my boyfriend of 2 years and i just recently broke up. i started hooking up with this other gorgeous guy and now that guy is confusing me. i have just realized that i no longer have someone that gives a shit about how my day went. its hard to swallow. haha. i am used to being with this man everyday and i never had to figure out something to do. i miss it. i miss having a someone. a something. what do i do? im already tired of being alone. damn.
First few things you should not down,, what concerns you- your loneliness or something from your past relationship. If the answer is past relationship... you have to find what went wrong? and why you broke up with a 2 year long relationship... Please don't mind... but some time our subconscious give us guilt feeling... You may tie with some one cute or descent guy... but untill you find the answer to the above question... you will not feel peace.... So best way is to realise what was the root of the problem that ruined your last relationship... If you will be able to findout the reason... you will be happy ... it may be alone or may be with someone else....
imissthis answered Sunday May 24 2009, 4:51 pm: Hey, do NOT start hooking up with other guys! It doesn't help at all, believe me. Start seeing your friends more and try to keep busy with them and family. It helps a lot. But really, don't find random cute guys just because you miss having that feeling. It takes time to get over someone and that's not a way to go about doing it. Appreciate the time you've spent with your ex boyfriend and think about what you've learned from your relationship. The times that you'd usually spend with him, try to be with others that you have fun with and love. It's really the best thing. It'll take time though, so know that you're not going to stop feeling this way for a while. Just don't try to fill the void with another guy that's just a rebound [ imissthis's advice column | Ask imissthis A Question ]
coconutcatastrophe answered Sunday May 24 2009, 11:40 am: i just got out of a long-term relationship so i know how you feel, it sucks =/. but honestly, you can't let a guy ruin your life, remember all of the fun times you had before you dated him and replay them, go out with friends, throw parties, just get out of the house and get your mind off of it. love yourself and then he'll come along :) [ coconutcatastrophe's advice column | Ask coconutcatastrophe A Question ]
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