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I dont know if i did the right thing with my "bestfriend"
sorry its kinda long....
Ok so in the beginning of this year i had class with some girl named chelsea. Me and her started talking. Threw out the month me and her were bestfriends. I knew i could always count on her and i would tell her something and she wouldnt saya nything. So about 2 months later i started dating this guy for 5 months. Chelsea liked my boyfriend lets call him S. so chelsea liked S alot of people did. So towards the end of the 4th month i noticed he was acting wierd. He was ignoring me not saying i love you back or anything. (not trying to be exagerated) So [S) and chelsea had dance class togehter but i didnt have that in my schedule. People kept on telling me he was flirting with her and she was flirting back they told me that he would always pick her to be his dance partner. I didnt really say anything because i didnt wanna argue with him and plus i was getting kinda tired of him.But,yet this jerk took advantage one day i didnt go to school because,i got sick and asked her out! HE EVEN KNEW SHE WAS MY BESTFRIEND. and the little bitch said yes! even thoe i was getting tired of him they both had no reason to do it behind my back he couldve told me somehting but no! so the next day i found out because she said that she was dating someone secretly and she wasnt gonna tell anyone and she always told ME so i knew right away it was shane and she confessed to me it was [S) i liked it that she confessed but.... even thoe i was getting tired of him i got really dissapointed but,i didnt really care at the same time because, i started liking his friend (J] that same day (J] asked me out at lunch time. I said yes but i still was chelseas frriend did i do the right thing?
i kinda felt like a slut saying yes the same day but i was starting to like (J] alot! and i knew (J] was going to treat me better because,he's liked me since the beginning of the year. And hes not a player like (S] everyone was so happy for us but idk if i did the right thing by still being chelsea's friend
this only happened 1 month and a halfe ago about that time. Should i still be her friend even thoe it passed?
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wow! u've been thru a lot. well the best advice i can give is to try and patch things up with her. NEVER let a guy come between to friends, honestly. i dont think you should be with the rebound guy (j) unless you really like him-remember you just got over a relationship. but talk with chelsea and clear things up, if this were a movie s would get slapped and you 2 wuld live happy ever after, i know this sounds corny but it is true. she was your friend first for a reason.
hope everything goes well!
best of luck
muslimah
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i think you did a mature thing. and i also think that people might take it weird if you just stop being friends with her now when that happened a month ago.. people with think that you live in the past and that you dont let things go... so if you dont want to be friends with her than i think you should wait until she does something else to tick you off and then just be like dont every talk to me again =]]
hope i helped =]] bye
-mickeyc
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First off, these two sound like jerks. You didn't do anything wrong by going with his friend, in my opinion, after all the things he did to you. You deserve a lot better than both of them. If it was me, I wouldn't be friends with her, but that decision is completely up to you.
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