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how to win him back
so theres this guy that ive fallen so badly for. we had a thing for a little and he just swept me off my feet then. now its all crumbling down on me. hes so immature and gets mad at me all the time and ignores me all the time and i dont understand because im so nice to him all the time and i try so hard to be perfect. i know im never going to be good enough for him so im just trying to think of ways to get over him. like theres this guy whose so nice and perfect such a gentlemen but im still stuck on the imature guy that treats me like shit. i need to get over this one guy so i can hav a normal life not one constantly thinking what hes doing where hes at if hes thinking of me who the new girl in his life is. i got it bad for the kid, and it sucks we cant even be friends because for some reason he hates me, couldnt tell you what i did. oh well, should i just ignore him for as long as it takes me to get over him then start talking to him months later and see if he misses me? or should i just let him go forever? :/ .. help?
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I experienced the exact same thing about three years ago. There's this cute guy who simply (as you put it) swept me off my feet. I fell for him so bad that I did everything he asked me to. I think I have been the best girlfriend he had in terms of good behaviour. I was so afraid to lose that guy that I did everything I could to keep him with me. But for what? Later on he treated me like I'm some kind of plaything that he can ignore at times and gets back to me whenever he feels like he wants to amuse himself.
I will not get much into details but the point is guys like them are not worth crying over with. We deserve more. YOU deserve much more. Before I thought that my world will collapse when that guy and me broke up. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I cannot concentrate on anything, all that was in my mind was getting him back. Take it from me, don't plan on winning him back. He's not worth it. Why do you think he treated you like shit? Why he hates you for no apparent reason? Because he doesn't care one way or another. Do you really want him back into your life only to risk the chance of getting hurt again for the same reason that are hurting you now?
I believe the right person will come for you, like the same thing that happened to me. It may not be at this precise moment, may not be at the right package that you wanted, may appear at the least time you expect it, but at most he's the right person that is meant only for you.
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wow wow wow. im in the SAME boat as you right now. besides the fact that i haven't met anyone else I want to be with .. haha. but okay. I know that everyone on here is going to tell you to move on and stuff, but that is easier said then done. everyday I tell myself that it's over, he has a girlfriend now, just forget about him ... but i just can't. It doesn't work. and yeah, I talk to him, but it hurts to talk to him.
I suggest that you listen to music. lots and lots of music. i also thin that you should write down your feelings any way that you can. it helps after a while. and if you want to cry, CRY. let your emotions out, it will feel soosoo much better afterwardss.
Try to forget him. get with the other guy and have fun. hang out with your friends and have a good time. forget about him for a while, even if it's only for an hour. just take your mind off of it and over time it will get better. especially if you find a new guy :] just let him go, if he comes back.. then see what happens then. everything happens for a reason, so just go with the flow and everything will fall into place :] I promise.
good luck, hope i helped ! xxo
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wow im sort of going through the pretty much EXACT thing as you..
except that i dated a guy for 2 years and he would treat me like shit while i was SOOO nice to him and then we broke up and he like hates me but idk why or what i did but he hates me and we cant be friends and now he has a new gf but he still tried to talk to me sometimes but im just getting over it
you have to remember, why do you like this guy? its because of how he USE to be, now hes immature and treats you like shit. do you really want to be with this guy for the rest of your life? ignore him.. forget about him.. get over him.. go out with friends!
when you find yourself thinking about him, you're probably rememering the good times you had, instead, click over to the times when he treated you like shit and did stupid things
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