Hey im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m. I've had sex with 2 guys in my life. Ive had sex enough times to know when it feels good so this isnt a does sex hurt question. Im concerned because my current boyfriend when we have sex it really hurts when it goes about halfway inside it like burns. (I dont have an STD either btw) When i first started having sex with him a couple months ago it always felt really good. But now it hurts really bad. Sometimes the left side of my vagina gets irritated and im not sure whats going on. Its like a burning. I know i get "wet" enough so thats not the problem. Is this normal??
RiiRiiBoo answered Sunday April 19 2009, 5:01 pm: If your boyfriend's pretty has a big penis , then that could be a good reason why, and also if you guys have rough sex , that could be anther factor, but if it burns i would go see a doctor to check down there and get a test .
NoCandy answered Sunday April 19 2009, 5:17 am: See a gynecologist or your regular doctor to have a pelvic exam, because you might have some kind of infection. A vaginal infection can cause painful intercourse, but has nothing to do with an STD. [ NoCandy's advice column | Ask NoCandy A Question ]
WittyUsernameHere answered Sunday April 19 2009, 3:01 am: Sounds like hard sex made bruised vagina, personally.
Ease up, use a few fingers or a toy to feel yourself out and see if smaller objects have the same effect on you.
If its specifically on a side of your vag, and you can like feel and identify that, its more than likely some form of contact damage. Do you use any positions regularly that have him rubbing there, or is he bent in that direction?
My girl can get rubbed a little raw if we go a long time. Its pretty normal.
A note, this is much more likely to be a problem with guys who have larger than average penises. Women have an average range of vag size the same way guys have an average range of penis sizes, and a guy who is thicker than normal is going to cause more wear and tear. Thats where I say this is normal, past a certain thickness you're going to be slightly bigger than most women you come across, and its a fairly commonly encountered problem. Its just something you have to talk about as a couple and deal with. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
henry2094 answered Saturday April 18 2009, 7:08 pm: well there are going to be times when it feels good and other times when it begins to hurt. If it didn't hurt the around the first couple of times that you began to become intimate with your boyfriend, then im sure there is nothing wrong. He probably just ripped something, or gave you a cut or inside from all the friction, its nothing to really worry about, just try to not have sex for a while, give it like a week and a half or two. [ henry2094's advice column | Ask henry2094 A Question ]
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