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Hi I am 16 years old.
It so happens that in my math tutions there was this guy who I really liked so I became friends with him quickly and when school reopened after summer holidays I came to know that my enemy no. 1 is his childhood friend. So since she hates me she spreads rumours that I am dating him and all. So because in my dream land I wanted tht to happen, when ppl asked me if its true I said YES. and I lied alot. Then after many problems I finally told him the truth but he replied by saying he understood it and doesnt want to discuss the issu. so now he isnt my friend at all. I see him everyday as we r in the same college, my friends say that he looks at me whenevr I am looking away. Why does he do that if he doesnt want to talk to me ? I really love him. Its going to be 2 years now. And I have tried forgetting him but everytime I see him my knees go so week.....PLZ PLZ help me !!! (link)
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When he is looking at you while you are looking away, he is thinking one of two things. First, that he likes you but is afraid that you don't like him. And second he may be thinking about if your lie was true.
One way or another he is thinking of you.
Ill let you in on a little secret about us guys. We may be good at hiding it but we have just as complex emotions as you ladies do. Our typical reaction to hurt is cold anger.
My advice, don't even look at him. Of course you can't help thinking about him but act as if he is just any other boy. He will eventually respond, he might even think you are mad at him.
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I wish to thank God for Switzerland and the people there who recently voted to make the unsuccessful treatment of depression a qualification for their physician assisted program. I intend to use it. I will not be leaving any family behind because God took them all from me and left me with severe depression for the last 6 years and horrible back pain. I believe this is God's way of giving me a way out. Please tell me how this is wrong? No responses from born agains because they are not saved ad will not be going to heaven anyway. (link)
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Only God can say who is saved.
Through stuggle we gain stength, to soldier on is truly admirable.
However I can't possably imagine the pain of your loss, only you can answer those things.
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... could that ever happen????? i mean, i know i'm fat, im 230 pounds. i've come to terms with it but... is it possible for a hot guy to like a chuby girl? i think i have a good personality. i have a great sense of humor, im girly, and i have brown cruly hair, and my friends all coo at me because i'm "cute' sometimes... i mean, is it possible? the guy i like is muscular and hot. i don't expect anything, but i'm just wondering if in general such a thing is plausible... i've never been dated, or even kissed before, sois it because im fat? thanks. ~^3^~ (link)
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Of course it is. Eventhough he may be good looking he may value other things in a potential date. Just because some of us guys are shallow, dosent mean we all are. He may be a deep guy, who sees beauty in places where it actually is and not in places where people tell him it is.
One bit of advise, confadence is the number one most attractive aspect of a lady. A strong sence of self worth overshadows any point where you find an insecurity.
All women should know that they are attractive.
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Long story short :( , thing is my boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now and well it was only yesterday he found out that i spoke to my ex. Thing was that i told him i didnt speak to any of them until i spoke to my last ex , we dont speak it was just once. and he found out so ever since yesterday we aint spoken , he told me how things like this puts him off , how why would i say i dont speak to him if i do, he thinks i still feel something for my ex boyfriend but I have NOOO feelings towards him :( i took the blame cause i know shouldnt have spoken to him, then he said how im making him lose his trust in me & he had weird thoughts he thinks i want my ex back , but im in love with my boyfriend i love him more than anything i wouldnt leave him for my ex. I didnt mean to speak to my ex, it was just a normal conversation we had, & i told him i was sorry he was really angry , i dont wanna lose him :'( im scared , i think i made him doubt my feelings :(
PLEASE HELP MEE
iv apologised so much & nothing (link)
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Trust can only be mended with time, a gesture can help say deleating phone numbers and blocking social media, if you love him then it is worth it.
Once the trust comes back show him love in your way
He has to know he is number one to you
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Hi. So about a year ago during my senior year I started dating this guy. And we broke up because I lied to him. We still talk occasionally but its always me making the effort, he never ever texts me first, I am so in love with him even after a year of trying. I know its been awhile and I feel like my effort isn't appreciated. I know I should move on but I can't. Is there any advice? Should I tell him how I feel still, should I stop talking to him? Any advice also on how to move on from someone your this in love with? Thanks! (link)
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When you lied to him you hurt him, that is true, but his hurt can be fixed, if you still love him it is worth it.
He needs a gesture to show that you truly love him, I know it is hard to humble yourself but perhaps it can mend the hurt that he feels, it must be direct and honest. You may cry, but love is worth a hit to your pride.
As a guy, I know that we have just as much emotion as ladies we just spent our youth learning to supress emotion. Eventhough our bodies apear to be made of steel and our faces stone but our hearts are as tender as yours.
He will respect a direct and honest apology. And even though he may seem cold forgiveness is possable
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How far is a womans anis from the vagina (link)
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It varies but about an inch or three centemeters
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Idk why but I keep farting I'm a girl btw. Its really weird. I bet ur problably laughing but it's serious. I always poop too.... ALOT. I need help (link)
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Up your intake of fiber, typically gas is a result of not enough fiber.
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I been throwing up for the last few days and every time I eat or smell food I just want to vomit. What does that mean? I know I'm not pregnant. (link)
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Sounds like food poisoning, it can be mild or sevear
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When i try to play sports or any activity i sweat extremely.i use deo but it doesn't stop the sweat nor the smell,what do i do? (link)
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All you can do is shower more often. Hyperactive sweat glands are not really treatable.
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i am from india,kindly tell me whether someone can get hiv infection if some one ejaculate semen into ur faeces hole... (link)
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Anal sex, vaginal sex, oral sex yes. Any time a fluid gose from one person to another there is risk of aids.
Sex through the feces hole or anal sex is the number one way it was transmitted in the United states.
