Member Since: April 18, 2009
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ok so blah im 16..
yesterday i went out with chris and we went to a 21 and over club and i got in.. so we were dancing then we left cause we were going to meet up his friends.. so it was just me and him in his car... we had sex in the back seat... i was a virgin... or am i dont know it was like 3 min long because his friend came to get us so he pulled it out quick... we didnt use a condom.. and he wanted to cum in me but obviously he didnt wanna get me pregnant.. so yeah, like what do i do? i really like him. and next week hes going up north California cause since he's in the marines he has to go train and he MIGHT go to iraq.. i dont know what to do.. i dont know if hes going to take me seriously..
i sent him a txt this morning saying
"was that a 1 time thing or what? this is the first and last time im going to ask you this so be straight up" and he hasent replied yet (link)
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well just seeing as how he was going away i dont really think you should involve yourself in any sort of "relationship" with this guy...you dont really know when you're going to see this guy again...as far as the txt, i think you came on a bit too aggressive, you should have tried to ease it in there...like for example "hey, about last night...im not saying i regret it, but was that something you wanted to do or was it just in the moment? should i expect it to happen again or was it just a one time thing?" try not to sound too aggressive...but its like i said, you shouldn't really involve yourself with this guy, he will be going away soon, and just doing anything with him will keep you wanting more and he wont be able to give it. Save yourself the pain and heart aches!
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Hey im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m. I've had sex with 2 guys in my life. Ive had sex enough times to know when it feels good so this isnt a does sex hurt question. Im concerned because my current boyfriend when we have sex it really hurts when it goes about halfway inside it like burns. (I dont have an STD either btw) When i first started having sex with him a couple months ago it always felt really good. But now it hurts really bad. Sometimes the left side of my vagina gets irritated and im not sure whats going on. Its like a burning. I know i get "wet" enough so thats not the problem. Is this normal?? (link)
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well there are going to be times when it feels good and other times when it begins to hurt. If it didn't hurt the around the first couple of times that you began to become intimate with your boyfriend, then im sure there is nothing wrong. He probably just ripped something, or gave you a cut or inside from all the friction, its nothing to really worry about, just try to not have sex for a while, give it like a week and a half or two.
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