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what is fingering? (link)
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Where you stick your fingers/finger inside of yourself/someone else. This usually occurs in the vagina.
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I havent had a girlfriend in like 4 years, and other than just a few kisses with some other random girls i cant seem to find somethig stable, at first this didn't worried me, but now I'm starting to feel anxious. The main problem is that I'm a bit shy and I don't really have lots of girls in my social circle so there is no way for me to meet new girls. plase advise! (link)
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Well, why do you want to have a girl in your life? Do you absolutely need one?
Talk to some friends and see if they know any single girls you would like, double date, and see what happens.
If you're unhappy change something. Best advise I've ever recieved.
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Are you considered "sexually active" if you've had oral sex but not vaginal sex? (link)
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Depends on who needs to know, really. If it's fordoctor, no, unless you have herpes of the mouth or something.
Other people, no, not unless you want to say, "just oral."
It really only counts for actual intercourse
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I have a heavy white discharge, i also have my period once a month but almost all other times i have a really heavy white discharge, heavy to the point where i have to wear a pantie liner is this normal? i'm only 13 (link)
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Perfectly normal :)
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i'm talking to this guy on the internet, and he's pretty cool, but i don't know what to do next? (link)
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umm....email, number...? haha
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cos i know its impossible to not want anything, e.g one of the things she wants is to be on the internet, and another is to have a conversation (link)
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right so, your point? maybe to continue conversation?
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cos i'm a polite person, and i'm waiting to see what she wants! (link)
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what if she doesnt want anything?
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well i don't know, she's talking to me! i'm not entirely sure what she wants, what do you think? (link)
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why are you tlaking to her! You don't have to talk back.
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hey, there is this random weirdo talking to me on the internet.
she keeps lying about bands being from places outside america
what should i do? what should i say to her? (link)
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Tell her that America is not a real place, and that she should stop lying.
WHy are you talking to strange people on the internet young man?
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My mom refuses to go grocery shopping. Its been this way since i was in like...fifth grade. I am now 19. I remember as a child going to school, and not having lunch, or any lunch money, and just sitting there starving while all of my friends ate there lunches.
Were pretty well off, we have a large house and plenty of money, so I dont understand what her problem is. Just know i asked her if we were going to go grocery shopping anytime soon, and she told me to go buy food. Its getting pretty rediculous. My little brother is still in school, and he has to buy his food himself. I just dont think this is normal. We all have jobs, and normally I go buy my own food, but she never has dinner on, and if she does its the smallest portions ever.
What should I do? My car broke down so I dont have a way to go buy food, and I havnt eaten in 2 days.
This really sucks. (link)
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This isnt normal. Your Mother needs professional help, seriously. Look into some consueling for her. The food thing, maybe you can ask some neighbors if they can spare you something.
She really does need help. Please message me with updates if you can. =/
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My boyfriend is 19 years old. He's very innocent, well... Not exactly. I just call him innocent because he's the type of guy who is disgusted by porn. He does not know what exactly turns him on. He said only when he makes out, some what touch me in some places, and sticks his tongue in my mouth. That's basically it. He says that only turns him on halfway or somewhat. What is something that I can do to fully turn him on? (link)
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Hold his face and play with his ears a little bit while making out. Kiss his neck, suck on it, and kiss right behind his ear. Also try running your hands up and down his chest.
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Well lately Ive have had green poop. And I dont know if thats bad or not. is it just something Ive eaten or am I sick? (link)
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You're perfectly fine. You don't need to get it checked out. It really does depend on what you eat.
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we just got our yearbooks and i dont know how to ask the guy i like to sign mine...i REALLY want himtosign it..but im a little nervous and scared...and he sits right next tome in science (link)
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be like hey, im trying to get all the signatures in the 7th? grade or whatever. Will you sign?
easy peasy
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whats the best/easiest brand of tampons to use?
i have a hard time using them lol
thanks!
xo (link)
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try Kotex plastic in mince to start out. It'll help you :)
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I'm on my first week of birth control pills.
It says to take it at the same time every day; I took it an hour late. Does that make me any less protected or is an hour still an okay range? (link)
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It's an okay range, you should still be protected. No big deal :)
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All my friends got there period and talk about how it hurts and they hate it is it really that bad.....and when I get it I'll be emberssed to tell my mom how is a easy way to tell my mom that I got my period. Also there's white stuff in
underwear am I going threw it soon (link)
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YOu'll get your period when the time is right. Ask your Mother if she's prone to getting cramps, if so, yes, it really is that bad. It's not something to look forward to.
