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in my early 20s i had a affair with a lady 20 years older than me the sneeking around was quite a thrill we always met up most wednesday evenings after her visit to weightwatchers we would then drive to a quite spot and have fantasic sex or i would take days off work and we would go to a hotel for the day where the sex was better as i was a lot younger than her i was enjoying what was to be a great adventure. as i was a shy person i would never had done anything like this. as time went on i was falling in love with her and she told me that she loved me. this lasted for 18 months for her then to tell me she was going back to her husband . this turned out to be untrue she went back to a past affair she was having.this lady took away 18 months of my life as i had offers from girls my own age to get to know. since the break up i have been married for 12 years but the sex isnt the same when i iam releaving my self iam always thinking about what i did during this affair with this lady. she always got me performing sex positons that i only saw on porn films this was such a turn on for me just like her perfoming on me being giving a blow job by this lady was awsome and me making her come with my middle finger was fantasic just to hear her moan and groan. i always got a hard on by just looking at her.this doesnt happen now unless i am thinking about this affair. can you give me some advice please to help me get over my past. (link)
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First few words... Its all in your subconscious... You loved some one in your teen age and that's very natural... you loved her away from time and society... You have enjoyed your first moments with her... Since these first moments are precious and you don't want to loose all those moment in past so you are still keeping them alive.. You want her, so even when you are with your partner, you are actually assuming that you are with that first lady... But past is way back from today.... you have a good married life and you can not ruin your life on the cost of some old memory (it may be your first love).
What you can do is... ask few questions to yourself honestly.... what is your wife means to you? can you live without her? Can you live isolated...??? Do you still want to remember a guy who left you in a trauma of emotions... ?
And remember "Far away drums are nice"...
So better stop thinking about her... live your life as a happy and satisfied human... and overpower you subconscious....
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Ok, rhis is sort of personal, but you know how when girls 'mature' they get vegina hair? Well, when you're going to have sex do you shave it or what? Plz help!
~Angela (link)
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Average Girl is matured at age of 16... and Vagina hairs doesn't reflect maturity... this is all about hormones and if your hormones goes activated fastly you will have physical changes very soon... This can be seen not only in hairs but in breasts and also the Monthly periods...
If you want to shave the hairs, you can...and Its your and your partners wish ... but remember to use condom for safe sex....
regards
Sandeep
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my boyfriend of 2 years and i just recently broke up. i started hooking up with this other gorgeous guy and now that guy is confusing me. i have just realized that i no longer have someone that gives a shit about how my day went. its hard to swallow. haha. i am used to being with this man everyday and i never had to figure out something to do. i miss it. i miss having a someone. a something. what do i do? im already tired of being alone. damn. (link)
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Hi Friend,
First few things you should not down,, what concerns you- your loneliness or something from your past relationship. If the answer is past relationship... you have to find what went wrong? and why you broke up with a 2 year long relationship... Please don't mind... but some time our subconscious give us guilt feeling... You may tie with some one cute or descent guy... but untill you find the answer to the above question... you will not feel peace.... So best way is to realise what was the root of the problem that ruined your last relationship... If you will be able to findout the reason... you will be happy ... it may be alone or may be with someone else....
I hope this will help you...
Regards
Sandeep
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14/f.
One of my closest friends, Cody, is like my younger brother. We're very close, and I'm worried about him.
He's my age and he's a stoner, which I have no problem with since I am, too.
But, he's already having sex. He's already had sex with two girls! One was Arlena, who we all now hate, and the other is his current girlfriend, Alicia. I know it's his life and everything, but he does it SO OFTEN. Like, every Wednesday. One time, she was actually freaking out because she thought she was pregnant. He's a good person, though. He loves her, and he talks about marrying her and all that crap.
But should I tell him to slow down or what?
Thanks in advance (link)
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Hi Friend,
Its good that you are worried about your friend/Brother.. But if you feel that he is not on the right way.. you should tell him about your concerns... Since there is a saying "Nip the evil in the Bud"... If you want to help him ... best thing is to "TALK"... I know its his personal life.. but if he respects your concerns, he will definitely listen you.... Otherwise let him do what he wants... you can not do anything!!!
Regards
Sandeep
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