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HE'S MOVING HALF WAY ACROSS THE UNIVERSE......
He's moving!
the boy i like he, he's leaving and i'll see him again in time...
but i like him so much... and he used to like me before i screwed it up i don't know if he does anymore... he used to like me but i got scared and stopped talking to him and he later on, he went for another girl with whom he is still dating... but i like him so much, i might even... i might even love him... but he's moving from Virginia to California... what should i do? should i tell him how i feel? What can i do to make him want to stay? he has a choice here or California.. and he's choosing Cali ... what can i say to make him want to stay? please help me... please i'm so confused... i don't know what to do... just help, please. =[
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Neither you nor anyone can make him stay. That's a decision only he can make. You can perhaps influence it but that's it. Is he going for university or some other purpose?
If so, congratulate him and tell him you wish he would stay but know you'll cross paths again. Be honest and frank as you were here letting him know what he meant to you and how fear and other things stood in the way.
Wish him well and see what happens as plans can change. Maybe when he comes back he'll remember you and perhaps it could be right or not then. One thing is for sure he'll certainly remember you and how gutsy and hard this was. Don't sit on it let it out. You'll feel better even if he can't physically stay.
If he stays he must decide on his own. It wouldn't be right to think he would drop everything though. Don't think that you can as getting that dose of reality hurts but do tell him your feelings. It's healthy and needed and he'll respect you for it.
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well, deffinitely tell him how you feel. let him know that your ok with it if he doesnt like you back. but just let him know how you feel and tell him that you just dont want him to leave
-melly.
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