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THIS QUESTION IS FOR ALL CATHOILICS
okay so ive been doubting the existance of god. I mean i know im supposed to beleieve hes real and all, but i just....havent been lately. This is my theory "If thousands of other gods in the world exist to other people, how am i suposed tot rust that this one exists too?!"
i really need osme help because i just dont trust my faith and i really really want to.
I beleieve, but i doubt more. (link)
1/05/08

God exists independently of what anyone thinks. For example: many people say they do not believe in Hell. However, the existence of Hell, or any other person, place or object, is not defendant upon a person's belief in it. If the existence of something were dependent upon our belief in it, then as soon as we stopped believing in that "something", it would disappear.

I could say that I do not believe in you; I have never seen you and therefore, you don't exist. Obviously, that would be an incorrect conclusion.

God created each and every one of us and no amount of unbelief in Him, on our part, will make Him disappear.

If we want to have more faith in God, we must pray for it. Say these two simple prayer. "Lord give me more faith" and "Dear Jesus, send someone to teach me the truth". Repeat them as often as you can.

If you want a more formal prayer, Most Catholics and many non-Catholics pray the Rosary.The Rosary is a very powerful prayer.

For more detailed answers to any question about Catholicism, go to http://catholic.com/

There you can find the answer to any question about the Catholic.

Another good source of information is the EWTN TV channel Most cable tv providers carry it. See EWTN.com

Good luck & God bless.


ok, so i am a virgin but i think i am ready and so i want to have sex with my boyfriend... the problem is, i dont know much about it, i am scared about the bleeding part, and how much will i bleed. and i am not on the pill but will i get pregnant, even though he wears a condom??
i just need like basic information on sex for the first time, any tips would be great, and apparently its VERY painful, is it??

thank you so much.... any info would be appreciated! (link)
Do not be pressured into pre-marital sex. Save yourself for marriage. Pre-marital sex is very bad way to go for teen girls, both physically (STDs) and morally. It is a very poor preparation for marriage.

Condoms do not always work, you can still get pregnant or get an STD.
What if you get pregnant? What will you do? Will you keep the child or be pressured to have an abortion which could really mess up your life. For more information see the following web sites.

If you would like to get in touch with a real "Mom" who cares about kids, please go to Mrs. Meg Meeker's web site. http://megmeekermd.com/

also check out http://www.pureloveclub.com/

and http://www.teeneire.com

I hope this helps.


i am 13 and my mom is a slut. She brings at least five guys a day. when she gets drunk and pass out. the man comes to my room. it is really scary for me. i can never have anyone over my house. My boyfriend really wants to do it with me, but i say no and he doesn't understand why. i don't want to end up like my mother. But i really love my boyfriend. What should i do. i need an outlet. (link)
Dear "13" who needs and outlet.I hope the following will be of help to you.

If you would like to get in touch with a real "Mom"
who cares about kids, please go to Mrs.Meg Meeker's web site. http://megmeekermd.com/

also check out http://www.pureloveclub.com/

and http://teeneire.com/

I hope this helps.




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