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I have a weird looking bubble on one of my toes, its kinda squishy and its huge! Should I pop it? what is in it causing it to be so squishy? Any advice will be appreciated :) (link)
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Sounds like a blister, do not pop it, just put on thick socks, it will pop on its own
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Ok so i was on my iphone. My parent put a passcode on it so only she can get in. I was on safari(google) and i was looking at stories. I accidentally clicked on one and saw the rating was M. So when i was going to go back. My i phone shut off. If she starts the phone then she'll see the last thing it was on! The Story! I can't tell her it was an accident, but i can't get into my iphone. the reason i can't tell her is because she wouldn't believe me even if it was an accident, then she'd tell my whole family and yell at me. I don't know what to do and i feel really depressed can someone please help!?!?!? (link)
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Was this story sexual in nature? And if so I assume you are young. Tell them the truth, you may be punished but it will be worse when they find out that you lied, and then they will question not only your motives but also your judgement. When they question your judgement they have no trust in you.
Tell them you know you did something wrong and you want to be honest. They will be more understanding when they find you are trying to saciate curiosity and are honest about it. Tell them why, even if the reason is because it was forbidden.
If you lie they will catch you when that bill comes
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How can I painlessly commit sucide? I do not want my wife or son to find me so I will most likely kill myself in a public restroom. (link)
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A wife and son, you have everything I ever wanted, how could you through that away for issues that are fixable.
Suicide will hurt, no matter how you do it. It will devistate your son and wife, that pain lasts for years.
Please rethink your decision, confide your frailties in your wife, you might find compassion there
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What is your opinion on age gaps? I'm talking 16 and 21.. is it wrong? is it okay if you've known them for a long. Is it okay to be friends with people that much older than you. I'm 16 f and hes 21 m. im worried even being friends makes him look like a bad guy. (link)
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Your worries are justifide, if you become more than friends he will be seen as a creep. I am sorry that scosity dosent accept such a small age gap when you are so young. But my brother who is 33 is with a woman who is 24, my buddy who married a woman who is 23 he is 31, and another friend is dating a lady who is ten years older. It is not wrong, but until that magic day when you go from 17 to 18 he will be cast in a creepy light.
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I like this guy and he likes me but both of us are to scared to make a move. He will barely even look at me and when I catch him staring he looks shameful. Should I be forward or what? I am 13 and a girl (link)
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I take it the boy is in your age or around. He is shy aparently, and that part of his nature will change. A lot of the times the reason boys don't make the first move is because they are not ready or they don't know if they are ready. I was once a teenaged boy and I spent a lot of time doing the same thing with the girl I crushed on, we met up not to long ago (we are both 30 now) and she said she felt the exact same way.
The only way to know is risk a question
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All my friends have a facebook. I really want one, but my mom, dad, and step dad say that I can't have one. How can I have one secretly (they all have facebooks) without them knowing?
fanks;)
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The reason they don't want you to have a facebook page (the real reason) is because they don't want you exposed to a very cruel world. I know that is stupid to you but as a person who sees the darkest sides of socity I garente you your pictures and stories and posts will be taken and used against you. Ananimity is a good thing
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I Hate My Body, And I Think I'm Fat. I've Been Starving Myself, But Then I Break Through And Eat. Please Tell Me How I Can FULLY Starve Myself For A Long Time. (Slso, I Don't Know If I'm Anorexic) (link)
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Anorexia is a mental state, I would say you have a definite possability of being anorexic.
Quick fixes never work. Loving yourself starts with accepting who you are. If you want to change, change your lifestyle, as a person who delt with body issues I can tell you this. Becoming well built or in shape or sexy, the hard way is the only way. Starving yourself will not help you. Becoming healthy is the only way. You need food to nurish your body.
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I was a party at my friends house and there was this guy that came up to me and he was lik hey and he asked me how old I was and I said 14 and he asked me if I wanted to have sex. I said no, but im lik really freaked out and I cant stop thinking about what happened that night. (link)
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It is freaky when that happens. Avoid that person. The reason people tend to think about this type of thing is because we tend to blame ourselves for attracting this attention. Also we want to know what it would be like. It is natural to feel this way, but it is confusing. A mixture of discust guilt and intrigue. Think about it as long as it takes to sort it out. Those are complex feelings to sort through. And the only person that can answer "why" is you. This is why adults say it is hard to grow up. You have mearly guidence, no answers without the struggle for it.
Talk to your parents about it and remind them that you reacted well and more to the point wise, you know your readyness better than anyone. And honesty. Those are values parents respect and even admire in their children.
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I am talking to this girl she likes me and i like her but i know i can do better there is this other girl who is much prettier and i think she like me but im not sure i can get her if i tried and shes really fun what should i do? (link)
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First, the idea of being in a "league" is false. Some really amazing women get together with some not so great guys. So get that nonsence out of your head.
Your looks, your personality and even your money are secondary to the amount of confadence.
It wouldn't matter what you look like if you have absolute confidence you are attractive to women. And you can't fake it.
Don't waste time on relationships that don't have any promise. Be honest with your self and those you love. If you think you can do better, than do it. Life is too short to settle for less than ideal.
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I always have dark circles under my eyes. Whenever i go to sleep, and wake up in the morning, my eyes are always swollen. Is there any way i can help prevent swollen eyes in the morning? I am tired of it! Thank you :) (link)
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Why your eyes swell is because there is soft tissue around your eyes, and eye lids, and fluid in your body tends to pool under the skin in these soft tissues, making a puffy spot. If you sleep on your stomach you should try and sleep on your back or side, gravity causes the fluid to pool. So if you elevate your head and sleep on your back it will lessen the effect
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