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after you give a guy head are you not supposed makeout witht him again after? idk if they wouldnt want to because they would basically be tasting their nastyyyy or does it depend on the guy? thankyou in advancedd

My boyfriend doesn't mind if I kiss him afterwards, but my best friend's boyfriend does mind, so really it just depends on who you're asking.

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i was just wondering can you tell if a girl is a virgin or not by the way they walk?
and if yes. how do virgins and not virgins. walkk?!

You can't tell whether or not someone's
a virgin by the way that they walk.

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i have only gone tanning once in my life and starting next week im going tanning. so i dont really want tan lines so would it be okay if i dont wear a bra in the tanning bed and just a thong? would that be okay or would that be bad?

Hey. :D I went tanning for like two years straight in my life, I don't anymore primarily because I don't want to be tan anymore. Anyways, yeah, it's totally fine if you don't wear a bra, and honestly a lot of people I know don't wear anything whenever they go in a tanning bed because of tanning lines. You'll be fine and it'll be a lot better if you don't wear anything. :DD It's safe.

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ok does it hurt to get done up the butt?
or does it feel good?
please help!!! thanx

Some girls like it and some girls don't.

It just varies from girl to girl. It feels good for the guy because it's a lot tighter but for the girl it hurts the first few times and she might bleed.

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Does it hurt to like get ur eyebrow pierced??

I have never gotten my eyebrow pierced, but I can't wait until my 18th birthday rolls around because I will get one. I wish I could tell you how it's going to feel but I can't. I did get my nose pierced though and I went into the piercing place thinking it was going to hurt REALLY bad and it ended up not being as bad as I thought.

Go to this site, and a bunch of people talk about their stories when they got piercings, and you'll be able to get a perspective on whether it's for you or not.

http://bmezine.com/pierce/04-eyebrow/bme-pg04-exp-all-001.html

Have fun.

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I love Mayday Parade, Sherwood, October Fall, and Cute is what we aim for...does anybody know any other bands that have that type of music without any screaming and heavy meatal and song names would be fantabulouss :) thanks guyss.

Circa Survive, Hit the Lights, Cartel, The Used [a little screaming not too much]

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ok, so i am a virgin but i think i am ready and so i want to have sex with my boyfriend... the problem is, i dont know much about it, i am scared about the bleeding part, and how much will i bleed. and i am not on the pill but will i get pregnant, even though he wears a condom??
i just need like basic information on sex for the first time, any tips would be great, and apparently its VERY painful, is it??

thank you so much.... any info would be appreciated!

If you're planning on having sex you should really get on the birth control pill, if you don't go on the pill then make sure that you wear a condom, and yes there is still a possibility of you getting pregnant but if you use a condom it'll lessen the chance.

Bleeding is different for every girl, sometimes it hurts more then other times, it just depends on who you're asking. My first time I was more worried about my boyfriend seeing my body naked rather then sex actually hurting. Going into having sex I wasn't worried about bleeding or anything and when it actually happened it was so fast that afterwards you're like, "oh my god that was it?" It's kinda like getting your ear pierced like you're so psyched and worried about how bad it's going to hurt and you're shaking so much and when it happens you're like, "oh." and you laugh about it.

Just make sure that your boyfriend wears a condom! :D

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So is the iPhone worth getting or no?

Thanks :]

I think it's worth it. The only bad thing about it is that you can't send a text message to more then one person at a time, so like if you wanted to send Merry Christmas to everyone in your contact list you can't, you have to send the message individually. That's the only thing I don't like about it. Other then that it's totally worth it. :D

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Ok guys this is going to sound really wierd. Alls i need you to do is just pick a letter for me.. either A J M. Thats it :) Thank Yuu x x x

A!

A's the best because M is like, W upside down and J is like in the middle of the alphabet. & my name starts with A, so you should pick that for sure. :DD

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My boyfriend is getting me a promise sing. So I'm thinking about getting him one too. A silver one with outside engraving. I'm not sure what it should say. I was thinking of putting our anniversay date on it or I love you. I guess i don't want to mess up on the text. Any suggestions?

Should I just go for the names and a heart in between it?

I got my boyfriend a promise ring, but I got the engraving done on the inside. I got "1/1/01" [the day we started dating] and then "I love you, Alexander" as well. He fell in love with it!

