15/F
Me and this guy definitely like each other.
He just got out of a year+ relationship so he doesn't want to go out with me. He doesn't want others, or me, to think that I'm just a rebound.
Still, he holds my hand in public and he kissed me on the cheek and the forehead when we last hung out.
He's acting like we're going out, so why won't he ask me? It's like the same thing...right?
He DOES want to get to know me better. I guess that's a really good reason, too.
Do you think it could be anything else?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mkdandkgb answered Tuesday March 3 2009, 2:31 am: You need to clairfy with this guy that your not just here to mess with. You actually want to be his girlfriend. Basically what he is thinking in him mind is: " heyy if she is going to do stuff with me without being my girlfriend then why would i ask her out. He wants to be able to do stuff with you yett he doesnt want girls to think he is taken you know? Trust me i have been in this type of situation and i finally told the guy look im not doing this! you either want me as your girlfriend or you cant have me at all..
so just sit down and talk to him.. its the best thing to do in this situation..
iaminlove1 answered Monday March 2 2009, 5:16 pm: I've been in the exact same situation before! He doesn't want to rush things with you and possibly screw them up. Just give him time, he'll ask you out eventually [:
JustSomeone answered Monday March 2 2009, 1:31 pm: he just doesnt want to rush things! he probably still has feelings for his ex girlfriend, a year is a long time, he may even still be hoping to get back with his ex girlfriend. you both need to be careful. just keep seeing him and let the feelings between you 2 grow. dont push it, nobody likes when things are pushed! it will just break things apart.. let it happen (: [ JustSomeone's advice column | Ask JustSomeone A Question ]
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