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is it really over?
ok,
well iv started going out with this girl, and we have went out before but she left me for her ex. and i understood at the time because well they had something differnt and yeah.
but now we are going out again and she said at the beggining she definately doesnt like her ex again. but now she wants to give it a break for a while to sort out her head. because she said she wants to make 100 percent sure she wont fuck me over again and she isnt sure whats going on in her head about him. she said she knows they dont work and she doesnt want to have these feelings.
so do you think its over? i mean...i know your probably gonna say its not worth it that she is just messing me around or whatever i just was wondering your opinion of whether or not you think she will go back to her ex. like i was one of her best friends after we broke up the first time and we get along great and she said she has liked me for ages and shouldnt havee broken up with me in the first place. but i she was just angry at her ex?
thanks
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ill tell you flat out what i think.... i definitely do not think that this is the end of all of your problems with her and her ex. find out how the ex feels about her. because when you date someone for a while, and you really love them, but it didnt work out.. its hard to let it go, especially when the person doesnt leave you alone. so if the ex is always texting her saying he misses her and stuff like that, its hard not to fall for it, trust me. i did the same thing to my boyfriend with my ex.. only i ended up cheating on him because i loved my boyfriend and didnt wanna lose him, but i wanted to see what it would feel like getting back with my ex. my boyfriend eventually got sick of it and now we are over... anyways, i always say that i am COMPLETELY done with my ex, but he always makes his way back to me one way or another. and its always a problem.. it sucks =/ but i really think you need to persuade her that if things didnt work out before with the two of them, chances are, they never will. and try to find out who her ex is, and try to one up him, and make her want you more than him. dont let her think he has anything you dont..
hope i helped & good luck
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she probably loved her ex. he possibly was her first love. and sometimes feelings for somebody you loved, especially your first love will never go away. even if that person is a complete jackass! its like they have a spell over you! shes probably trying to get over him and wants to get over him and is telling herself that she is over him but shes not and her ex possibly could be talking to her again which could be confusing her. its really up to you, because even if she shouldnt be with this guy, it might be what she wants jsut because those feelings r still there for him even if she does like you. so i would say yes, its possible she could go back to her ex. but if you really like this girl you should fight for her and show her that you and her could be a better thing than her and her ex
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