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i am 16/f.my boyfriend is very frank with me. he says there is nothing to be shy about when we both love each other. i know he has a point but i just can't stop getting shy. one of these days he asked me what i use to shave my genitals and i went red like a tomato. he laughed....did not mind though.i love him a lot and truly i have no problem with him. i just start getting butterflies when he gets closer with naughty chats or physically...and i am shy though i know i am very comfortable with him in every aspect . i know he will respect my feelings but still i am shy. and yesterday...he said he could not control so he started kissing me and stuff.....he didnot penetrate but he was touching me and licking me over there....i was moaning like hell....and twisting like anything...he had a hard time to put me in place and continue and i pleaded him to stop bcuz i was feeling shy but he continued..and suddenly i felt this urge to pee.....but he still continued and....i started feeling something i can't explain...like someone is tickling me and i want it to get over but i don't want it to stop .... finally he pinned me down with his weight n made me helpless n continued doing his stuff till i ....started trembling...he stopped and asked me to let go but i didn't, he said he wanted to see it but i didn't....finally he gave up. is this shyness normal?..was the moaning and twisting and asking him to stop normal?...was the urge to pee and trembling normal?....if i really let go infront of him...will he feel good or..will nothing come out other than urine?...plz help. he is really sad and i am too. (link)
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From what I have read you don't seem emotionally ready for this kind of relationship. That peeing sensation is the feeling you get before orgasm. All these things are. Completely natural and if you were to release this feeling it would feel very good. But only do this if you are ready. I suggest if you have sex to use a condom. Be safe and have fun
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Your Open Question: Why would my girlfriend plant an earring that isn't hers in our bedroom?
Before you answer with the obvious maybe she didn't or I'm just paranoid. I rummaged through our kitchen garbage and found the matching earring tied up in a bag inside the garbage can. Why did I search for it? Because I wanted to prove my innocence and I knew she was up to something. The question I want to pose is as follows. Is this a manipulation attempt, or she trying to break it off with me? (link)
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Why not confront her? Tell her you found the other earring in the garbage and ask how it got there. Just call her out, it is inevitable it seems so you might as well do it before it escalates.
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So, my boyfriend got me the new Taylor Swift cd "red" for Christmas. It was really sweet because i love Taylor:) anyways, Im trying to decide what to get him. Hes thirteen. Any ideas? Thanks:) (link)
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Does he have a certain artist he likes? Maybe find him a cd of his favorite music artist like he did for you? Maybe a t-shirt of a band/tv show/movie he likes?
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It's me and my girlfriend's 1 year anniversary coming up and I'm wanting to give her a booklet with 365 reasons for why I love her. I have the reasons written down on random bits of scrap paper and I was wondering if anyone knew where I could find a booklet made for this purpose? A blank booklet made for '365 reasons I love about you' or something like that? I just can't find one! Our anniversary is on the 21st (I know I know end of the world and all that) so a quick response would be amazing! Thank you! (link)
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Go to a craft store or the craft section of a local store, pick out some cute paper and some normal blank paper, type up the reasons in cute fonts on your computer and print them out, cut them all to the same size and punch holes through each piece on the same corner, use the cute paper your found and decorate it and write whatever title you think is best, the first page should be a sweet note, or maybe even the last page, put the cute paper on the top of the stack and the other on the bottom, string some twine or ribbon through the holes you punched on the corners and tie together to make a little flip book, maybe even stick some cute pictures you have of the two of you in the book too, the things you could do are endless and this is a way cute idea!
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What kind of gift a girl like most? (link)
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It doesn't have to be spendy. depending on the relationship which I am going to assume is a romantic one I would say a framed picture would be sweet, maybe a necklace (Doesn't have to be spendy) They have cute ones at almost any store for under 20$
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Okay so basically i want to try hookah, I'm of legal age and everything but I 'm scared. A lot of the people i hang out with do it, but they have done it before. Some of them have also done marijuana so hookah isn't a big deal. I really want to try it though. My question is...if I do it once, am I going to get addicted? How addicted? If i do a couple puffs what will happen? Does it have an effect on you? Also, is it going to burn? And how do I avoid not coughing my lungs out when I try it? haha, thank you so much! and please don't try to convince me not to do it, thank guys!! (link)
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I've smoked Hookah since I was 16, I have Asthma and have never had a problem with it, it's very smooth and doesn't burn and they have a lot of yummy flavors, it isn't addicting either it has some nicotine in it but it's around .003% I believe. It's fun and it really isn't anything to be afraid of, You can train yourself to blow 0's and I like to get bubble wands and blow smoke bubbles. Just try it once and if you don't like it don't do it again.
