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My boyfriend is upset...
Sooo me and my boyfriend were hanging out today and this one boy named Thomas came over there. He HATES him. Thomas tried to do a whole lot of stuff to me in the past so Justin(boyfriend) kind of wants to kill him.. He is really upset and angry and I don't know how to help him cool down and get over it.. I need advice!!
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Just tell justin that thomas doesn't mean anything to you and that he's the only person you care about.
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This is something you cant exactly do anything about. Guys and girls are very different so it's important to try and understand each other. Your boyfriend cares a lot about you and does not like to hear that you were taken advantage of by someone, so he will be angry with this person (that's just how guys are). What you need to do is try and understand him and if you can't, support him anyways. His hearts in the right place, It would be much worse if your boyfriend didn't give a crap right?
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I have been in this position and believe me its best that your loyalty stays with your boyfriend. No matter what you do or say to your boyfriend he isn't going to change his mind about how he feels about Thomas. It's best that you just leave things be and maybe hang out with them seperately or if Thomas is trying to do things then I would step away from him and be with your boyfriend. I had this guy who I was friends with and my boyfriend wasn't crazy about him. I went to dinner with this kid and we talked just as friends. Well this guy seemed to want to be more than friends. Things happened and my boyfriend was quite upset and didn't really want me to hang out with this guy. I'm respecting my boyfriend's wishes and I'm not hanging out with this kid because one I don't feel comfortable and two I care too much about my boyfriend to hurt him or to bring stress into my relationship. I think in this case unfortunately you might need to choose and I think the choice is obvious.
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