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I was washing my face with soap that my sister used on her foot that has a plantar wart. I didn't know at the time, until she told me later. Can I get a wart on my face?

THANKS

It's possible, but I highly doubt it. Warts are contagious but they're more contagious when actually TOUCHED. Not through like soap and stuff. (: Don't worry about it. :DD

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do guys shave down there to?
or is it jus girls

Guys can shave "down there" too if that's what they prefer. Every guy is different and so is every girl. It's just up to them if they want to or not.

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Hey!! Does anybody know any cute bags i can keep my stuff in for school? I have purses but my binders dont fit! It would b great if i could fit 3 or 4 binders in it, and a few forlder and small notebooks. Is this impossible to find?

Thanx so much!!

I only have big purses mainly because with small purses you can never fit anything in them. I'll show you the purse that I mainly use for school.

I got this one from American Eagle:
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat90052&productId=0427_7597

Or I have this Hello Kitty one I got from Hot Topic and it's really really big and it's my favorite. :DD You can find a really cute big bag from anywhere really. Just go into the mall, you could go to Aeropostale and find one, or Hollister. It's really up to you and the places you'd like. But American Eagle has really big purses for great prices too. :)

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I have to do similarities between Macbeth and Hamlet. Such as how did hamlet and Macbeth relate to each other, what similarities do they have? But also how are they different. I came up with a few. I just need a few more ideas please.

Hey. :DD

Similarities:
-Both Shakespearean tragedies.
-They both use supernatural incidents to capture the reader's interest.
Consists of a hero that has a specific flaw.
-The tragic hero was not sure whether spirits were good or evil.
-Supernatural occurrence happened close to the beginning of the opening.
-Both Hamlet and Macbeth fight and ultimately are killed.
-On both of their journeys they start with something mystical, Hamlet; Ghost of his father. Macbeth; The witches.
-They both seem to have mental breakdowns.

Differences:
-Hamlet is the one of whom is honorable.
-Macbeth kills a lot of people and Hamlet delays killing his uncle because he worries it's the wrong thing to do.
-Hamlet finally is able to avenge his fathers death and dies honorably in the process. Macbeth also dies, it's not called an honorable death because he killed people only for his own benefit.


I wish I could give you more differences but the similarities seem to be the easiest to come up with. Good luck on that. :)

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I heard this song on the radio today and I thought it was cute, then i relized it was from the movie "Aquamarine". Do any of you guys know the name of the song Aqua and... the guy she liked danced to at the Last Splash? Thanks

it's by Atomic Kitten: Right now.
:DD

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I have stretch marks on my breasts. And I've had them for a little while now.
They're really ugly, and look red on occasion.
Anyway, my boyfriend and I getting more involved, and I don't want him to see my breasts.
I've let him touch them, thankfuly it's been dark.
Anywho, I was wondering if there's anything I can do to make them go away, that works.
Like to cover it up or something, or even a cream that can erase them (but I don't really want to spend all the money and have it not work.)
Any remedies, or am I stuck feeling insecure?

I have stretch marks on my stomach because when I lost weight that's what happened. (: When my boyfriend and I started to get involved I was really embarrassed and I would never let him scratch my stomach because I knew he'd feel them, so I totally know where you're coming from. Don't worry about him seeing your stretch marks because if he loves you he won't care. & trust me, he'll be way too into the moment to even care that there's anything on your breasts he'll just care about your breasts themselves. :DD

Well you should always use some type of moisturizer on the places where stretch marks are visible. Any moisturizers with Vitamin A and E in them. I can't give you any examples, but if you go to the store and look in the moisturizer section you'll clearly be able to see which ones hold the vitamins. When you apply moisturizer massage it into your skin because it can help prevent and improve the appearance of the stretch marks.

Use cocoa butter moisturizer if you have any too, because it's probably the best type of moisturizer to use on stretch marks. (: & start feeling comfortable about your breasts even if you have stretch marks. Once you feel comfortable it'll be a lot easier having your boyfriend look at you.

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well i heard that bobby broke up with tila, and theres supposed to be a new season, is this true? and if so when does it air.

What you heard is correct. Bobby did break up with Tila because she was always too busy for him. & yes, a second season at a Shot at Love will air this spring! :D

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