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first time having sex
ok, so i am a virgin but i think i am ready and so i want to have sex with my boyfriend... the problem is, i dont know much about it, i am scared about the bleeding part, and how much will i bleed. and i am not on the pill but will i get pregnant, even though he wears a condom??
i just need like basic information on sex for the first time, any tips would be great, and apparently its VERY painful, is it??
thank you so much.... any info would be appreciated!
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it all depends on your body, how much you'll bleed is unpredictable. you might not even bleed at all.
And of course theres always a chance you can get pregnant but with a condom it def. lowers the odds.
And yeah it will be painful but more pleasurable than painful...
Before you have sex i'd look more into it at various websites..and sweetie please make sure hes the one..it is a big deal.
be safe and always have a back up condom because if the condom your using breaks then you have a even higher chance of getting pregnant.
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Do not be pressured into pre-marital sex. Save yourself for marriage. Pre-marital sex is very bad way to go for teen girls, both physically (STDs) and morally. It is a very poor preparation for marriage.
Condoms do not always work, you can still get pregnant or get an STD.
What if you get pregnant? What will you do? Will you keep the child or be pressured to have an abortion which could really mess up your life. For more information see the following web sites.
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I hope this helps.
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I know that this probably wont help you, but I'm going to say it anyway.
I donno how old you are and It would be helpfull with this kind've questions but Don't have sex.
Don't.Im not trying to scare you, but this guys only your boyfriend.. Maybe you've gone out for 20 years or 1 I donno [[this is where age comes in]] If your able to get married and have gone out for a long time and by the way sex is a commetment its not a one time shot. If this guy isnt into marrying you-- no sex.
Why give him the milk for free when he can buy the cow?
and if your like 15 or underage why are you even thinking about having sex.
Thinking and actually being ready are two VERY diffrent things.
I wouldnt but thats me...
Sorry If I Didn't Help.
i just wanted to open your eyes slightly.
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If you're planning on having sex you should really get on the birth control pill, if you don't go on the pill then make sure that you wear a condom, and yes there is still a possibility of you getting pregnant but if you use a condom it'll lessen the chance.
Bleeding is different for every girl, sometimes it hurts more then other times, it just depends on who you're asking. My first time I was more worried about my boyfriend seeing my body naked rather then sex actually hurting. Going into having sex I wasn't worried about bleeding or anything and when it actually happened it was so fast that afterwards you're like, "oh my god that was it?" It's kinda like getting your ear pierced like you're so psyched and worried about how bad it's going to hurt and you're shaking so much and when it happens you're like, "oh." and you laugh about it.
Just make sure that your boyfriend wears a condom! :D
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