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i dont know who to choose
Ok i have these two girls that like me and i dont know who to choose i was hoping to get some opinions or advice
girl number one: i went out with before but it ended pretty quickly because she still loved her old boyfriend but we have remained really close friends since and there has always been something. now she said she always liked me and broke up with her bf to go out with me and i said ok but im afraid it will happen again. but we get along great, alot in common, lots of communication.but im not sure if i can readjust to becomeing more than friends again. even thought i keep thinking this is my chance to get her back,what iv wanted for so long...but im not sure if i want it.
girl 2: a girl that broke up with me a month ago. because she thought it was for the best and didnt want to hurt me, but she did alot because of the way it happened because she is really bad with communicating. I like her more that girl one but im so afraid ill get hurt again and im pretty sure i will. but she said she would really try and it feels right with her, even though i think it will just be temporarily happy because shes so complicated. she only told me all of thise when she saw me with girl one and it hurt too much and she realised etc.(we live in the same house)
but now im still going out with girl one and i have to choose but im so afraid of hurting girl one because i value her so much as a friend and in general. and im afraid im going to lose one of them so im not sure what to do
thanks
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You should go with girl one. You even admitted that you don't think things would work with girl two. She is a bad communicator, she broke up with you a month ago, and she only wanted you back when she found out that you were talking to girl one.
And, being a girl, trust me on this: When a girl breaks up with you because she's afraid she's going to hurt you, it is a BAD sign. Her breaking up with you was ten times better than what she would have done if you had stayed with her. She was either having feelings for another guy or questioning her feelings for you.
If I were you, I would go with girl one as long as you are positive that she is over her ex now.
Darby(:
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I think that you need to go over your feelings for both girls. when you do this don't worry about hurting someone, think about your future and your success and happiness. you seem like a good person for caring about hurting others but its time to think.ask yourself these questions.
1. who do i really feel happy around?
2. who do i want to spend time with?
3. who has better character?
4. who is more promising to be someone to stay with me?
5. do i love "girl one" enough to deal with the distance?
6. am i careful about what i say around "girl 2"?
7. who works best with my personality?
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well,in my opinion i thikn you should stay with girl number 1. I think you should stay with girl number 1 because,this has happened to me. He told me he loved me. and he wouldnt do it again. he dumped his girlfriend for me and so far our relashionship is going great. we'e been together for 6 months. and everything is going perfect. But,in the other hand im still afraid he might hurt me or do the same thing to me.. just the way you feel.
I dont think you should be with girl number 2 because,she broke up with you saying she didn't wanna hurt you and that it wasnt gonna work out. well what make's you think its gonna work out now? if i didnt work out 1 month ago (not tryna be rude lol). i think girl number 2 has mixed feelings. I also think girl number 2 MIGHT be using you just for some sex. since u guys live in the same house and she knows you would probably do it with her. well thats my opinion in your question :]
glad i could help
-melly
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you should keep dating girl 1 until you think it will work with girl 2. other wise you lose both of them. So just wait till the time is the right time.
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