When you get your period..tell your mom. You don't need to put it in an easy way because every girl is going to get it at some point. She will most likely help you.
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Okay so I find girls attractive and thy make me really hard, but boys me go crazy and get all erotic when I think about it. Here's the thing though....I love to dress like a girl, wear makeup, use nail polish, and also use the tape and tuck to conceal "down below" when I'm in my girly clothes. I find boys to be cute and girls hot. I do lots of kinky things when I masturbate also. I'm very confused about my sexuality, but I feel like a should have a vagina and breasts. My penis and masulinity is cool and all but I wish instead of my penis a shaved beautiful vagina was there. Not to mention the fact tht I want breasts and o have boys inside of me and to kiss me and do things to me. I want to sleep with girls also. What am I? I want a mans hard penis in my asshole, and to stroke his meat but I also want it in my vagina - which I don't have. However, I also desire to kiss and be onside woman and kiss their tender body. What is going on with me?........ (link)
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Sounds like you're bi-sexual. You like both girls and guys.
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I'm turning 17 this summer. Right after I turned 16 I got really, really emotional. I used to rarely cry; when I was younger, I considered it a sign of emotional weakness and willed myself not to cry even when I wanted to. I probably cried once or twice a year.
It has nothing to do with being sadder, but I seriously just cry so much more often and easily now. Like, my boyfriend (older) brought me to one of his friend's parties last week, and I didn't know anyone. His friend was chasing him and he ran away into the woods to hide with another friend. After about five minutes I took my stuff from the main party area and stood by his car and just cried. I guess because I knew nobody there? I know I had no need to, but I just cried, hard.
A few weeks ago I went through something really emotional at home, something I had a right to be upset about. In school the next day, one of my teachers harshly took my phone (while I was texting) right out my hands without a warning, which isn't extremely common at my school. That little trigger made me cry so hard and for so long that I had to go home from school.
Is this a hormonal imbalance? If I bring it up with my doctor at my next physical I'm afraid she'll think I'm like depressed or make me see a psychologist or something. Its not puberty, I've had my period since I was 11. Ideas? Any help? Thanks so much. (link)
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Could be hormonal imbalance, could be crap..what's the term...brain chemical imbalance. Something along those lines.
You sound like you have some anxiety. It could be depression, or something smaller then that, such as Dysthyia. Having depression isnt a big deal, really.
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i dated a guy for 15 months and i got way too close to him and so when we broke up i was really hurt. about 4 months after we broke up i met this really nice guy and i gave it a shot with him. i ended it after 2 months because i was afraid of getting too close. i'm afraid of opening up and i'm afraid of getting to close. is there anything i can do about this? i really want a healthy relationship but i can't when i'm always backing down.. :/ (link)
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You're not emotionally ready yet. You need to take some time to get over your past relationship and learn how to trust again.
Honestly, the bets thing is to take a break from the dating scene and make a lot of friends and stay busy. You don't want to get hurt again, so take it slow. :)
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first of all i am 15f and this may be long but it would be GREATLY appreciated if you would listen and respond! i neeed all the advice i can get :)
~so i have been best friends with this guy for a year. we talk EVERY DAY online and have been doing so for 6 months EVERY DAY. and he has asked me out 2 times and i have turned him down because i said i wanted our friendship to last and it was to valuable. well.... he has just recently said he has loved me, and would do anything, and always says i am beautiful, and cheers me up when i am down and he even brought me back a present from his trip to europe. well i reallllllllllly like him back but the problem is that i dont wanna tell him cause i have turned him down like 4 times and broken his heart he said but yet he still says all this stuff to me because he says i am to important. But the thing is this is online. in person we hang out and talk but not like we do online. and in person it is harder to basically do anything. he gets shy around me and barely talks in person now but online he is the SWEETEST guy their is! i have never met a nicer guy in my life! i want things to work out sooooo badly but in reality i dont think it will ever happen :( but we both want it to ..... so 1) how do i tell him i feel this way ..... 2) how can we make it work if he does wanna try? I AM LOSING MY HEAD OVER THIS PLEASE RESPOND AND GIVE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THE RELATIONSHIP .... cause right now we are like beyond best friends but not at the boyfriend and girlfriend stage.
thank you !!! :) (link)
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You're smart for saying no. First off I would bring up the issue of how things are different offline and online. That seems like it's the biggest issue. What I would say is, "I like you, but you're totally different in person, and I dont know if it's going to work out because of it. I dont want to ruin what we have by dating."
Honesty is key to any relationship; Let that be the rule you go by with this guy.
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