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I feel like im becoming detached from everyone!!!!
17/f
So a few months ago me and my no ex had broke up. It hurt a lot and it still does but im better at dealing with it now... The weird thing is though I feel as if I have no feelings for anyone... Like friendship or anything. I sometimes find myself dreading to hang out with people... Normally Im a very affectionate person and love to get out with people. Im a very social person. All this started happening after the break up. It's weird because Im trying to get out there and im trying to like new people and stuff but it's not working I just feel like no one matters anymore. I tried detaching myself from my ex but I feel like I did with everyone around me too. It's weird....Any ideas about whats up with me?
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Your moving too fast, you just broke up and your trying to move on to keep up with your social life when you know your not ready for that yet. I can tell you this, because just today I had my heart broken, and it wasn't pretty. I will tell you though that I got over it in like 3 hours however because I sat in my room for 3 hours just thinking. Thinking until I fell asleep about how I need to get over this person and how I need to find someone more appreciative of me. And I encouraged myself that I was right. So, encourage yourself that your ready to move on, and MOVE ON... but don't move on until your ready to, I know I wasn't ready to move on and when I tried to, it bothered me so much that I cursed my friends out because I was so upset, so don't let that happen to you, make sure that you think before you go out again and straighten out your brain cells, lol... That's what I did and I'm over it. I know that I have someone to fall back on that I know I can love. So please take this advice. I hope I helped
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well maybe its because your subconsciously afraid of getting hurt again wether it be form another guy or friends.
maybe your mind and body just aren't mentally ready to put yourself out their again, so what im saying is that no matter how much you wanna get out there and meet new people your mind mentally just dosent want to or maybe deep down you arent up to get your heart broken again....
i hope i helped....
love andrea 14/f
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