regret telling him but I feel like an idiot now and I'm upset. Does him ignoring me and avoiding me like that mean he wants to have nothing to do with me or does it mean I just took him off guard and he just needs time to respond to me? Should I say something to him at some point this weekend or wait until monday? I'm really upset, I really don't want to ruin our friendship =[ (link)
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oh I'm sorry!
But hey i really do think you just caught him off guard and he could be a little surprised by what you told him. I don't think he'll text you today but i think saturday you should text him and say "Hi =]" see if he reply's if he doesn't then a couple hours later text him again if he doesn't reply again don't text him anymore that day he could get annoyed you DON'T want that! sunday if you feel comfortable text him again "HI! what are you doing?" or something.
if he doesn't respond then just leave him alone till Monday, at school. Monday don't talk to him just pass by him a lot and smile in his direction then if you want talk to him and smile really confident and say " Hey! what did you do this weekend?" or what ever you want don't discuss the incident just yet save that for when you know its time to ask if you don't see him monday do this same thing in science or what ever class you have with him if you don't get the idea he likes you back and you still want to be friends with him than the best thing to do is pretend that it never happend unless he brings it up just say what you said before about just being friends if he didn't like you.
IF he texts you back though do the same as before don't bring it up! if he like you back and wants to know more about it he'll bring it up in the texts!
i hope i helped you i know how it's like waiting for someone to answer you!
with love
-ANDY
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My boyfriend and I are perfect for each other. We didn't kiss for a loooong time and waited. I spent the night at his house last weekend with no intentions of even kissing but we kissed and kissed and kissed and were SO close to having sex. He really wanted to but I kept saying no (even though my body was telling me yes ! lmao!) because I want to wait & for it to be special. Later, he told me we really should wait, too. But bottom line is: we can't. I just know we can't wait. What can we do to in order to not have sex? Even by one little itty bitty touch, we're ready to get it onnnnnnnnn. hahahaha. (link)
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my advice is....DON'T!!!!!! just wait watch the secret life of the american teenager and if you already do then why would consider risking that? you could get HIV/AIDS you could get an STD or pregnant i honestly believe you when you say he's perfect but alll my friends tell me it's not worth it and now there boyfriends won't stop bugging them about getting in bed that's all they want from them my best friends boyfriend hits her now because she refuses to and she doesn't know how to get away and i'm not saying your boyfriend would do that because i'm sure he wouldn't but it's not worth it okay just wait at least till the end of high school
it would help to know your age =]
i really hope i helped even if you don't like my advice just think about it please....
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So a few months ago me and my no ex had broke up. It hurt a lot and it still does but im better at dealing with it now... The weird thing is though I feel as if I have no feelings for anyone... Like friendship or anything. I sometimes find myself dreading to hang out with people... Normally Im a very affectionate person and love to get out with people. Im a very social person. All this started happening after the break up. It's weird because Im trying to get out there and im trying to like new people and stuff but it's not working I just feel like no one matters anymore. I tried detaching myself from my ex but I feel like I did with everyone around me too. It's weird....Any ideas about whats up with me? (link)
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well maybe its because your subconsciously afraid of getting hurt again wether it be form another guy or friends.
maybe your mind and body just aren't mentally ready to put yourself out their again, so what im saying is that no matter how much you wanna get out there and meet new people your mind mentally just dosent want to or maybe deep down you arent up to get your heart broken again....
i hope i helped....
love andrea 14/f
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Tonights episode about obama and mccain, did anybody see it? you know that song they played at the end, its piano, what song is that!!! i know it from a movie and its driving me nuts! (link)
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i didnt see it but i might be able to help do you remember the network it was on?
like CNN or somthing
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