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well i was going out with this boy and we were off and on agian for about a coupel of months. This last time i think it was the 4th or 5th time we are goin out. but, a few weeks ago, he broke up eith me because he belived some other girl. She hates me because he likes well liked me and not her. so anyway, its been at least 2 weeks and i cant stop thinking about him, and i cant help but to like him. my freinds and his friends tell me that he still likes me and wants anthore chance. I dint no what to say. i want to say yes because i do like him but.. i dont want to get hurt anymore. we still talk kinda it took about 12 days to start talking again. its so hard to because most of my friends hang out with him and so im there too. When im with my other friends they all get mad at me because im not with them. so then i try to hang out with more cause we've been friends longer but he's always with them. so then his friend tells me that he still likes me. i do to but i dont wanna. How do i get over him for good? This isnt my 1st bouyfreind but it's still hard. im in 8th grade and about to enter High School. (link)
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look, im gonna be straight forward and honest with you.
deal with it hun.
youre not even in highschool yet.. you are going to go to highschool, meet an older boy, get new friends, and forget about all of this bullshit drama. you are going to have MUCH bigger problems and issues to worry about. so just do me the favor. take the load off your shoulders and let it goooooooo!.
god, you sound just like i did in middle school..
my eighth grade year i met a boy, who i thought i loved. got pretty serious.. in the freaking EIGHTH GRADE.. and all the same drama happened to me. my best friend told him i liked someone else when i didnt.. he broke up with me.. started dating her. and i was in such a big mess.
then, i got to highschool, met another guy.. and got myself in even bigger messes..
i know you think all this drama and stuff matters SO much right now. but i assure you it means nothing and i assure you by the time you reach 10th grade you'll laugh about it and you will ask yourself why you wasted time on it.
just let it blow over you like you dont even care. i know its hard to do, but just look whats waiting for you in the future. :)
hope you dont hate me, just trying to give you a little heads up cus i was just like you, so i basically know your future.. and you just need to NOT WORRY. everything will be okay..
hakunamatata!(: hahaaa
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I've had this cat for just a few months now but I still don't know what to name him. I want something original. He's a REALLY sweet cat. I've never had a cat that had such a big heart. Does anyone have any ideas of what I could name him?
http://i41.tinypic.com/2dsftsl.jpg (link)
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AWWWW! he is addorrrrable! :)
we named my cat o'malley from the aristacats.. haha.. everyone seems to think it's such a cute, origional name, you can steal it if you want :)
hmm some of my friends and my older cats names are...
milo, molka, orlando, max, rose, chip, elvis, diablo, mr. hoover, miggy, ophelia, moochie, topaz, lacey, prudence, prissy, babel,,, just throwing out ideas.. some are wierd, haha..
you could name it a disney or movie character like mine.. maybe a character realy loveable or something like mickey? haa, idk..
to get the names of my pet fish, i googled"origional fish names"
and a TON of sites came up, you can do that with cat names :)
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What happens when you poop blood (link)
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this is gonna sound discusting,, but i cant think of a none gross way to say it..
what happened is apparently you took a reeeally big poo, and it stretched out your butthole further than it normally goes, so it caused your anus(butt hole) to tear a little, making it bleed.. so its not actually the poop that has blood on it, its your butt.. lol
dont worry about it, its nothing serious, and you should stop seeing blood from about 2 days to a week.. if you continue to see blood in like 2 weeks, go to a doctor :)
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hey, so i'm 5'0, 15 years old, and my weight changes all the time usually from about 115 to about 120. first off, is that a lot to weigh? second, i want to lose about 8 pounds or so for the summer. are there any ways for me to do that? i'm a really picky eater, and don't do very well with healthy foods. the only meet i eat is chicken. i love fruits but im not so good with vegetables, i only eat a few. so what are some ways i can lose weight for the summer? thanks soo much! (link)
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yes, your wieght is completely normal, first of all.... second, everyones weight changes and goes up and down about 5 pounds.. thats all your water weight, not to worry about..
some ways to lose weight:
drink TONS AND TONS of water
at least 9 cups a day.. i usually drink 6 bottles a day, i swear it makes you lose weight FAST.
cut down on all snacks, especially before bedtime. thats the worst time to eat anything, because the food is just sitting there in your body for hours while you sleep.
eat mostly all salads, make it your lunch and dinner meals , even a snack. salad can be really filling and has almost no calories. this will make you lose weight fast too..
try to go for walks at night or get some crunches in before bed for eexercise
im tellin you, salad, water, & no junk..
