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Questions about virginity
About how long does sex hurt the first time? How long after you have sex does it hurt? Is there alot of blood when your hymen brakes? What can I wear, what can I not wear? What position should I be in? Should I rap my legs around him? I need help becuase I'm really nervous about it. Please give me advice!
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The pain varies for everyone, for me it last about two minutes, penetration hurt the most, the amount of bloods varies, I didn't bleed that much, wear a condom make sure it's a reliable one, I'd say missionary is easy, but if you want more control you could be on top so you could control the speed of entry.
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If its with someone you care about none of that stuff matters. If its not then you'll have plenty of other experiences and chances to get it right.
Girls tend to over exaggerate and try way to hard to please they're guy sexually when it's not necessary (in a real relationship). Don't misunderstand me, sex is alright to have but if your with someone that truly cares about you he won't be wishing you'll do the things girls do in porn for him. All you need to do is make sure your ready for this step in your relationship, relax, and... Well a few other things
Your right the first time will be painful but it's do able when you know what your doing. First thing you need to do is buy lube and condoms if your not on the pill. The lube will make it a lot easier and less painful for you to have sex. And the condoms... Well that should be obvious, if it's not maybe you should rethink this.
Try not to be so nervous about this because sex is something your going to enjoy with him; you will never feel as close as you are during it (I mean both emotionally and physically). Later on your going to want to experiment, find out what each other likes and that's when you ask about sex positions
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Losing your virginity is a very sensitive topic. The best advice I can give you is to take it slowly. Going too fast too soon can be a painful experience. As for the pain, it really varies from person to person, it can hurt a lot to where you beg them to stop, and it could hurt minimal, to the point you don't really notice it. You may be sore down there for a little while, but so long as you take care of yourself, you will get over the pain quickly. When the hymen breaks, the blood loss can range from a few drops to a couple of table spoons. As for positions, when losing your virginity, him being on top is typically the most comfortable, that way you can maneuver your legs to suit your comfort needs. As for wrapping your legs around him, it really depends if it is comfortable for you. As I have previously stated, take it slowly, and ensure to let him know whether you wish for him to go slower and more gently. You don't want your first experience to be an awful one. Don't be afraid to let him know if it hurts too much. Take it slow, and let him know.
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