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16/F
So a lot of things have gone wrong in my life since about October and they just keep happening. I've always been a really happy person, always even if something was wrong i would only let my bf know and no one else would be able to tell. Well this past weekend it got worse than it ever has and ive just been in the most depressed mood, ive gone shopping (something i love) ive done pretty much everything and im just in this downer mood that i cant get out of and its really bothering me becase im never like this. im just always sad now and i cant cheer up no matter what i do.
And no im not thinking of hurting myself, i just want to be happy again. Does anyone know what i could do to stay happy??? anything is appreciated thanks! =]
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hang out with friends!!!, make jokes and bring up the good old days. listen to inspirational music, go for a nice walk and remember all the GOOD AND FUNNY times in your life. i feel that way sometimes as well, everyone does trust me! think about what you have to live for, chill with your bf, sometimes the smallest thing can cheer up your entire mood.
hope you get your happiness groove thang back (lol corny i know)
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hurting yourself never helps it just gets addicting and leaves nast sacars...
what you need to do is spend some time alone and cry
ok it sounds realy bad but thats what i had to do...
something bad happened in december and it just seemed to get worse...
and so i talked to my boyfriend about it and it didnt help
and i talked it over with the person that it involved and it helped a little
what realy helped was sitting alone in my room crying with some music on...
so try it
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Oh yea we go through stages of depression, all the time and even when are back is already against the wall, the things that happen to us is only makeing us stronger and your maturing at 16 so its actually hittin you pretty hard, here's the solution,...look at your self in the mirrior look into your eyes focus really hard, that person you see, that's you, your soul through your eyes think of all the people who love you think about the roof over your head about the nice purses and things you have, the good friends, those things we take for granted, there's more to life,there's passion,love friendship, and most of all family, your depressed, cause you feel an emptyness inside, you feel alone, and that's natural, but jus know that person in the mirrior is the only person who can love you and take care of you, and don't think so much with your heart, cause most of the time, when were upset it affects our decision making and that makes our life a little difficult ...chk out my website www.poetrypoem.com/sadi! Good luck
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