Member Since: April 19, 2009 Answers: 5 Last Update: April 19, 2009 Visitors: 917
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So i know the only safe sex is no sex. but me and my boyfriend have been dating and it's pretty serious. we both really want to do it, but i'm so paranoid about getting pregnant! even with a condom! any advice? I'm 15, i'm not ready to be a mom haha. (link)
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So don't have sex untill you are sure!
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ok i need some big help...its long...sorry...it all stated tue, when my boyfriend asked me to ask my mom if i can go with him to orlando for the week end...(now i just turned 18 but sinc still in high school and live in her house her rules) my parents are really striced they berly let me come home untill 11 so i didnt ahve any hopes of a yes besides my mother always says no of everything i really have to cry and beg for a yes... so when i ased her the next morning she said that he had to talk with his sisters...so they wouldnet let us sleep together (she doent know we're alreaddy haveing sex) i told her of course they werent that they had already told me i coulnt!(i lied) so she said ok! i was like is that a yes and she said yes! she was droping me off to school and i almost had a hart attack cause she said yes!! she never says yes! BUT that i had to talk to my dad.... i still didnt have any hopes but it was so nice to hear a yes form her! i felt so trusted by her....any ways that night i asked my dad and at first he was joking and playing saying no but when i mention that she had alreaddy said yes...she went NUTS and denied ever saying yes to me!!! i knew i wasnt going to go but why did she have to deny saying yes! I was so angry with her not because i didnt getto go but because i thought she trusted me enough to say yes! but i guess she didnt the next morning i was so angry with her for denying that she had said yes that i let my sister ride shot gun. After we droped them off she asked me why i had sat in the back and i told her that it was because i didnt want to deal with her. she said that she need to talk to me and if i was gonna lissin i said do i have a choose your gonna talk regarless. THan thats when she asked me if i wasnt ashamed of my slef sleeping with a man who doesnt love me... i was like what are you talking about.... thats when she satred saying that i was haveing sex with my boyfriend... and that i was a hore because after i brake up with him i was gonna got a new boyfriend i was going to sleep with him too and taht i was going to be a dirty whore...i asked her who had told her that because me had my boyfriend for 1year and my very first boyfriend at that have just resantly stared having sex he was my first and NOBODY KNOWS just because we didnt want it to get to my mother! so i knew nobody had told her... she told me not to wory about who told her and taht she didnt care if it was true or not that she wasnt going to believe me anyway... and that she wasnt going to take me to the docter to put me on brith control cause that was emberasing for her...that i wasnt aloud to go out with him anymore that if he wanted to see me he had to come over but only out side! The thing that im most angry about is that before she always wanted to be my friend! wanting me to tell her my things that she was going to give me advice and that she WAS going to put me on bith control! IM SO Angry at her!!! she made me feel like a whore and my boyfriend is upset because he thinks my mom just wants us to brake up after all me n him been thur we were planing on moving in together next year after one year out of high school! now i want to leave as soon as schools out! what should i do! (link)
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You know what your 18 leagaly an adult so tell your mom shut up whore and deal with the fact i am moving into my boyfriends place and there is nothing you can do1
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hey my name is sally...
i need a good screen name for myspace but i cant think of one.. these are the ones iv had before>>
-itzZz[[salli]]BUTshhh
-sally spaghetti
-silly sally
-ITZjustSalli
-mehh..justSalli
-haha salli
-sallixx [this is my current one and its BORING cos i cant think of anything good]
can you plz help me find a good name?? anything random is good. but i dont want any with [*~=+$] cos that just makes it look crap i think! thanx =]
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you should be more creative insed of putting your name like lil sal or $@!! that is cool my name is katie and my myspace is kay@bay
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Hey im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m. I've had sex with 2 guys in my life. Ive had sex enough times to know when it feels good so this isnt a does sex hurt question. Im concerned because my current boyfriend when we have sex it really hurts when it goes about halfway inside it like burns. (I dont have an STD either btw) When i first started having sex with him a couple months ago it always felt really good. But now it hurts really bad. Sometimes the left side of my vagina gets irritated and im not sure whats going on. Its like a burning. I know i get "wet" enough so thats not the problem. Is this normal?? (link)
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Go to your peditricen they will help it could be hiv!
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Before I begin, I want to make it clear that I do love my boyfriend. I'm 22, and I've been with him almost a year.
We've decided that we're ready to have sex. I'm a virgin, and I've stayed one this long only because I have wanted to save myself for the right person. Someone I love, and yadda yadda. I truly believe that it is him.
Problem? I'm petrified of the aftermath. I don't know why, but I have a feeling that things will just go down hill. I can't shake it. I have no specific reasons to display. He treats me great. I've been sick for a while, he's here anytime I need him. He's supportive of my dream to become an author, and he's kind.. Point being, I'm sure I want to do this.
But then a part of me starts questioning what's going to happen after wards. Because he's become such a close, sincere friend.. and we have a wonderful connection, I feel as if sex may make it almost too sexually intimate.. and we'd lose the best part of the relationship that I've known.
So really.. does sex help bring two closer?.. or dismantle it? And what happens if I'm not good at it, ya know? He's not a virgin. Does sex change feelings for the worse, then it does the better??
Thank you, in advance.. (link)
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OK calm down take it slow. It may bring you closer but sometimes it does not work out the guy gets you pregnet and decides he does not want a kid so leaves make sure he wears a condom!!
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