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This guy at a party just asked me for sex as soon as we started talking
I was a party at my friends house and there was this guy that came up to me and he was lik hey and he asked me how old I was and I said 14 and he asked me if I wanted to have sex. I said no, but im lik really freaked out and I cant stop thinking about what happened that night.
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The boy was being a jerk. I was 12 going on 13 when a girl asked the same thing of me in school, so I know how you must be feeling.
For some reason that boy thinks that line just might work and he will have sex. I do not think any girl has ever given in to that line and if she had he would probably run of scared. Don't think anything about it. Other than being female you did nothing to encourage him. He may have been showing off for his friends as well.
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Time to grow up, if your going to be going to high school party's there going to be sex, alcohol, and drugs.
If you don't want to be around it DONT GO, simple
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It is freaky when that happens. Avoid that person. The reason people tend to think about this type of thing is because we tend to blame ourselves for attracting this attention. Also we want to know what it would be like. It is natural to feel this way, but it is confusing. A mixture of discust guilt and intrigue. Think about it as long as it takes to sort it out. Those are complex feelings to sort through. And the only person that can answer "why" is you. This is why adults say it is hard to grow up. You have mearly guidence, no answers without the struggle for it.
Talk to your parents about it and remind them that you reacted well and more to the point wise, you know your readyness better than anyone. And honesty. Those are values parents respect and even admire in their children.
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