Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: April 19, 2009
Answers: 30
Last Update: April 22, 2009
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ok so like i have this boyfriend i've been with for awhile now. i've noticed whenever we're making out he'll lead my hands down the like his junk, and like i can feel that its really hard against my hips but i always rush my hands back up to his shoulders. i dont really know what i should do, i'm more or less clueless. like i dont wanna go in his pants but i wanna like do something that'll feel good for him. i'm afraid i might like hurt him and that would be so embarrasing or i'll do something and he wont feel anything at all...i could use some pretty detailed advice here (link)
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wow! umm well the best thing to tell you is not to do anything with "that" for a while. tell him your not comfortable yet and your not ready to do that. hickies or something with kissing could be the farthest or touch his body but try not to resort to that yet.
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this guy and i have been texting for the past few days but we always say whats up and we say what we're doing and there's nothing to talk about...
how do i get an actual conversation going??
i'm trying to get this guy to like me by the way so what should i say and talk about?? (link)
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bring up funny jokes. ask about his family or bring up something about school, some tiny drama, stories in your life, yourself! lol and him as well. give him little hints as well
hopefully it all works out!
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ok so my school prom is coming up next week. i'm wearing a knee length dress that is black with an electric blue vertical stripe down the center. it has thick satin straps and makes an 'x' in the back. my heels are silver. my hair is up in a curly bun. i'm trying to figure out what accessories would go with this. i'm not a very girly girl, but i want to look really pretty. what kind of necklace, earrings, and/or bracelets should i wear? and what color should i paint my nails? (fingernails and toenails) i keep my nails really short, but i'm not sure if i'm supposed to paint them or what. and also what color corsage would look good with this outfit? my favorite flowers are red roses, but i didn't know if that would go with the dress or not. any help will be awesome; i'm totally clueless! thanks so much! =) (link)
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ok listen very carefully! no bracelets or necklace!!!! it will be too much on the dress, i promise. for earing go for black short or right on the ear for length. get a manicure and pedicure and do a little design on your thumb like black and satin swirls with diamonds. very simple and elegant and not flashy. you want to be stylish and classy! as for the corsage have a satin or navy blue. think solid colors but not black!
im very stylish and a fashion wiz
hope it all works out
have fun at your prom!!!!
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Besides getting lip injections (too expensive, and too painful) is there any thing else i could use to plump my lips (more fuller and not so skinny)
I don't care if its just a temp. plumping where it only works for a few hours and you have to reapply or if it takes a couples days application to show up I just want something good, good results, and worth the money
(must have some type of experience with it please)
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i do have this one thing and it makes your lips look bigger and in a really natural way. i always use it
its called VASELINE! lol trust me, it works.. put some on your lips and they will feel and look bigger and fuller
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i just got my haircut and i hate it. the bangs are too short and the length is shorter than i wanted it. how long will it take the bangs to grow out and how long will it take the length to grow out can you estimate?!! is there anything i can do to make it grow faster. im wearing my hair up until it grows out!!!!!! (link)
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in order for your hair to stay healthy, let it grow out naturally. but embrace it! you've just created a new hairstyle to try, look in a magazine or try something different, you never know you might like it, and if not, its gonna grow back anyway! lol
best of luck
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Hey there:
Sometimes there are girls that I want to date no matter of what religion they are in and there are other times that I only want to date someone who is catholic which is what I am. In this question, I'm kinda asking for advice on this matter and would like your personal opinions as well. What do you think of the idea of dating someone who isn't the same religion as you? What are the advantages and disadvantages of it? (link)
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personally, i think that a good, honest, and serious relationship should be with one of your same beliefs. you'll always have the same views on that, most of the time, and it will give you a stronger faith in your relationship. however, if there not and it doesnt matter, it shouldnt. take a chance but don't change anything in your religion to make the other feel better
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16/F
So a lot of things have gone wrong in my life since about October and they just keep happening. I've always been a really happy person, always even if something was wrong i would only let my bf know and no one else would be able to tell. Well this past weekend it got worse than it ever has and ive just been in the most depressed mood, ive gone shopping (something i love) ive done pretty much everything and im just in this downer mood that i cant get out of and its really bothering me becase im never like this. im just always sad now and i cant cheer up no matter what i do.
And no im not thinking of hurting myself, i just want to be happy again. Does anyone know what i could do to stay happy??? anything is appreciated thanks! =] (link)
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hang out with friends!!!, make jokes and bring up the good old days. listen to inspirational music, go for a nice walk and remember all the GOOD AND FUNNY times in your life. i feel that way sometimes as well, everyone does trust me! think about what you have to live for, chill with your bf, sometimes the smallest thing can cheer up your entire mood.
hope you get your happiness groove thang back (lol corny i know)
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Hey all, Im 15/f. And my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year. He messaged me on myspace and said i am to obessive. even though he and never talk. Im very sonfused, he didnt break up with me, but i felt horrible after and now i am trying to back off, amd not talk as much. He called me later that night and said he was sorry that we got in a fight.. but now he is hardly talking to me.. Iddk what to do. Any advice?
