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Ok I met a girl about a month ago and she's really cool we talk everyday and we've hung out with each other I think I might like her but her last break up was really bad and she's pretty much like I'm done with guys but I'm willing to wait but how will I know when the time is right? (link)
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When you see her start talking to guys, you should probably jump right in and tell her how you feel. You wanna make sure she is interested in dating again. Girls always say there done with guys, but that can change at anytime.
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ok this is going to sound completely and totally psycho but whatever. so 1st of all, im so in love with my boyfriend. but he really cant deal with life anymore.
hes bipolar, hears voices, has depression and a bunch of other problems. but you would never know any of this because he is the class clown and captain of the football team. he always acts really animated and pretends to be the happiest guy in the world. but hes not.
i really love him so much but he wants to commit suicide so bad. ive talked to him about it and stopped him countless times. but now hes at the point where hes at peace with dying and is ready to go. i would be devastated if he did this and i would probably take my own life. i cry about this every night and i cant stand to think about it. but this is what he wants to do and i know it is.
the only reasons hes not doing it because he doesnt want to hurt me, and hes afraid of going to hell. but heres the thing, i had this completely psycho thought of killing him. out of love, but still. i was gonna go over one day and give him a hug and kiss him, then hold a gun to his back and shoot him. i know it soundsss completely crazy, but then it would save him from going to hell, and i would go instead. and he would not worry about me being sad, because i was the one to do it and i would just put the gun to my head next anyway. i dont know if i could bring myself to kill the love of my life, but the thought that he would finally be happy and in a better place than he is at now, makes me wanna do it. but i still think i sound completely psycho so can someone help me out with this. i dont wanna kill my boy. thankssssssss (link)
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omg, its so sad that you have to go through this and that your boyfriend is feeling this way. Keep doing what your doing to try to keep him from committing suicide. Try to make him love life more. Do things that he enjoys. Make him realize that he shouldn't give up yet, He has so many people that care about him. If hes captain of the football team and the class clown, he must have alot of friends that can help him.
Im sorry if i cant give you great advice, but stay alive, and stay together. He needs you.
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i have a very close friend who is sometimes physically abused by her mother. i, outside her nuclear family, am the only person who knows. her mother scratches at her skin and hits her, only on fridays so the marks will be gone by monday. she also yells at her far more than normal in front of me even and criticizes everything she does anywhere. my friend also is severly subservient as a consequence and apologizes for trivial things very frequently, among other things. i think these are signs of mental abuse, from being so traumatized. i would do something about it as soon as i found out, except that i think, and i know my friend thinks, it would cause more problems for her in the long run. we'll be off to college in one moe year. she also has a younger brother who undergoes the same. what should i do, if anything? (link)
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You should tell someone. Your friend would regret it when she is older, and looking back knowing she didn't do anything about it. What will happen to her little brother when she is off to college? He wont have anyone to go to, and it will just be him all alone.
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One of my closest friends, Cody, is like my younger brother. We're very close, and I'm worried about him.
He's my age and he's a stoner, which I have no problem with since I am, too.
But, he's already having sex. He's already had sex with two girls! One was Arlena, who we all now hate, and the other is his current girlfriend, Alicia. I know it's his life and everything, but he does it SO OFTEN. Like, every Wednesday. One time, she was actually freaking out because she thought she was pregnant. He's a good person, though. He loves her, and he talks about marrying her and all that crap.
But should I tell him to slow down or what?
Thanks in advance (link)
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If Cody is like your little brother, then i think you should talk to him. Tell him to slow things down. He is to young and should think about the consequences that can come of this. If he's in love with Alicia, then he should think about what could happen if she ever actually did get pregnant. Tell him that you know that everything has consequences to it, but this consequence is one that will last him his whole life.
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