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I've ordered a vibrator online before without issue and I just ordered another a few days ago. Then it hit me, will the post office know I ordered a vibrator? I was checking the tracking number and it was on my towns post office under "arrival scan" and that scared me because I know two people who work at my towns post office and the box will obviously have my name on it. But I don't want anyone to know what I bought. (link)
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With items in that category they usually have discrete shipping, you can even check online from the site you ordered it from and it usually tells you if that is the case. Even so it usually just has the warehouse address.
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Ok so i'm really sick and I went to the doctor today. They said I had to take medication for my lungs (pills) so I didn't make a big deal out of it.
Well, I have to take them for 5 days (once a day) because my lungs are like inflamed or something. I took my first one, and it tasted like puke! I'm not overreacting at all! And I didn't throw up in my mouth. I tried drinking AND eating something and the taste didn't go away. Nothing made it go away! I even tried plugging my nose.
What do I do? I have 4 days left and the taste just can't go away. And putting/mashing it in food won't help either. Please help me! Now i'm afraid i'll throw it up in my sleep or something ;( (link)
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Take your pill with a very sweet or flavorful drink, and then brush your teeth(and tongue) after, then suck on some mints or maybe even chew some flavored gum.
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i dont want to tone my hair because my hair is very dried out & damaged so i was wondering to tone my blonde, brassy hair can i just dye it a manic panic purple & when it fades will it be toned? thanks! ( i chose manic panic because i heard is vegan ) (link)
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Manic panic has a toner actually called snow white.
Also, there is a line of hair products called Bed Head, they have toning shampoo and conditioner, I'd buy these and switch them out with whatever you are using, it helps get rid of yellowing and keeps hair toned.
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How do can a girl have good sex for her first time? (link)
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That's difficult seeing as the breaking of the hymen is painful, I'd say have a lot of four play, let him make you feel good before hand, and then have him enter slow and gentle, maybe you even get on top so you have more control of the rate of penetration, it will hurt at first, but if you are gentle and slowly progress it will feel lovely.
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If me and my girl have sex and I ejactulate and then she hops on after that and I don't clean it up and we start having sex can she still get pregnant (link)
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Yes
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I'm 12 years old and in one month I'm going on vacation will a guy that has been my best friend since I was 5. we will be swimming a lot in the ocean and in regular pools, and I would use a tampon but I'm scared, because about 2 months ago I went to Hawaii and I used a tampon without any problems, but the next time i went snorkeling about 5 mins after I got out of the water (I was on a boat) there was blood runnning down my leg and everyone saw, so I don't know if tampons are reliable and if the bathroom is close enouph for me to run to at the beach if I have another tampon problem. (link)
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Here's a few tips from girl to girl.
When selecting your tampons, choose one labeled Super or Super Absorbent these ones absorb a lot more, Also, pick a nice juice drink and pour about a cap or two full of apple cider vinegar in it, it slows the flow a bit, bring it with you in a water bottle.
Hope this helps.
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Hi 16/f
Okay so I've always been under average weight and under on BMI and my family is all skinny but at the beginning of this year I decided to watch what I eat (idk why I was just scared or really really self consciousness of being chubby). So I started cutting all the crisps and chocolate out because I always used to eat loads of rubbish everyday.. then a few months later I noticed like two reddy purple lines on my higher inner thigh..
My question is how on earth could I get stretch marks when I change from the diet I've had all my life to a healthier diet, surely I couldn't of gained weight? I just don't understand soo advice on stretch marks and how I could of got them please... Thanks (link)
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I can see your frustration, I have always eaten relatively healthy, when I started getting stretch marks I was frustrated. It's very common to get them because of growth spurts, you could have simply just gone through one. Get Bio Oil, or Cocoa Butter and apply it on your hips, thighs, and breasts, these are the places I found I got stretch marks on the most when I was growing.
Also there is this chemical peel you can order online, TCA peel acid, I ordered some and applied it to my stretch marks, I let it frost then neutralized it. It burnt and peeled but after a few weeks I noticed my stretch marks were a lot fainter, I did it again a few months later and they're barely noticeable, however since you're a few years younger I'd suggest you'd get a friend or your mother or even a sibling to help you if you choose to do this.
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Hi 16/f
Okay so I've always been under average weight and under on BMI and my family is all skinny but at the beginning of this year I decided to watch what I eat (idk why I was just scared or really really self consciousness of being chubby). So I started cutting all the crisps and chocolate out because I always used to eat loads of rubbish everyday.. then a few months later I noticed like two reddy purple lines on my higher inner thigh..