thats the way to go ;)
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Kay. I have graduation in like a week and a half. and my nose and my chest have like a second degree sunburn. My nose is a complete scab.. and my chest is dry and kind of peely. This makes it really hard to sleep, move.. wear clothing.. etc. I looked everywhere for aloe, but all I can find is aloe with alchohol in it.. I also looked for a plant and can't find one.. I've been putting polysporin on it, cause I thought it'd make it heal really fast. It's only been like 2 days, and it hasn't really done anything.. the redness on my chest went away kind of.. except for where its dry and flaky. But its not like peeling sunburn dry and flaky its like souper dry skin and its hurts to move. UGH. Advice please. Week and a half to grad and I don't wanna look like a lobster. =[ (link)
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go to a cvs or walgreens or something and get this stuff that i use.. its aloevera gel and its green, well mine is.. and it works SOOOOO good. my burn usually goes away in a day or two after i get it. shower in cold water, and put that aloevera stuff on over and over and over again just keep on putting it on all day as much as you can, it makes it feel soo much better too
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Are there any tips or things you can do to increase your chances of getting in touch with someone from the other side?
not like lighting a candle and stuff...
and are there any spells any one might have that you have done and it worked?! any spell would be great!
And i would really like to know how to make a Voodoo doll for revenge! and if anyone out there has done Voodoo, TELL ME of your exprience!!!
help would be greatly appreciated!!
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i am the master with ouija boards.. lemme share my story.. so about 3 or 4 summers ago, my cousin died. she died at a really young age, 15, in a car accident. i was i think 11.. im 15 now.. so one night at the end of that summer when my cousin died, me and my 3 other friends were sitting in her room bored. and all of a sudden, i noticed a ouija board in her closet.. none of us believed in it or anything but we wanted to play with it for fun so we did. we asked questions like 'is anyone there' and it went very slowly to yes.. we FREEEEEEAAAAAKED out. none of us were pusing it, and we were litterally so scared that we woke up her mom and everything, it was freaky.. then the thing started going to the letter e, over and over. so i started thinking, and i was like omg.. erica! (my cousin that died) and it ended up being her and we talked to her for hours! and we knew it was real because none of my friends knew her, she lived far away, and she was saying personal things about our family and stuff. it was crazy. the more we got into it, the faster the thing moved.. the rest of that summer was insane. EVERYONE started using ouija boards and it was like this huge thing, and things started moving around peoples houses and all this crazy stuff was happenning to everyone. todday, my family uses the ouija board to communicate with erica every day. we 100 percent believe in it, and we have seen miricals with this board. its unbelievable and incredible. however, BE CAREFUL. if you start getting wierd vibes, PUT IT AWAY. and it can get addicting and the spirits can litterally suck you into the board, where you want to play it 24 hours a day. my mother had to hide the ouija board from me and my friends for months because she read up on it online and read about getting 'sucked in' and we were. so just have fun and be careful, if u have any questions about it, ask mee. ima prooo. as for voodoo and stuff, nahh its not real.
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okay, my bestfriend and her boyfriend have been on and off relationship for 4 years. i honestly dont like him because of some things hes done to her in the past and some things he does that changes who she is. i can tell he doesnt like me, but he doesnt like any of her friends. all his friends are jerks and what not, but my friend continues to date him.
i have 2 questions, 1. how am i to support her when hes done things to hurt her in the past.. she hates that i dont like him, even though i try to hide it and say i do. 2. even though its already happening, how can i keep us from growing apart because she doesnt like how im not extatic about her dating this guy (link)
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ehhh, tough situation but ive been there... only i was the girlfriend haha.. i think what you really should do is just be honest with the both of them. somehow, tell her that youre her best friend, and you dont want to see her hurt, and you dont approve of how her boyfriend treats her, but its not your relationship, so you would rather just not be friendly with the guy, and tell her you hope she understands why you dont want anything to do with him.. let her know that you will be there for her if she needs to talk about the relationship, or if he hurts her, you will be there for her... that is how you can be supportive.. and let him know the same thing.. tell him no hard feelings, but truth me told, you dont like him or approve of the way he treats her, and that's why you dont want to be around him.
to be honest, i know this is a tough situation for you, and she's your best friend.. but theres really nothing you can do about them dating, you know? its her life.. you dont necessarily have to be supportive to her in the sense that shes dating him (by acting like youre happy theyre together) but be supportive for her if he hurts her(like i said). try not to talk about it, so you dnt push her friendship away, like i said, theres nothing you can do about it, so dont keep telling her how much you hate him.. that is what will ultimately break your friendship up, because she will become annoyed.
and try to make plans with her without her boyfriend being around once in a while, so that you do get some friendship alone time, that will keep you two from breaking your friendship up..
hope i helped :)
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http://img37.imageshack.us/img37/6162/meandtaylor.jpg
Who is prettier? the girl on the left or the girl on the right?