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there are plenty of guys in the world for. your 15, you have soo much time to worry and deal with relationships. he's probably not used to someone caring so much and he doesn't know how to react or he just needs his space, thats how a lot of guys are, trust me. talk with him about it, if nothing changes...see other people, just ask yourself if he's worth all that your doing.
hope everything works out.
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hey everyone, i am 14/f and i have had a bad reputation because i was emo/scene. I am now preppy, but i stil hold that bad rep, any advice on how i could get rid off that and become someone people like?
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honestly, you shouldn't really care what people think of you. but it will take time, if people ask about your past say that it is the past and i'm a different person now. just keep your head up, and never get offended if people talk about you, they want you to get upset, in order for people to like you must do the same and not take criticism.
hopefully the rep will go away soon, stay strong!
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[16/f] Okay, so I got my period about two weeks late this month, which is weird because I've pretty much been regular for a good two years now. Anyways, I just got it this morning, and tomorrow I am leaving for vacation on a 6 hour plane flight. Will the higher altitude and/or turbulence affect my period in anyway? Thanks in advance! (link)
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lol nice question i used to wonder if that would happen as well. no, that won't have any affect on you at all. just try changing your pad/tampon frequently since your going to be sitting down for a while.
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I would like to ask a question because this nurse came to our school today and talked about stds and it scared me cause me and my BF have unprotectedsex and hes only been with me i was his first but im scared that i might get one even though hes only been with me and i wanted to get tested but im only 17 and i dont know where to get tested at without my parents knowing so what do i do about that? i just want to be safe and careful because i have a baby and i seen some of the disease that you get and theyre contagiouse and i dont want to end up kissing my son on the lips and give him a disease so if anyone has any ideas on where i could get this done at i would really like to know and thanks for reading this.
♥brown3y3z (link)
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go to your original doctor and get tested. but if that doesn't work, which it should, visit any free clinic around you.
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im in love with this guy we use to go to high school together then he gradute. that how we meet and we start messing around for almost a year now, i do everything he want me to do but i love him he doesnt want a girl friend i dont know hat to do cause i dont want to let him go.we had a lot up and down he like my boyfriend but he"s not he mean the world to me (link)
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i think the best thing to do right now is talk with him about how you feel. if you to are comfortable enough it shouldnt be a problem. you have nothing to lose, you'll still be friends. but if you keep things bottled up he will never know how you feel. take a chance and tell him that your not looking for a boyfriend either, but you want to take your "relationship" to the next level. you never know!
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im in love with this guy but he's only my friend with benefit i love him to death the problem is he act different now sometimes he act like he doesnt want me or need me any more how to get him to love me the way he use to?because i dont want to lose him ever (link)
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the next time you speak to him, conversate with him in a way you havent before. ask him how he's doing, make jokes, and give him little hints. try not to be so clingy to him, know your limits because then he'll want you more. but try talking to him about it, you never know what may surprise you.
hope it all works out!
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14/F
My boyfriend is 5 years older than me hes 19. Me and him have been dating for 8 months done things before that but officially been dating for 8 months. My family want me to have nothing too do with him because of his age and he doesnt have the best reputation. I live in a small town everyone knows everybody and everything. My boyfriend is one of the more well known people in this town. People were shocked when I first started dating him. Im a freshman in my HS and he dropped out 3 months before his graduation this year. He says hes going to the college to get his GED but hey he doesnt seem to be awake in time to go he maybe goes 2 times max a week and not to mention hes a pot head. He smokes all the time and jokingly I said you love your pot more than me and ofcourse he just laughed and said yeah but I love you too. I gave him an option about 2 months ago between me or the pot - he picked the pot we broke up maybe for 3 days and started dating again even though he cut down on it a little bit but of course continued on his normal schedule. If anyone has delt with loving a pot head you know that it is a very complicated thing too do(or maybe its just me). I mean I want to have a future with him but I cant if this is what kind of things I have to look forward too(watching him get high and sell drugggs) I love him to death and I KNOW he loves me too. Every couple cant agree on everything. But I mean I think it would make him appreciate me more if I told him I just need a break to think things out. Hes not a very understanding person I bring up that he needs to go to college and get his life on track he says whatever and hangs up the phone. But it would be practically impossible for me to tell him I want to take a break when Im with him I would think I was CRAZY for thinking about taking a break away from him. Also, people claim he cheated on me I mean my head is telling me he didnt [I (Cant) believe it] but my heart is telling me ; He did maybe not with this girl but I think he did. [that sounded cheesyy, but thats how i feel:)] When I say dont cheat on me he FREAKS out I mean yeelling saying you think I cheat on you I love you more than anything baby I would never do that. Things like that. The thing is I became VERY clingy towards him ; it might be because I lost my virginity to him in January. I dont know why this is the first person ever but I mean I think its obbsession or something. I get so mad when he doesnt call me and he says he will. I think this is because, about two weeks ago I cheated on him and had sex with my old good friend. We were drunk and just got caught up in the momment. I stopped as soon as it went in and said OMG I cant believe this ; and called my boyfriend right away just to tell him "I love you" and to hear his voice. I havent told my boyfriend about this and I really dont want to tell him I swore to him I would never cheat on him and I know it would KILL him if I told him. I do love him but I really feel like I need too take a break away from this relationship because I dont want to wait and things to turn out worst. I think Im just having mixed feelings, my parents hate him so when I need him with me most He cant be here . I have to keep our relationship a secret but all my friends know Im head over heels in love! (:
I dont know what the question is to this whole story, but just writing down what Im going thru made me feel 100 Times better(:
Thank you if you read this and im sorry it is so longg and their really is no point to this ; but if you guys have any advice on anything or if anyone is going thru or went thru a situation I wouldnt mind hearing some stories or advice(:
Thank-you ! (link)
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i'm sorry to say, but your boyfriend doesn't seem like he's going places. do you really want to spend your life with someone who chose weed (a drug) over you? and the age difference does make a huge problem, if your parents dont approve it is for YOUR best interest. in my opinion, you dont really need to think about it. he dropped out of high school as well? you deserve better, there me attraction but my advice would be to leave him and start fresh since you've just began your high school career. there will be plenty of guys and they will have more to offer you.
