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Every since i have had sex with this boy i want to have sex everyday and when i see him and his beautiful eyes i want it even more i dream about him all the time i think i adicted why is this happening.?

Because that experience is so new and exciting and it feels so good that you jsut want it all the time, for some people it fades and for some it doesnt. its not a bad thing to have an active sex life with a partner. just be safe about it.

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that girl her bday is coming up and she wants me to go she tolled her bf she wasnt having a party what should i do

you should go and talk to her about it there but try not to upsett her

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she said he want me to try cocan

but she not into that she smoke pot a lil but not like he does

Tell her that she can do it if she wants... because sadly enough if she wants to do it theres nothing really stopping her and if you go tell anyone about what shes doing she'll probly get mad and you'll lose her forever. However, if you say that she can come to you if she doesnt want to do it and you'll deal with the consinquences of her boyfriend; this shows that you will always protect and she can count on you.

I really hope i helped and if you have any other questions dont hesitate to ask and be sure to tell me what happpens!

Kaaitlyn :)

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what are ome cool things to put on my website?

well it depends what your website is about..
But somethings that are fun and interesting on every web site is quizzes/games/surveys. And remember to include lots of pictures! :)

hope i helped
Kaaitlyn

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I have feeling her boyfriend tolled her she could not talk to me. i think he might having her do drugs she does not wont to do. what should i do she tolled me not to tell any one.

well i think you should talk to her in person about it and really see where shes coming for and see if shes acting different. what did she tell you not to tell anyone?

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What if she changed her myspace states to he is just another heart break waitin 2 happen and she is talking about her crent bf

Then i think you should talk to her about it and tell her how you feel and see what sshe says,because youll never know untill you try :)
Kaaitlyn

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I have liked this girl for since 6th grade I am in 9th now and I think she likes me to she say she does. I would ask her out but in the past when I have asked her out she has had a boyfriend ever time. We text all the time in school we have text so much I can tell if its not her but this time it was. So I am at my brothers basketball game and we are texting like usual and she say I really like you. I say I really like you to but you already have a boyfriend so I called her and talked to for about an hour. I was wondering if I should back off or ask her out. I'm 15 and she is 14

Well... you shouldnt ask her uot if she has a bf. but you can just bring up the topic of dating and tell her that you want to date her and it sound like she likes you too so she'll probly say the same and then just ask her if her wanting to date you would make her end things with her bf for you and if she does then she deffinitely likes you more but if she keeps on dating the guy then i think you should back of at least till their done dating.

hope i helped :)
kaaitlyn

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There's a boy in my school that I REALLY like. How can u tell if a guy likes u?
I am almost 13 years old, and I'm a girl.

You can tell by if and how he talks to you. If he talks to you alot, or goes out of his way to talk to you that means he wants to get to know you better and talk more. Another way is if you catch him looking at you if your either in class or walking by in the hall way. to really tell if he likes you try flirting with him, maybe just start out with a smile and if he returns the smile and maybe some compliments or just talks to you alot. im 90% sure that he likes you back.

Goodluck hun =)
kaaitlyn

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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

i think you should be straight up with him, like tell him that you know there is a facebook group about your relationship. and if he doesnt beleive you tell him some of the stuff you read and see how he reacts. if he says sorry and that he was wrong and you think you can still trust him then i dont think you should let it get in the way of your relationship. however if you tell him and he denies it and accuses you of lying then i think that you are way to good for that.

hope i helped!

kaaitlyn

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my boyfriend and i have been togehter for 1 year thank GOD =D i jsut wanted to know, whenever he explains how much he loves me, he starts crying.. is that a good thing ? :)

yes its a great thing, hes letting you know that he truely loves you, and hes letting his sensitive side show to you which is a big step for most guys!

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what are some good songs that say im over you?

fuck it- eamon
according to you - orianthi

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Hello ,

So okay , show story is me and this guy hung out we met up after 1-2 years and so , we did things got phsyical. And I went down on him and his thing was hanging out while I went up to kiss him and it was on me , but the thing is I haven't gotten' my period yet , am I pregnant?

