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Boyfriend making me upset.
Hey all, Im 15/f. And my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year. He messaged me on myspace and said i am to obessive. even though he and never talk. Im very sonfused, he didnt break up with me, but i felt horrible after and now i am trying to back off, amd not talk as much. He called me later that night and said he was sorry that we got in a fight.. but now he is hardly talking to me.. Iddk what to do. Any advice?
Thanks in advance
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there are plenty of guys in the world for. your 15, you have soo much time to worry and deal with relationships. he's probably not used to someone caring so much and he doesn't know how to react or he just needs his space, thats how a lot of guys are, trust me. talk with him about it, if nothing changes...see other people, just ask yourself if he's worth all that your doing.
hope everything works out.
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If you honestly do not hardly talk to each other in the first place, how would be obsessive? To be obsessive would be to be all over someone, all the time, and constantly talking, etc.
If I were you, if you really want to try to keep the relationship, just don't try to talk to him, let him do it, then he cannot tell you that you're being obsessive. Just see what he does, then it's all on him. If you don't care about saving it, then I'd tell him it'd be better if you two were just friends.
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Trus me he will come around if he knows he wants to be wit you he will call u back.Dont worry or if you cant wait much longer call him and tell him how u feel... and hopefuly he understands and doesnt get madd.
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i agree with the first commenter =)
um i know its hard! buh yeh give him his space... and if hes right for you hell come running back!
It might be hard it might be easy.. but yeh give him his space.
Put yourself in his position... having someone "cling" onto him... and too attatched. ever had that happen to you? its not always nice.
Um if hes hardly talkin to you now i would either
-send him a text saying "are we ok? =[ " or "im sorry kinda text"..
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- siriously jus let him come and talk to me =) leave it. but just dont go and flirt with any other guys! stay loyal to your man! =D
And Hun... he called back and said sorry... hes obviously got a little bit of decency =)
good luck!
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Well I can think of two things that could be going on...
One: He might be cheating on you, but he doesn't wanna break up with you because he still likes you or he doesn't wanna be out of a relationship since he's not exactly dating "her"...it's just like a hook-up...
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Two: He's just too busy with whatever and he doesn't have enough time to talk to you...
But either way, it's not looking good...because if he is just too busy then he should find more time for you...
So my advice for you would be to just look into this some more. Like pay more attention to how he acts around you...and stuff...
Oh and the whole fight about you being too obsessive could've been his way of dropping a hint that he wants to break up with you, but maybe he just doesn't know how.
I'm really sorry about this, but I hope I helped clear things up for you..
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