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First and foremost, I would sincerely appreciate all advice offered here..I just don't know what else to do right now. I recently traveled to Mexico on a vacation with my family. We stayed for two weeks in an amazing resort, but I never expected to meet someone I wanted to be with so badly. I met Ryan on my first day at the hotel, he works there on the Entertainment staff. He's absolutely gorgeous :) and we hit it off right away. I'm nineteen, soon to be twenty, and he just turned twenty three, so there is a bit of an age gap which neither of us consider to be an issue. We spent every second together during my vacation, and he took many days off work to chill with me downtown. He left work early everyday to go have lunch with me. We established that we liked each other, and it feels right to both of us but I don't see how a relationship could work. I've been home for about a week and a day hasn't gone by without us talking until today, because his grandmother passed away this morning. I completely understand him needing to be with his family and everything, this is not an issue..I just don't know if I'm cut out for the whole long distance thing. I live in Michigan, so it's really far obviously..I'm going back in August for three weeks but after that who knows how long it will be before we see each other. I don't know if I should hold on to this or let go because there could be something easier for both of us, even if it isn't better at least it wouldn't be such a strain. But I care about him immensely and even after three weeks I feel very close to him, vice versa. I speak fluent spanish so language is not an issue at all. Sorry for the length of this question, I just need to know if I should let go or keep holding on..and if I do hold on, does it get easier? (link)
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i don't know if its too early to tell, but do you think you could fall in love with him?
talk with him about it, never make your own judgements about a relationship. your almost in your 20's and if you to want to be together, try and work it out. you never know he may love you to and want to spend his life with you. talk it out and try to work out an agreement, there's always video chat and the phone! keep holding on, you never know what might surprise you in life!
best of luck
hope you both last forever
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so i heard that i doctor can tell whether a girl is a virgin or not.
what is it that they look at that indicates whether or not they have had sex? (link)
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its really simple by giving you a simple physical (inside and out) they can recognize the tear in the hymen and thats how they know if your a virgin or not.
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ive been dating some boy for lik 1month and a half. all thee sudden hes acting really wierd hess ignoring me not writing back to me but hes writing back to my bestfriend. what should i do? should i ask him whats going on or just let it go?:/ im a girl btw
help please (link)
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i think the answer is pretty much in your question. if he's not responding to you but he's answering to your best friend, i think you should leave him. unless its something with you, he's not worth your time right now. move on but talk with your best friend first and see whats up.
best of luck!
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i thinkin about tellin my bestfriend that i was datting her boyfriend wen she was datting him becuz she got me real mad so i asked him &he sed yes but then they broke up but we did to wat should i do??? (link)
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wow! you have a problem i see. first thing you need to do is tell your friend! you have to, have her forgive you for what you did, then try to work things out. apologize if you must and accept your wrongs, but its your right as a best friend to tell her. then forgive yourself and try not to do it again (i know it sounds dorky but its true)-lol
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i lied to my boyfriend '
about getting him a dog'
im post to have one buy tommrow'
what do i do' (link)
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if you can't think of a good excuse (too much money, i didnt fill out the paper work on time, no pet store would give me one right away)
tell him the truth!! but make a joke out of it, its nothing serious and he won't go crazy if you made a small fib. apologize and then get him a stuffed puppy
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so ive binged.. and "purged" three times before. the third time tonight. i ate a lot of bad food and ive been workig out so much i felt like i have failed myself i dont want to get fat so i after i ate i panicked and threw it up. the first two times i did it i said id neverrrr again do that to myself. but i did, again tonight. im saying again to myself i wont do that again! i know its horrible. but now that ive done it a third time could this be a serious problem? what can happen if i keep this up? is doing it 3 times harmful or only if i continue? how do i stop? (link)
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yes! you shuld never harm your body like that, you were given the body you have for a reason. i urge you to stop, but it will be a serious problem if it continues, it sounds dorky but love your body!! embrace everything in it!! look in the mirror and play some alanis morissette (i'm a bitch)-sry for the language, its the name
if that doesnt work then go to a group session and talk to some1 about it, if not your parents.
i hope everything works out, REMEMBER love your body...its yours-don't mess it up
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