Please help:(
Thank you ,
Betty

The only way you could be pregnant is if he cummed, and if he didnt then your totally good, and even so you didnt say it went in you so i think your good. :)

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I had to do a presentation in my class the other day and at the end of it when I looked and made eye contact with my crush and saw that he was smiling. I guess I said something cute but his smile was really big. :]

I've liked him since last year but we're only acquaintances and the time we actually spend talking is minimal. I feel like I've seen him purposely look in my direction but it could just be my imagination.

Does my crush sound like it's returned? I'm afraid that I just think it is because I'm biased and WANT it to be.

PS: I'm 17/f

Well i think there is a very good chance that it is mutual, The best thing for you to do is to talk to him more and get to know him and see how things go from there.
Hope i helped =)

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i'm bringing my ex with me on vacation in july. we broke up in april, but we both decided that we were still gonna stay good friends and see where things go from there. i'm still in love with him. he broke it with me because he said his feelings changed, but he said he still wanted me in his life, and i know he means it too. we're going to myrtle beach together and do you think theres a chance of him falling back in love if we're like on the beach at night having fun and stuff? and what things can i do to make it as romantic as possible. i need experiences from people who have gotten back with their exes, etc. i would do absolutely anything to get back with this guy.

17/f, 17/m
thanks so much for your time.

i think there is a very good chance of him taking you back, the reason being is that he still wants you in his life meaning that he still has feelings for you, you just have to be yourself and flirt with him and im pretty dure hell get the idea and he will miss you. but dont try and make him jealous by hooking up with another guy and brag about it, he will think bad about you and not consider you( not saying you would do that but just a warrning ) hope i helped :) and good luck!!

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so one day i was randomly singing with my best friend ana, when all of a sudden she stopped but i continued. When i finished the song, she's like "ohmigosh you can sing!" I honestly dont think so. so ana forced me to sing to my other bestie mary who also sings, and she said the same thing. This continued for the entire week, then they made me sing for my high school friend who is auditioning for american idol nxt year, and he also said i could sing R&B. evryone says i can except me. Should i take a chance and believe them? Or should i just keep it to myself? I know this is hard w/o a sample but please try you best.
thx

well i really dont think that your friends would lie to you. one suggestion is that you could record yourself sing and listen to it .. hope i helped

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can someone be attractive but not good-looking?

well there are different meanings to every thing but yes they can.

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Well I'm 18/m. I guess the title says it all? Basically I've been single for far too long, and my last relationship was ended by the girl. Ever since then, I've lost my confidence in talking to other girls, I just don't have any good communication skills any more. I've also got that "nerd" image, but I've changed my hairstyle and I'm now wearing contacts, just to sort've lose that image. But I've still got that background of a "nerd". Any ideas on how I can gain back my confidence? + I don't have very good communication skills!:( Help!!

well your answers in the title too.. speakng from a girl perspective girls luv confident guys.... you would have a way better chance in gettingg a gf if you went up to a pretty girl instead of just looking across the room. you might get rejected but thats part of the game. you have to take that chance or you will get no where. And nevver say noboddy would like you, because there is ALWAYS someone who likes you or would liek you, you just have to take the risk

hope i helped =)

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We have been dating for 7 months, we are true and strong. We don't fight about stupid little things, we don't do drugs or drink or party like a normal teenager. We truly want to grow old together. We talk every chance we get, we never grow annoyed of each other, and we never get sick of hanging out. We have a promise to never break up and truly try and solve the problem. But since I'm a teenager, I feel immature, but I'm not. And I can sense that people think we wont last (adults).
Is it possible that we will one day be married, and have a happy ever after?

of course there is a chance, if you guys truly love each other it will because true love lasts a life time!

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how do make my girlfriend feel special

well .. dont call her hot, call her beautiful & amazing. always touch her hand or face.. dont talk about sex or she will get the impression thats all you want, which in guessing you dont. and when shes sad let her cry in your should and when shes mad, not nessisarily at you. but let her vent to you and let her know that you will always be there if she needs to talk and of course make it seems like you are the only girl you see, always hug and caress her


hope i helped
kaaitlyn

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ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff

well hun, answer these questions.. when ever your around him is all he talk about sex, and you doing stuff with him?.. and if you wont do it he says but baby i love you.?

if both of those are yes,, i hate to tell you but im 90% hes using you for action. i know its hard to hear but i dont think you want to be his girlfriend just for that. my advice is to leave before you get into deep with him.

hope i helped

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