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touching it
ok so like i have this boyfriend i've been with for awhile now. i've noticed whenever we're making out he'll lead my hands down the like his junk, and like i can feel that its really hard against my hips but i always rush my hands back up to his shoulders. i dont really know what i should do, i'm more or less clueless. like i dont wanna go in his pants but i wanna like do something that'll feel good for him. i'm afraid i might like hurt him and that would be so embarrasing or i'll do something and he wont feel anything at all...i could use some pretty detailed advice here
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It's okay; we all worry about hurting him in a particular place lol. If he leads your hands down to his "JUNK" then he obviously wants you to do something. You can tease him at first; but feeling him up from the outside of his trousers/boxers. If he wants you to do something; he'll more or less make it 100% obviouse. And you will tell if he likes it or not; cause he well become more "hands on" and "turned on" and if your sure about it enough; it will come naturally; and you'll have no problems. just do squeeze too hard or pull to hard lol. Believe me; he'll return the favour. They dont call me Miss experianced for nothing xD
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wow! umm well the best thing to tell you is not to do anything with "that" for a while. tell him your not comfortable yet and your not ready to do that. hickies or something with kissing could be the farthest or touch his body but try not to resort to that yet.
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Well if your ready you said you have beeen with him for a while now im sure you guys are comfortable with eachother then this is what I do with my boyfriend ; I move my lips from his mouth to his neck I just slowly kiss and suck on his neck while at the same time im undoing his zipper and button. Im not saying you have too do this but I mean he obviously wants you too do something with his dick not just rush your hands back up to his shoulder if hes moving your hands down to his junk. you know? And then you should just be tell him you dont want to hurt him because its your first time doing this so he should take it out and then just give him a handjob while you are kissing either his neck or his mouth! (:
Just have funn! Laugh as you go along so
it doesnt seem akward(:
I went into detail so you kind of know
exactly what too do!
The guys really enjoy itt too(:
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Another thing my ex liked was when I put my hands inside his jeans. Like on the hips, with four of my fingers resting against his body and thumbs hooked on the outside of the jeans. I hope you understand what I mean.
Basically the same as putting your hands in your pockets with the thumbs hanging out, but just at his waistband. Haha :)
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Im guessing your standing up when he's doing this? You're obviosuly not ready to go so much further with him. Be honest, to his face is hard, so try through a text.
Standing up doing this is new to me, i think all you can do is gently squeeze. While sitting, yo can give him a hand job when you want to go in his pants.
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