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how do make my girlfriend feel special

You could simply shower her with affection show her that your interested in her hobbies pick her a flower. hugs and sweet carees will have her won over and she will know that your into her

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First and foremost, I would sincerely appreciate all advice offered here..I just don't know what else to do right now. I recently traveled to Mexico on a vacation with my family. We stayed for two weeks in an amazing resort, but I never expected to meet someone I wanted to be with so badly. I met Ryan on my first day at the hotel, he works there on the Entertainment staff. He's absolutely gorgeous :) and we hit it off right away. I'm nineteen, soon to be twenty, and he just turned twenty three, so there is a bit of an age gap which neither of us consider to be an issue. We spent every second together during my vacation, and he took many days off work to chill with me downtown. He left work early everyday to go have lunch with me. We established that we liked each other, and it feels right to both of us but I don't see how a relationship could work. I've been home for about a week and a day hasn't gone by without us talking until today, because his grandmother passed away this morning. I completely understand him needing to be with his family and everything, this is not an issue..I just don't know if I'm cut out for the whole long distance thing. I live in Michigan, so it's really far obviously..I'm going back in August for three weeks but after that who knows how long it will be before we see each other. I don't know if I should hold on to this or let go because there could be something easier for both of us, even if it isn't better at least it wouldn't be such a strain. But I care about him immensely and even after three weeks I feel very close to him, vice versa. I speak fluent spanish so language is not an issue at all. Sorry for the length of this question, I just need to know if I should let go or keep holding on..and if I do hold on, does it get easier?

Well it could work but it requires a sacfrice from both of you. If you are traveling over there for 3 wk. then he should also be willing to do the same its a two way street.

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ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff

First of all sex cannot be the only basis of your relationship. Love is when the two you cannot stand being apart or when you have built a solid friendship and you can share your secrets/desires/have some same common goals. Sex is only 25% percent of your relationship that the intimacy you enjoy between the two of you. Theres so much more to love. I really think you to should have talked about this before you added sex into the equation

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Hello. I am 31 years old & I have orgasms, but, I have the hardest time achieving one. I just can't stand it anymore! Someone told me there are pills out there that will help me with it. Is that true? I hope someone out there has experienced them & if so, where do I get them and do they really work?

Thankyou.

1st there are no pills for this you may want to introduce more foreplay between your partner and yourself. You should be relaxed and not focusing on anything except ways that may be pleasureable for you and your partner. Massage oil, introduce toys and may some oral sex would help you climax.let me if this helps you may be in for a surprised happy climaxing to you

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How can your current boyfriend/Husband

Well my dears its easy you must not be one those nagging types men hate that and more than likely will never truly listen to you.

My advice is always keep yourself together looking smelling good the way he met you and always ask him honey how was your day. From his response you will know if it was a good/bad and that will let you know wether to ask for that new dress/shoes etc. Just offer a hug or kiss or simply say when your ready im here for you.

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