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get back together?
Almost a week ago my girlfriend and I broke up my reasoning because we never see each other and I didn't think she really cared but I am still madly in love with her. However a couple days ago I found out she had cheated on me and she also convinced me that she did care and that's why we started talking about braking up before but I didn't know why. I think she was just too scared of the consequences that's why she broke up with me. I'm willing to forgive her and try to get back with her, but I'm not sure how to do it or if shell agree. Can you please tell me how I can handle this
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honestly i dont think you both should be together right now. it doesnt seem like its the best time, wait a while and if you both still obviously have feelings for eachother then try working things out again. but for now, concentrate on other things, remember regardless of how you feel, she did cheat on you. time apart will help you realize whats important in your life, no need to rush into the same relationship, you have plenty of time!
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i think if you want a real relationship you have to at least see her a couple of days a week, not once in a while thats not a real relationship and another thing she cheated on you maybe because she barely saw you and you guys dont really have lots of communication and time together to share...i would just try and move on and find someone that i would see more often..glad i could try and help..
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Well if she doesn't want to get back to togeather it isn't a big loss. You can't be with someone you can't trust. Everytime you call her or something (assuming you get back togeather) and she doesn't answer your always going to think that shes cheating. It's not your fault it's human nature to be paranoid after being cheated on. But since you want to get back with her you need too call her or something and just tell her that your willing to forgive her and take her back if she will have you as a boyfriend. But if she says no you have to understand she prolly re thinking somethings as well. So just ask her thats all you can do.
Good Luck!
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