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Is my BFF moving too fast?
14/f.
One of my closest friends, Cody, is like my younger brother. We're very close, and I'm worried about him.
He's my age and he's a stoner, which I have no problem with since I am, too.
But, he's already having sex. He's already had sex with two girls! One was Arlena, who we all now hate, and the other is his current girlfriend, Alicia. I know it's his life and everything, but he does it SO OFTEN. Like, every Wednesday. One time, she was actually freaking out because she thought she was pregnant. He's a good person, though. He loves her, and he talks about marrying her and all that crap.
But should I tell him to slow down or what?
Thanks in advance<3
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If Cody is like your little brother, then i think you should talk to him. Tell him to slow things down. He is to young and should think about the consequences that can come of this. If he's in love with Alicia, then he should think about what could happen if she ever actually did get pregnant. Tell him that you know that everything has consequences to it, but this consequence is one that will last him his whole life.
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I definitely think you should talk to him about it. You don't want him to make a mistake that could cause the future of his whole life ruined. He is very young and needs to have fun doing other things. What i would do, is talk to him about your concern and tell him the consenquences of doing these things. If he dosen't listen to you, or take your advice, then at least you tried. It's good that you are looking out for him and being a good friend. Good luck!
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Hi Friend,
Its good that you are worried about your friend/Brother.. But if you feel that he is not on the right way.. you should tell him about your concerns... Since there is a saying "Nip the evil in the Bud"... If you want to help him ... best thing is to "TALK"... I know its his personal life.. but if he respects your concerns, he will definitely listen you.... Otherwise let him do what he wants... you can not do anything!!!
Regards
Sandeep
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Quick question: Why is he like your younger brother if you guys are the same age?
Sorry that was the first thing that popped into my head, haha. Okay, anyway, you might want to have a talk with him. It's not good to be a stoner or have multiple partners at that age. It's not good to be a stoner at any age. Just let him know that you're concerned about him and that you don't want him to hurt himself by moving too quickly.
You can't really lecture him about being a stoner because you are too. Just let him know that he shouldn't sleep around or have unprotected sex. I'm guessing it's not protected if his girlfriend thought he was pregnant.
Don't try to lecture or tell him what to do or not to do. Just let him know that you're there for him and that he needs to be careful and to protect himself.
Darby(:
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