THANKS! (link)
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i think they are both absolutly hideous. but if i had had had haaaaad to choose.. i guess it would be the one on the right. i still think shes hideous though. theyre both really ugly, and im not just trying to be a jerk, but they really are not pretty..
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hey my friend has bulemia.. and i dont understand what happens. she doesnt eat around me and she says she can eat by herself but when she does she says she cant control herself and eats too much and ends up throwing up. she can still drink coffee though is that weird??
i dont understand she doesnt look like shes losing weight but shouldnt she be if shes not eating??? shes 18/55kg..why does she do it to herself?? cant she just stop if she wants to??
she says shes too scared to get help cos she has been battling since she was 16 but on and off, [[iv seen her eat when she didnt have it and its recently come back, this is the 2nd time iv seen her with it since we'v been friends and shes had it 4 times but the 1st was the worst time when she lost the most weight]]
her family doesnt know she has it again and im trying to get her to seek help by going to councilling but i know she doesnt want to go cos she is scared. she said she will if i am with her. what else can i do to help her??--thanx! (link)
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one of my best friends had this for two years. it was so sad, and it got to the point we were scared for life and it was to either temporarily lose her as a friend, and tell someone, or lose her for good. her parents aernt really "parents" to her. they dont really notice her, you know, theyre just not around. so she did a good job hiding it from them. first of all, i think you should do a little bit off google researching on what bulimea is and what ways you can help her. because it seems like you dont really understand the illness. this is a PSYCHOLOGICAL disorder... no body that has it, actually wants to have it. it becomes an addiction, and a cycle, and it takes control over your mind, and it's very hard to stop. she may want to stop, but it's not all that easy. ( go read up about it, theres waaaaay more to it).... and she may not begin to lose weight for a while. my friend actually was kind of big, & she didnt start losing the weight till about 6 months later. it depends how often they are purging, and also on their body type. also, it might not be bulemia. its only bulemia if she is MAKING herself throw her food up. you can help her by talking to her about it. research research research and let her know the serious dangers of it, and let her know that if she doesnt let you help her to go talk to someone and get help, then her life will be at stake. you reeeeally should tell one of her parents. wheather shes going to be mad at you or not, she'll thank you in the end when you saved her life, trust me. whatever you decide to do though, PLEAAAAASE dont let this pass you by.. cus if in the end, something happens, you'll have the guilt that you could have easily prevented it..
hope i helped and good luck!!!(:
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ok,
well iv started going out with this girl, and we have went out before but she left me for her ex. and i understood at the time because well they had something differnt and yeah.
but now we are going out again and she said at the beggining she definately doesnt like her ex again. but now she wants to give it a break for a while to sort out her head. because she said she wants to make 100 percent sure she wont fuck me over again and she isnt sure whats going on in her head about him. she said she knows they dont work and she doesnt want to have these feelings.
so do you think its over? i mean...i know your probably gonna say its not worth it that she is just messing me around or whatever i just was wondering your opinion of whether or not you think she will go back to her ex. like i was one of her best friends after we broke up the first time and we get along great and she said she has liked me for ages and shouldnt havee broken up with me in the first place. but i she was just angry at her ex?
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ill tell you flat out what i think.... i definitely do not think that this is the end of all of your problems with her and her ex. find out how the ex feels about her. because when you date someone for a while, and you really love them, but it didnt work out.. its hard to let it go, especially when the person doesnt leave you alone. so if the ex is always texting her saying he misses her and stuff like that, its hard not to fall for it, trust me. i did the same thing to my boyfriend with my ex.. only i ended up cheating on him because i loved my boyfriend and didnt wanna lose him, but i wanted to see what it would feel like getting back with my ex. my boyfriend eventually got sick of it and now we are over... anyways, i always say that i am COMPLETELY done with my ex, but he always makes his way back to me one way or another. and its always a problem.. it sucks =/ but i really think you need to persuade her that if things didnt work out before with the two of them, chances are, they never will. and try to find out who her ex is, and try to one up him, and make her want you more than him. dont let her think he has anything you dont..
hope i helped & good luck
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