My question is how on earth could I get stretch marks when I change from the diet I've had all my life to a healthier diet, surely I couldn't of gained weight? I just don't understand soo advice on stretch marks and how I could of got them please... Thanks (link)
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I can see your frustration, I have always eaten relatively healthy, when I started getting stretch marks I was frustrated. It's very common to get them because of growth spurts, you could have simply just gone through one. Get Bio Oil, or Cocoa Butter and apply it on your hips, thighs, and breasts, these are the places I found I got stretch marks on the most when I was growing.
Also there is this chemical peel you can order online, TCA peel acid, I ordered some and applied it to my stretch marks, I let it frost then neutralized it. It burnt and peeled but after a few weeks I noticed my stretch marks were a lot fainter, I did it again a few months later and they're barely noticeable, however since you're a few years younger I'd suggest you'd get a friend or your mother or even a sibling to help you if you choose to do this.
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Heyy i need advice im 13 and i want to be pretty.All my friends are Beatiful and then theres me. I have Red hair and sky blue eyes,i have a very round face and im not skinny but not fat. Im 5'4. I dont know what is nice to wear im not the preepy type and not the tomboy type I need help. Im very pale all my friends are very tan, they say i look like a ghost, how can i fix that? Cause i dont want to be a person who tans everyday.I need tips. I wear make-up but im usally called fake how could i be more...natural? i want to look pretty, and aprochable...help please! (link)
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First off, your pale skin, if you want it tan, you can buy a tanning lotion/spf (usually around4-10 spf) at Sally's, it will protect you from burning but still help you tan.
Don't cake on the make up, do a bit of mascara, light brown or gold eyeshadow, don't over do it, do a thin coat, do a thin line of eyeliner on the top lid(none on the bottom)
As for your hair you could always straighten it, or even curl it and leave it down. Disregard what your friends say, dress and look however you want, whatever makes you feel beautiful.
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s it weird that i just want to wear regular panties? all of my friends wear thongs like all the time now and they keep telling me i should to...but thongs look really uncomfortable i dont want anything stuck up my but im totally comfortable wearing my normal bikini panties...shud i try wearing thongs? (link)
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That is not weird at all. When I was first entered highschool I had a hard time easing into that kind of stuff. Thongs and bikini are both very comfortable however in my opinion. I suggest maybe buying a pair and wearing them for a day to see if you like them.
If you don't you should feel no pressure.
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so i have had this guy best friend for about 3 years now and he tends to get a lot of admirers , he finds it annoying when a girl like him (unless he likes the back) and has always considered me as "the safe girl". I think im really falling for him now but have no idea what to do! Any ideas? (link)
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I was in this same situation when I was in school.
I had a great guy friend and he had a lot of girls that liked him, I fell for him and though we did end up dating I wish I had stopped myself. We eventually broke up and it destroyed our friendship, that was two years ago and we barely started talking again.
Weigh the pros and cons, there's plenty of fish in the sea but a good friend is hard to come by.
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About how long does sex hurt the first time? How long after you have sex does it hurt? Is there alot of blood when your hymen brakes? What can I wear, what can I not wear? What position should I be in? Should I rap my legs around him? I need help becuase I'm really nervous about it. Please give me advice! (link)
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The pain varies for everyone, for me it last about two minutes, penetration hurt the most, the amount of bloods varies, I didn't bleed that much, wear a condom make sure it's a reliable one, I'd say missionary is easy, but if you want more control you could be on top so you could control the speed of entry.
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im 17 and a girl and i have stretch marks! Ive never been pregnant or anything and im not fat, a little on the larger side but still. First why do i have stretch marks? There not just on my stomach but also on my lower back hips and top of my breast! Also how can i get rid of them. Preferably something i can buy thats cheap and at like a local drug store. HELP?! (link)
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Stretch marks are very common, a lot of people don't even get them from gaining weight but growth spurts, when your body does all this growing at once you get stretch marks. IF you want to prevent any more you can buy this stuff called "Bio-oil" and rub it on the areas stretch marks are most common, my sister used it when she was pregnant and so did my sister in law, they hardly got any stretch marks, however there is no way to get them to go away without going to a plastic surgeon.
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OK, so my boyfriend and I had sex last monday. I have been thinking that I may be pregnant (I'm 18)but my parents don't like my boyfriend. I am determined to tell them if I am pregnant that it was with my boyfriend ( of which they don't know about nor do they like). How can I go about telling them if i am pregnant that I am pregnant without them yelling at me or freaking out?
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Have you even taken a pregnancy test? I suggest you take one before freaking them out like that. But really it's inevitable.
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