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I'm your average teenage girl, 17 years old and in my senior year in highschool. Next year I'm going to enter college at Victoria University at Wellington in New Zealand, plan of majoring in Marine Bio. I'm a writer of fantasy, and one day hope to be published but that is every writers dream lol. =]
Gender: Female
Location: United States
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: xodoniox
Member Since: April 17, 2009
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i thinkin about tellin my bestfriend that i was datting her boyfriend wen she was datting him becuz she got me real mad so i asked him &he sed yes but then they broke up but we did to wat should i do??? (link)
I think that the best thing to do is not lie. Enough of that was done when both of you were dating the same guy and not saying anything. If she is truly a special and close friend to you, you should tell her and hopefully you guys will work it out. A friend isnt worth losing over a guy especially one who didnt care enough to not go out with his girls best friend.

Good luck!
Donikins


13/female
Ok look yea I masterbate and stuff but is it safe/ok to do it before you get your first period? And also would it be ok if I had sex before I get my first period???!!???
Thanx!!
XOXO (link)
17/f

i would have to agree with the person who gave advice before me.. masturbate all you want

but i wouldnt advice having sex at such a young age. you might not think so but when you have sex your body chnages slightly, not so much as when you get your period and go through puberty but there are slight chnages in hips and such... I dont think its good to have sex before your body has started to mature, round out.

Donikins


umm this been going on about 1 week and half ago?? (link)
random question to make this easier... do you have msn or an email?
Just wondering because have you ever thought that maybe theyre planning somethin together for you? has any special date passed or anything?


ok so my hair goes down to my waist, sometimes a little longer but i cut it 1 inch about every 5 weeks. my skin is really white and my hair is darkbrown/maroon ish but some say it's black too. (it's not haha) like most people say it suites me and most guys and my friends seem to like it , other girls always try to get me to cut it but probably cause theyre jealous. it's naturally straight but i like curling it to give it more volume. so my question is, do guys like long hair like that?
(i know that i'm the one who should be happy with it and i'm NOT gonna cut it just because some guy doesnt like it, it's just a question :] (link)
honey do not cut your hair... really guys love to comb their fingers through their girls hair.. and if you have hair that pretty then take advantage of it, with your hair you can do any hairstyle and look good with your complexion. Any guy who likes you wont make you cut your hair and if you're comfortable with it then theres no problem. And yes, they are jealous =]

Hope it helped
Donikins


nope!! do u think i shuld? (link)
I really do think you should, being your best friend and a girl she should know or atleast guess how much this is bothering you. How long has this been going on?


umm my bestfriend is a girl.:/ (link)
i don't mean to be a messanger of doom but have you talked to her about it? have you asked her directly?


So I have a date tomorrow with a guy I really like. We have only met 3 times and its been with a bunch of people but we have been texting basically everyday and he finally asked me to go out to dinner with him and the movies. Im 14/f btw.. Im really nervous. like i have been out with a bunch of guys on dates but they have all been guys that I'm used to and known forever so it wasnt awkward. but what do i do tomorrow if things are awkward and we dont have anything to talk about!? any tips? conversation starters?
thanks! (link)
Im 17, and a girl, so i know where you're soming from.. i didnt actaully go on a real date until i was 16 so lets see if i can help you out... Just try not to be nervous, try not to think about it the whole time as the first date and that what if you being too eager or something... just kinda go with the flow. Don't be quiet and not involved, but you dont want to be a chatter box either, give the guy something to talk about. If you know some of his friends ask how they met, or what they do on guy time. Just remember to be natural and yourself... you dont want him thinking your someone that youre not.


ive been dating some boy for lik 1month and a half. all thee sudden hes acting really wierd hess ignoring me not writing back to me but hes writing back to my bestfriend. what should i do? should i ask him whats going on or just let it go?:/ im a girl btw
help please (link)
I definately think that you should ask him what's wrong, or if your not comfortable ask you best friend.. btw is your best friend a guy or girl?... you never know what's going on in his house or at school that maybe he doesn't feel like he can talk to you about. Maybe he's stressed out about some stuff and just needs space and time.. either way i think its good that you ask him or the friend, its not something that you should just leave hanging

Donikins




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