My dad just recently told me he is gay. He hasnt told anyone his whole life accept for me. This is really difficult for me and I was wondering where I could find people to help support me through this hard and confusing time.
Your father has more than likely been struggling internally with this & had no idea who to tell or how to tell them. He trusts you enough to tell you something this huge & you're this self-absorbed to only think about yourself?
AdviceMistress answered Sunday April 5 2009, 2:44 am: Well I would say go talk to someone...if your in school go talk to a guidance counselor or someone you trust. Talking about it helps...heck talk to your dad let him know how you feel or maybe find a group or something in your community. good luck! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
S0Exciited answered Friday April 3 2009, 8:47 pm: I'm sure this is hard to swallow but you can do it. Obviously your father trusts you to have told you something he's never told anyone else before.
So now let's think. What's so confusing about it? If this makes your father happy you should be okay with it. But it is hard to deal with. I suggest going to the website gurl.com then to the shout out boards. There should be a board about sexuality and people who know how to deal with it. [ S0Exciited's advice column | Ask S0Exciited A Question ]
pnkkisses838 answered Friday April 3 2009, 8:10 pm: wow that is tough well you could talk to your mom or a someone close to you... or a guidance counselor.
i'm sorry that this has happend to you your father shouldn't have told you this. unless you are the last person he could go to
if you ever need someone to talk about this you could tell me if you want... this deffinatly is a hard postion.
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